hallo everyone.
id just gt myself a gf recently,& although we keep sayin all the couple stuff to each other,i dont reali hav confidence in myself at all.i keep thinkin dat wat she loves me much more than i love her,& so i am always miserable.
postin dis here to c wat you ppl hav in mind.
no jokers pls.
thank you.
love her more loh
u hw old lol
skythewood:hw?
thehappybunny:17 dis yr.
don anyhow hurt girl's feelings, it's not a nice thing to do
trust me
couple stuff ?
like ?
I think it is a good start. I have one advise here, NEVER lie to your girlfriend, be frank about everything, don't hide. If she ever found out, things might turn out nasty for you.
limpper: so im hurtin her feelings?
93'guy:those 'i miss you' stuff lor
max:bt sometimes i dun feel comfortable to tell her everything
Well... as a man I understand that there are somethings that we want to keep them private, keep them even from your closest relatives or friends. Indeed being frank about everything was not easy but as a person who was dumped in the past(was only 13) I can tell you that much of the problem that led to breakup was telling lies and hiding things. I believe that you will agree with me, if she really love you, she will not mind any secrets or unpleasant things that has once occurred to you, for example, you were once in jail.
Can anyone reply to my question, please....
i just got myself a gf.
wtf. can buy one ah?
..why will u think that way?just focus on being happy lar.17 only right,dont think too much now.even if you feel that you dont love her as much as she loves you,just use that as a way of fostering more love for her!and anw the way you said "id just gt myself a gf recently" makes ur gf sounds like a burden you accidentally picked up.you sound so scared and unsure!if so,then u shldnt have rushed into things probably.snice you're alr her bf now,just enjoy the times you spend together lor.i used to think that i dont commit as much as my bf too,then also like v stressed that kind,but it doesnt help.she probably doesnt even think that your love is not as much compared to hers.
relax man :)
max:i don know,shes noticed dat im keepin veri quiet suddenly (mind you,i speak quite a lot) & shes a little worried aready.i don know hw to tell her d problems im facin though.
sinicker:buy wat?
plus22:so hw to commit myself more?
zomg you sound like me dude.
i faced a situation close enough to yours,and i reckon you be honest with her your current feelings,at least let her know how you feel eh?don't get her too worked up over your problems.remember that she loves you. :)
good luck for your relationship then.
uhmm.i hv no idea.im personally adverse to commitments.yes just rmb that she loves you (: and you love her (SOUNDS LIKE YOU LOVE HER A LOT TOO ACTUALLY) (: and you two are happy 17-yr-olds in a sweet rltnshp and really there's not much cause for worry.you have other stuff to worry about than the extent of your love for someone.
and i think sinicker meant the way you said you gt yourself a gf doesnt sound very nice :S
You do not need to tell her everything at just one shot.(It doesn't make any sense) You can tell her overtime... slowly and if you want indirectly. Let her understand that you care for her and you are willing to share everything with her and you hope she will share somethings with you. With that I think your relationship with your girlfriend is stable.
And next time if you ever get married, invite me to your dinner. (joking)
I answer much of your question, can someone reply to my question, please....
Just be frank and discuss with your gf how you feel. Keeping things to yourself won't help the relationship and might make her feel hurt that you hiding things from her. Talk to her and see how she feels etc and maybe we all can give you more input after that.
U are miserable, cos misery gives u existential meaning lar, something to hold on to, i doubt she is causing u, u are simply wallowing in mud , or its possible that u proclamations of love is not love lar - needs , fear of loss , insecurity masquerading as love, no one has to know,