so should i have used the voucher?
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u said WAS...that's past tense already what...
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okays loh, you win.
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thank you~haha!
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Originally posted by Penny.lj.ying:
i seriously don't get it leh...could the bf have tried understanding the situation first? she might have the habit of impulse buying(which most women do) and might be trying to kick the habit...The voucher doesn't need her to pay a cent for it and i don't see why the bf is making it a big deal? sorry to say that...but i think the bf is really..not mature enough...
seriously me don't get it too, maybe like what the bf said, we are not in the relationship
but come to think of it, wouldn't it be worse, if she gave the voucher away, and actually got the shoes she like using her own $$?
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uh huh...no one understands cause we are not them...maybe they broke up due to some other reasons...but if they broke up becuse of this..i fin dit reidculous...
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my typo getting worse...
ridiculous....
Zz...
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i agree you have been very patient with me. but have you thought of how much of how i act stems from how you treat me? it's like a butterfly effect.
yes you do charity. but i always think to myself if he can be so kind hearted to help others in need, why can't he see past my flaws and accept me for the way i am? you were not happy with my spending, i worked out a monthly budget with your help and started noting down things i spent on, started saving and followed minute details you said i should (buy my toiletries from beauty language instead of watsons because it's cheaper, not buy drinks outside so often). now i'm saving and i want to spend some of it on clothes (i'm a fashion design student for god's sake!) i don't go clubbing or do anything else where money can be channelled to, can't you give me some space?
i've never asked you to get me anything before. not for birthdays, christmas, valentines etc. and rest assured i'm definitely the kind that will find every way and means to help myself first if i am ever in dire need on money, before i'll ever ask you for help.
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Originally posted by LizV:
i agree you have been very patient with me. but have you thought of how much of how i act stems from how you treat me? it's like a butterfly effect.
yes you do charity. but i always think to myself if he can be so kind hearted to help others in need, why can't he see past my flaws and accept me for the way i am? you were not happy with my spending, i worked out a monthly budget with your help and started noting down things i spent on, started saving and followed minute details you said i should (buy my toiletries from beauty language instead of watsons because it's cheaper, not buy drinks outside so often). now i'm saving and i want to spend some of it on clothes (i'm a fashion design student for god's sake!) i don't go clubbing or do anything else where money can be channelled to, can't you give me some space?
i've never asked you to get me anything before. not for birthdays, christmas, valentines etc. and rest assured i'm definitely the kind that will find every way and means to help myself first if i am ever in dire need on money, before i'll ever ask you for help.
sorry, but you and ppin are dating or am i wrong?
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Liz....you're doing good enough already i have to say...:) move on darling...
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yeah, was still until about 3 hours ago...
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he broke up with you because of your spending ways and the last thing tt triggered off is beacuse of the shoe? pls tell me it's not it... **cross fingers
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penny: i think it is...
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huh?u think? my goodness.... *faints....
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2 years of relationship just gone up in smoke. Sad case.
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Originally posted by LizV:
yeah, was still until about 3 hours ago...
oh i see. okays well i dont wish to bother much but i hope you two understand this, i been throught worst situations but sorry, i think Liz is doing something good for herself and you, pin. firstly where can you even find a girl who is understanding whats around?i feel that you should not have just questioned her about the shoes. i mean dont just because of a shoe then you two start quarrelling and breaking up.
sorry i still dont know the full story.. but i hope, you two dont regret what you just did.
do you think a 2 year relationship have just gone to waste?
i dont know both of you all, but look. sometimes, its good to listen what others advise to you. -
dun worry Liz...come to uncle...i let u spend all u want ok
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Liz, seriously move on. its not worth looking bad.
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yes... and on your anniversary somemore....
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This is ridiculous. I can see that TS is trying hard to curb her spending already, yet her bf took it in such an extreme way. His well intentions may be good, but his attitude and his way of approach has gone a little too far.
I would rather think that a clash of mindset differences had caused this rift between them. If they can't even settle their agreement over such a trivial matter, then no point being together either.
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yea...it's not the worse..but it's enough for a person to take...
eh uncle...don try to guai dai xmm okay...
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if he truly cares about u, he wldnt be whinin here without sparing a tot 4 u. Tis break-up's an uncloaked blessing 4 u.Grab n leave.
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Originally posted by Penny.lj.ying:
yea...it's not the worse..but it's enough for a person to take...
eh uncle...don try to guai dai xmm okay...
i was just trying to be the sensitive and understanding uncle who will give her space to do what she wants.
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well.like i said..the bf..or rather the ex is not mature enough..to think...
could be good for the girl to move on but having put in 2 yrs in the relationship..i hope u had good memories so that the 2 years will not be put to waste...
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orh...but uncle...somehow u sound a little.....how do i put it....wierd? :X
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Originally posted by Penny.lj.ying:
orh...but uncle...somehow u sound a little.....how do i put it....wierd? :X
i am weird...very weird...u can ask those who have seen me before... I have belly buttons where my eyes are supposed to be....
