so should i have used the voucher?
-
today's my bf and my 2nd year anniversary...
we spent the day mostly in (went out for awhile in the morning, lunch, watched a dvd)...then he suddenly notices a new pair of canvas shoes on my floor. to cut it short, i bought the shoes ($23) using a voucher my friend gave me (he had no use for it) and now my bf is angry, reason being he said "do you need the shoes? you could have given the voucher to someone else...etc..."
i dont have many pairs of shoes (3 in total not including 2 pairs of slippers). should i have given the voucher away instead of using it myself? it kinda sucks because we're supposed to spend the day happily today.....sigh....
-
ur bf is useless.
-
ur bf is useless.
-
If I were you I would have told him to go F**k a spider
It's my voucher, why should he care how I use it
-
i just wanna hear different views from other people y'know...he's made it seem like i'm in the wrong now...plus i know he kinda likes girl's in casual canvas shoes, which is kind off one of the reasons i bought it
-
Originally posted by LizV:
i just wanna hear different views from other people y'know...he's made it seem like i'm in the wrong now...plus i know he kinda likes girl's in casual canvas shoes, which is kind off one of the reasons i bought it
since he doesnt want to cherish you, just leave lor.
-
hes telling you, your shoes are too small for him le..time for him to go find a new pair..
-
Originally posted by LizV:
i just wanna hear different views from other people y'know...he's made it seem like i'm in the wrong now...plus i know he kinda likes girl's in casual canvas shoes, which is kind off one of the reasons i bought it
Did you have to spend any money on the shoes?
Are you receiving pocket money from your boyfriend?
How well off are the both of you?
-
its your voucher, why he bother....
or was it something that cause him to feel irritated...like the voucher is from a male friend (as you mention "he had no use for it")
-
MooKu: nope...the voucher covered it all. and i've never made him pay for me for anything (movies, meals, everything) because i believe that it isnt fair to make guys pay for things i want...we're both middle class...
-
zoragirl: nah...it's nothing to do with the guy i got it from...
-
Originally posted by LizV:
MooKu: nope...the voucher covered it all. and i've never made him pay for me for anything (movies, meals, everything) because i believe that it isnt fair to make guys pay for things i want...we're both middle class...
Tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk!
You want to hear different views? Here's my view: your voucher, your freedom to use it however you want.
But zoragirl has a point... maybe your boyfriend is feeling... annoyed that some other guy is treating you nicely.
-
Originally posted by LizV:
zoragirl: nah...it's nothing to do with the guy i got it from...
then tell him F**k off -
So if this is the case he has no business/right on getting mad on how you use the voucher since it's yours to begin with.
-
dont think so though MooKu...but it kinda s*cks cos we didn't even do like anything special today...like really go out and have fun, instead after he saw the shoes he just left my hse...
-
why he so small gas....
-
Originally posted by zoragirl:
then tell him F**k off
x2 or tell him go F**k a spider like I just said laKNS not married like that liao
Married already you need to ask him permission to wear your shoes issit
-
Maybe you should ask him why he reacted this way, instead of pondering over whether you should have used the voucher.
-
*clap clap*
-
i know why he reacted tis way roughly, his perception of me is that i spend alot (which is true in the past) now i save a chunk of my allowance monthly, eat less etc if i want to buy something, and recently i've only been buying things that are on quite a huge discount, or like the voucher thing... he even has a problem with me buying drinks when i'm out because he said it's expensive, and when i said it's because i thirsty he replied "oh, i thought you just want to spend money." !!! i feel like i'm in the wrong all the time till i can't differentiate right or wrong anymore
-
May I ask both your age and occupation?
-
Originally posted by LizV:
i know why he reacted tis way roughly, his perception of me is that i spend alot (which is true in the past) now i save a chunk of my allowance monthly, eat less etc if i want to buy something, and recently i've only been buying things that are on quite a huge discount, or like the voucher thing... he even has a problem with me buying drinks when i'm out because he said it's expensive, and when i said it's because i thirsty he replied "oh, i thought you just want to spend money." !!! i feel like i'm in the wrong all the time till i can't differentiate right or wrong anymore
since he cant trust you, why do u still stick on to him?
-
Originally posted by LizV:
i know why he reacted tis way roughly, his perception of me is that i spend alot (which is true in the past) now i save a chunk of my allowance monthly, eat less etc if i want to buy something, and recently i've only been buying things that are on quite a huge discount, or like the voucher thing... he even has a problem with me buying drinks when i'm out because he said it's expensive, and when i said it's because i thirsty he replied "oh, i thought you just want to spend money." !!! i feel like i'm in the wrong all the time till i can't differentiate right or wrong anymore
-_-"
I think he going overboard and to be honest if I were you I would drop him like a stone and not waste my time.
So he wants you to die from thirst issit? You're not even spending his money. Soif the public toliet need you to pay 10 cents for entry he is going to question you if you must pay 10 cents to use the toliet???
-
Doesn't really make sense.
He has a problem with your old spending habits. If you spent $23 on that pair of shoes, I can see why he reacted the way he did (although it's still too much to walk out just over a reasonably small purchase, not like you bought a car). But the shoes were free!
-
uhh.. the guy's got a problem...
imagine.. something that trivial sets him off, what will happen when major things come up?