so should i have used the voucher?
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eh this guy good
save money
because he probably feels its that a wedding is a waste of money
i like
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Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.
what should i do?
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maybe he's hinting u to get him a pair of canvas?
but anyway, he shouldn't have flare up on such a trival matter
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sorry i gave u the voucher.
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its a friggin voucher
what do u mean "what should i do?"
i say go back to your studies instead of thinking about this kind of thing
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Originally posted by LizV:
Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.
what should i do?
this is going to be brutal...
CONCENTRATE ON YOUR STUDIES!
go out as friends.. both of you aren't even near to being ready for a relationship..
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Originally posted by LizV:
Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.
what should i do?
What should you do?Dump him and concentrate on your studies.
Jeez. If he's going to flip over something minor like that and over YOUR things and YOUR right, he has a huge ego problem or just an ultra huge MCP
So if it's something major, what's he gonna do? Go berserk and go on a rampage???
Seriously, know your rights.
He is just your boyfriend and not your keeper and he don't have a say on how you wanna use your voucher -_-"He's not even giving you the basic respect you deserve; which is respecting YOUR decision on how you wanna make use of YOUR voucher
I can't believe that not only are you not angry with him for being a jerk, you are wondering if you're in the wrong -_-"
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Originally posted by LizV:
Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.
what should i do?
Did he behave like this? Or this is only recent?My initial suspicion was that you had a higher income than him and it's causing him to feel inferior.. thus explaining his behavior..
Tell me, how's your family background like? How about his? Well-to-do? Who's usually pay for stuff when you guys go out? Or do you guys go dutch?
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Originally posted by LizV:
today's my bf and my 2nd year anniversary...
we spent the day mostly in (went out for awhile in the morning, lunch, watched a dvd)...then he suddenly notices a new pair of canvas shoes on my floor. to cut it short, i bought the shoes ($23) using a voucher my friend gave me (he had no use for it) and now my bf is angry, reason being he said "do you need the shoes? you could have given the voucher to someone else...etc..."
i dont have many pairs of shoes (3 in total not including 2 pairs of slippers). should i have given the voucher away instead of using it myself? it kinda sucks because we're supposed to spend the day happily today.....sigh....
You decide what you want to do with your voucher, and don't ask stupid question again.
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Originally posted by LizV:
Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.
what should i do?
what more can you do? throw away the shoe?
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Originally posted by LizV:
today's my bf and my 2nd year anniversary...
we spent the day mostly in (went out for awhile in the morning, lunch, watched a dvd)...then he suddenly notices a new pair of canvas shoes on my floor. to cut it short, i bought the shoes ($23) using a voucher my friend gave me (he had no use for it) and now my bf is angry, reason being he said "do you need the shoes? you could have given the voucher to someone else...etc..."
i dont have many pairs of shoes (3 in total not including 2 pairs of slippers). should i have given the voucher away instead of using it myself? it kinda sucks because we're supposed to spend the day happily today.....sigh....
It's your voucher not his. Why are you with a guy like him ?
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you should have sold the voucher in MARKETPLACE but remember to ignore people who goes "Eh BROTHER/SISTER, too expensive leh."
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It's not about the voucher, it's about him.
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Originally posted by LizV:
Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.
what should i do?
ur in COLLEGE
hes in POLY
what is he compared to you? just break up with him. im sure given ur age and your current situation u can find another guy who deserves you.
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if you continue this way, you have a great future as a doormat
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Detached: he's always been conscious about the way he spends, but recently it's more...my allowance is near thrice of his, but it's because i pay for alot of things myself (i.e. his mom gets him his toiletries/ i et my own, plus i get food for my dog, school materials which takes up a bulk etc). we always, always go dutch.
jayh: i'm in lasalle college (by choice), not junior college (if that was what you're driving at...)
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nothing wrong what
i think ur bf too sensitive liao
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Originally posted by LizV:
Detached: he's always been conscious about the way he spends, but recently it's more...my allowance is near thrice of his, but it's because i pay for alot of things myself (i.e. his mom gets him his toiletries/ i et my own, plus i get food for my dog, school materials which takes up a bulk etc). we always, always go dutch.
jayh: i'm in lasalle college (by choice), not junior college (if that was what you're driving at...)
it doesn't matter what or who or whatever school or poly..
the bottom line is that he behaves like you are his doormat.. and YOU ALLOW IT..
and you come here looking for an excuse for him to keep treating you like a doormat...
go ahead...
like i said, if you keep this up, you've a great future as a doormat
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Originally posted by jayh272416:
ur in COLLEGE
hes in POLY
what is he compared to you? just break up with him. im sure given ur age and your current situation u can find another guy who deserves you.
your point in COLLEGE and POLY?
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History has shown that couples who come together before they are adults normally will not be married.
Relax and take life in perspective.
Just remember to get the best sex u can out of it before it goes up in smoke.
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Originally posted by LizV:
Detached: he's always been conscious about the way he spends, but recently it's more...my allowance is near thrice of his, but it's because i pay for alot of things myself (i.e. his mom gets him his toiletries/ i et my own, plus i get food for my dog, school materials which takes up a bulk etc). we always, always go dutch.
jayh: i'm in lasalle college (by choice), not junior college (if that was what you're driving at...)
Maybe his behavior was driven by envy/jealousy that you've a bigger buying power than his? Maybe he had a bad day? Some other issues?It's all guesswork at the point of time - what I suggest is that.. you guys should find time, sit down and thrash things out.. Communication is always very important in r/s... And don't bear grudges =d
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i noticed u r replying selectively. I agree with Bear. You r acting like a doormat so be expected to be treated like one.
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ur bf is useless.
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Guess this is not the first time he is behaving this way.
There will continue to be MORE in future...If u think u can stand this kind of attitude in long run - GOOD LUCK!
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Are you all having fun participating by breaking up TS's relationship?
Regardless of TS's boyfriend response to TS about the usage of the voucher, it is not surprising that childish guys like TS's boyfriend exists.
Don't tell me you all born sensible?
Please look at yourself first before you try to step on others especially when nobody here is perfect.