Question is asked, but..

• tranicide

  31 Mar 09, 01:01

  Hi guys, I've posted my little problem here before, and this is the topic.

  http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/342152

  Well, here is a little continuation from that topic..

  After our outing(old topic), things between us were rather good. There were some ups and downs, but things weren't really serious. After a long period of hesitation (yes I was a pussy back then), I've decided to pop the question to her, which is to be my girlfriend. I asked her on the 22nd of March and she said that she wanted 3 days to think it through. Well it had been more than 3 days, a week actually, and I haven't got a reply yet. I did ask her beforehand (3 days after the 22nd) about her answer, but she told me that she needed more time.

  Heres the thing. She had been hinting me before, and being a pussy and blockhead that I was, I didn't catch her hints. She was kinda waiting for me to ask, but I just didn't. But well, I finally did, and I popped the question. While I was "confessing", she gave that smile, like she was expecting it or something.
  (I had my own faults for not asking in the past, but that isn't important now)

  Well, now that I've said it, I haven't got a reply yet. Not that I'm impatient, its just that, if her answer is a "No", I would prefer if she told me earlier, and not make me wait.
  (I'm alittle bit drowsy, so pardon me if I've contradicted myself..)

  So what should I do now? Carry on waiting, or bring in the towel?

   

   

• Q.C.Pak

  31 Mar 09, 01:03

  Wah... fishing.

• parn

  31 Mar 09, 01:37

  Originally posted by tranicide:

  Hi guys, I've posted my little problem here before, and this is the topic.

  Well, here is a little continuation from that topic..

  After our outing(old topic), things between us were rather good. There were some ups and downs, but things weren't really serious. After a long period of hesitation (yes I was a pussy back then), I've decided to pop the question to her, which is to be my girlfriend. I asked her on the 22nd of March and she said that she wanted 3 days to think it through. Well it had been more than 3 days, a week actually, and I haven't got a reply yet. I did ask her beforehand (3 days after the 22nd) about her answer, but she told me that she needed more time.

  Heres the thing. She had been hinting me before, and being a pussy and blockhead that I was, I didn't catch her hints. She was kinda waiting for me to ask, but I just didn't. But well, I finally did, and I popped the question. While I was "confessing", she gave that smile, like she was expecting it or something.
  (I had my own faults for not asking in the past, but that isn't important now)

  Well, now that I've said it, I haven't got a reply yet. Not that I'm impatient, its just that, if her answer is a "No", I would prefer if she told me earlier, and not make me wait.
  (I'm alittle bit drowsy, so pardon me if I've contradicted myself..)

  So what should I do now? Carry on waiting, or bring in the towel?

   

   

  
  Ok, post her number in here and there will be many guys here who will help you to ask her.

  Is this the help that you require?

   

  If you need to wait, then you WAIT. Unless you can tell us the reason why you cannot wait, then we can see if that reason is valid or not.

• tranicide

  31 Mar 09, 01:47

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  Ok, post her number in here and there will be many guys here who will help you to ask her.

  Is this the help that you require?

   

  If you need to wait, then you WAIT. Unless you can tell us the reason why you cannot wait, then we can see if that reason is valid or not.

  I'll get skinned alive even before know that "help". But I really hope you're joking about the number thing.

  I can wait, but the thing is, does she really need that long to decide?

• mancha

  31 Mar 09, 02:14

  She say give her more time, and boy, you give her all the time in the world.

  Call her NOW, silly.

• Nobouy

  31 Mar 09, 09:04

  Y must ask one? My gfs and my wife, I nvr ask at all one... The only time i ask is when I propose to my wife.
• storywolf

  31 Mar 09, 09:15

  Originally posted by tranicide:

  Hi guys, I've posted my little problem here before, and this is the topic.

  Well, here is a little continuation from that topic..

  After our outing(old topic), things between us were rather good. There were some ups and downs, but things weren't really serious. After a long period of hesitation (yes I was a pussy back then), I've decided to pop the question to her, which is to be my girlfriend. I asked her on the 22nd of March and she said that she wanted 3 days to think it through. Well it had been more than 3 days, a week actually, and I haven't got a reply yet. I did ask her beforehand (3 days after the 22nd) about her answer, but she told me that she needed more time.

  Heres the thing. She had been hinting me before, and being a pussy and blockhead that I was, I didn't catch her hints. She was kinda waiting for me to ask, but I just didn't. But well, I finally did, and I popped the question. While I was "confessing", she gave that smile, like she was expecting it or something.
  (I had my own faults for not asking in the past, but that isn't important now)

  Well, now that I've said it, I haven't got a reply yet. Not that I'm impatient, its just that, if her answer is a "No", I would prefer if she told me earlier, and not make me wait.
  (I'm alittle bit drowsy, so pardon me if I've contradicted myself..)

  So what should I do now? Carry on waiting, or bring in the towel?

   

  Still a Pussy !!! She already say 3 days - she expect you to be eager to call her up the minute 3 days is up and ask for answer !!!

   

  You a pussy or big sotong !! -  blur blur wait for more then a week , still don't call her and still post here !!!

   

  Sotong !! Where got girl call guy - say ok i be your gf !!! She waiting for you to call - most likely going to make you ask one more time before she say yes !!!

   

  You not big pussy, upgrade to big Sotong !!!

• skythewood

  31 Mar 09, 09:49

  Originally posted by storywolf:

  Still a Pussy !!! She already say 3 days - she expect you to be eager to call her up the minute 3 days is up and ask for answer !!!

   

  You a pussy or big sotong !! -  blur blur wait for more then a week , still don't call her and still post here !!!

   

  Sotong !! Where got girl call guy - say ok i be your gf !!! She waiting for you to call - most likely going to make you ask one more time before she say yes !!!

   

  You not big pussy, upgrade to big Sotong !!!

  She just waiting for him to call so she can reject him again lah...

• d3sT1nY

  31 Mar 09, 10:31

  Be a man. Do the right thing.

  Wah lao. Since you have got the courage to confess, then why not the courage to ask for the result? Then what makes you different from that pussy that you have mentioned earlier on.

• tranicide

  31 Mar 09, 12:40

  I did ask after that 3 days,  but again she told me that she needed more time. So I left her to it.
  I didn't want to sound as though I'm pestering her for an answer..

  But since you guys suggest that I ask again, I'll do it again..

• [r]obinho

  31 Mar 09, 14:33

  based on my experience and the morse codes of Singapore typical women

   

  "give her more time" is equivalent to "where is my diamond?"

  so i guess u need to buy her some nice stuff, u know...

• voice.00

  31 Mar 09, 15:05

  hey.. call her n give her 3 days to give u an answer. how abt that!!!

• tranicide

  31 Mar 09, 15:29

  Originally posted by [r]obinho:

  based on my experience and the morse codes of Singapore typical women

   

  "give her more time" is equivalent to "where is my diamond?"

  so i guess u need to buy her some nice stuff, u know...

  I really hope that is not true haha.. But I do know that girls love to receive presents of any sort..

  voice.00: Don't think that it a very good idea..

  I'll ask her again, thats for sure. But definitely not with a time limit..

• parn

  31 Mar 09, 19:23

  Originally posted by tranicide:

  I'll get skinned alive even before know that "help". But I really hope you're joking about the number thing.

  I can wait, but the thing is, does she really need that long to decide?

  
  Maybe she just want to find out if she will miss you or not...or maybe she's not ready yet.

  I don't see the reason why you cannot wait.

   

  Usually if you need to wait, then answer is already an unspoken "NO". Because if she also likes you, then she would've tell you "YES" before the Sun goes down so you can do your James Bond action after the Sun went down.

   

• voice.00

  31 Mar 09, 20:50

  Originally posted by tranicide:

  I really hope that is not true haha.. But I do know that girls love to receive presents of any sort..

  voice.00: Don't think that it a very good idea..

  I'll ask her again, thats for sure. But definitely not with a time limit..

  In that case, let nature takes it course Love takes 2 hands to clap!

• tranicide

  2 Apr 09, 14:33

  Ok, as we all know, yesterday was April fools' day, and I had the biggest shock ever LOL.

  She had given me the answer and fortunately for me, it was a "Yes". Since it was april fools', you would have gussed what kind of joke she played on me. Well, I was kinda taken in at first..

  After a long wait, we are finally together! This is a hard to come relationship, and I'll cherish it.

  Thanks to the people that had given their suggestions in my old and current topics!

  Cheers.