Where is my heart
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Originally posted by thickskin23:
The more i think of it, the more angrier i am, Mr Alexandra. Why must you say auditors and accountants need to have a strong command of english.
I have taken essay based exams, Business law, company and taxation law, accounting theory and Ethical issue in audtiting. All of this are essay based questions, they need a good foundation of english i have to admit. But the main points the markers are seeking is how does one argue their cases based on the relevant company and accountants act.
My company act is UK based so i am using UK company cases and the accountant guidelines i study is Sarbanes Oxley Act and Clerp 9, Ramsay Report etc. Any accounting student will be able to verify that, i know or any layman can check it in the internet.
The thing is , i am just a junior auditor, its not a glamorous job like bankers and doctors but i respect this job. The language you are using is clearly abusive of my profession
He is distracting you mah!!!
Well... Look... he succeed.
Now, you dont think about yr relationship
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Originally posted by Alexander 88:
well, i do go to other online forums but its not as much blatant lying and mud slinging plus promoting the wrong moral values as compared to this - sg forums. there is no intelligent discussion instead its plainly based on wat the poster said and if everyone believed him then it would be quite bad especially attacks on other peoples character and reputation.
i believe his gal must also have loved him otherwise she would not have stayed so long in a relationship with him but his attitude n quick judgement shows very clearly to me as a man that he is only out for this gals beauty.
i mean i am trying to be fair to both parties , its easier for a man to admit that he lost control compared to blaming his gal for being unfaithful especially if its not true as a mans reputation is not affected by sexual indiscretion but for women it will be a very serious offence , if he wanted to seek private advice on handling this issue he need not ask on forums but ask his frens since this is a private matter -BGR , i am sure all of us have frens to consult in times of trouble, to disclose all these distasteful things not even assuming if he is jumping to conclusions or trying to debase the gal out of spite and painting himself as a victim is just too much. just irresponsible behavior on the part of the guy. i think now that the gal is innocent and she did not have any affair with any married man. i think he is instead the married man who is trying to have an affair with an innocent gal.
public forums being open, everyone is able to access and if untruths are not shot down then people will continue to believe what they read on the net.
i am not the first person to suspect that he is writing a tale.
i am so disgusted that sg forums is so unmoderated and the topics of discussion is worse than any newspaper.
anyone who is new to sg forums will think that sg people has such petty concerns and discussions and advice that is so unplatable to stomach - its beyond human understanding like what worldly businessmen sugguested..
i will suggest to my bosses to get this forum regulated at least. to stop spreading of rumours and malicious thinking not to mention down right crude thinking
If you do not post, no one will say that you can't type.
Don't air an opinion for the sake of airing it. Use the grey matter in between your ears, dude.
The rules here in AA are simple, if you think that problem seems genuine and you want to help him/her, go ahead, else just shut up and be a quiet observer. thickskin23 doesn't deserve the attacks on "character and reputation" you levied on him which incidentally are the very ones you are condemning.
Talk about hypocrisy. You epitomise it.
To thickskin23: Concentrate on your exams first. Don't throw away your future because of this.
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Whoever u are, love is for giving lar, not for getting lar, (forgiving/forgiveness); it embraces both the latter in brackets. she had her reasons, excuses or whatever u may call it and no one is privy to what transpired between u n her in conversations or otherwise. To moralize about her is unwise. Negate the ego - life happens each breathing moment. If u are hurting - it is not u who is really hurting, it the lack of love within u, it is who u think u are, what u think of love or wht u think of life (EGO!) If one is centred within oneself, one is being essential , if not, one remains accidental, always.
All said and done - all that matters is what emanates from u each moment, are u BEING compassionate, are u Being kind, U ure being Love. the rest does not matter!