Keep whining, life will get better.
Not meaning to be rude, but it sounded like you had a huge ego and that girl just bruised it. Was it yourself you were in love with or her? Learn to deal with rejections, won't be the last you will see.
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hey.
You know, you need to pick yourself up.
really...
There are a lot of pple out there who dun have love and dun have money....
How long more before she returns? Its not uncommon for girls not to be able to forget their ex so its much harder for them to accept new relationships especially if the breakup was quite recent. If you really love her alot, give her abit more time and try to show her that your love for her is genuine. If after some time it still doesn't work, maybe you should reconsider your options.
Give other girls a chance as well and take notice of the people around you. There might still be other good girls that have always been close by but you have never noticed since your mind was fully occupied with that girl.
Lossing interest in partying, fooling around might just be another level of maturity which shows that you have grown old enough to feel ready to settle down and stop all the playing.
u can try to pull the handbrake (can stop immediatedly) or gently step on the brake itself (can slowly stop).
tl;dr
Originally posted by yahoo.com:come to think of it.. u are right. maybe i am just too full of myself that i am whining. point noted dude.. and no offense taken. thanks for the input
but i gotta admit that i am in love with that gal. to the extent that i am willing to give up anything ? but then.. distance is a very crucial factor this time
just hoping to meet someone new or as alike as she was to me
Here's another perspective for you to consider (not meaning to be rude again).
Neither the distance nor her ex is the problem at all, you're just not Mr. Right sadly. Chances are, if you're the guy with the right qualities whom she deems attractive, these 'obstacles' you brought up wouldn't be obstacles at all.
Sometimes, we just can't have what we want... C'est la vie..
Yes I agree with Detached.
"Sometimes, we just can't have what we want... "
TS u said your friends cannt afford cars like u do... your frens cant have what they want too.
The law of average finally caught up with u.
U cant have what u want too now, right?
So jus give her up.
Originally posted by jgho83:Yes I agree with Detached.
"Sometimes, we just can't have what we want... "
TS u said your friends cannt afford cars like u do... your frens cant have what they want too.
The law of average finally caught up with u.
U cant have what u want too now, right?
So jus give her up.
Euuu ish find my smartness attractive ![]()
Originally posted by Detached:
Euuu ish find my smartness attractive
Do u have any plastic bags for me to use? Urgent.
Originally posted by jgho83:Do u have any plastic bags for me to use? Urgent.
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*pats pats TS*
First things first.. u get ur act together. Dun get all emo'd n lose ur focus on the prize even though u may just wanna have fun , ur team relies on you. Never let your boys down man.. u gotta seperate ur emotions in what u need to do, gonna do and wanna do. Cause those negativty will just pull u down even more.And further reinforces that negativity and you will lose the will and that in turn makes u lose faith in yourself and those around u.
How can u even do ur job properly, manage ur life and woo the girl u want or love if u allow urself to be put off, put down crushed by your own inability to get a grip of yourself.
I believe that we can always make things work, its whether u wanna make it work or not. Are u putting in the effort, are u channeling those negativity into positive energy to motive you , man! Are u making sacrifices ?!!!
Your character and attitude determines your future, and also the future in who and what are attracted to you.
Its alrite to whine ,bitch n moan sometimes, we all need to. Or we will lose the plot. We r not machines. Just make sure u do more workin then bitchin .
Oh n about the 'not being there' stuff.. man.. if she cannot see u really got the sim.. the heart, i think suan le. If she cant see that in you, she is blind herself. Like maybe how she cant see ur potential, ur sacrifices now so in the future u can jet plane to 'be there' for her ANYTIME. Well, that will be another matter anyways. So dun get too worked up over the gal if thats the case.
and also..
Go destroy a punching bag.. it helps. If all fails. =D~~
She is also a smart girl. She sees and assess you. She has decided you are not what she wants. What you think of yourself does not matter to her.
You want a prize, and she not going to be that prize.
You are feeling like you lost a match that you should have won.
Well, she's 21 and I believe she's not ready to settle down just yet, whether she still likes you or not. She might(want to settle down), but I don't trust that, and obviously you haven't inspired any impulse for her to want to get married.
Anyway, it doesn't matter what she's doing; you're not doing much for yourself or anyone if you carry on like that. It's great that you don't want to waste your life away anymore and you're trying to get more serious in relationships. But if you're really looking for a serious relationship now, then it's time to get serious with how your life's turning out. Before you want to try taking care of someone else, I think it's better that you do something about your life - in terms of your work or something. If you have a passion for something, do something about it. Maybe it's not with 'vehicles' anymore, but I'm sure there's something out there...baking cakes, flower arrangement, volunteering, nursing, muaythai, painting, bartopdancing, bdsm....
If all else fails, you can hit the gym. If that fails, you can try dropping the dumbbell on your foot. You get injured. You hit the hospital ward. You get a cute nurse to look after you. And you fall in love with her. And....
Seriously, you're not getting any younger. Do something about your life. If you can't find someone you love and who loves you in return, at least do something you love.
Watching porn and getting off doesn' count.