People with big EGO....
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
u are very right, bingo. the damn bitchy cleaner cum tea lady in office forever finding fault. She treats it as though I have to obey her. She told me to look at the angmo in office cos she finds him handsome, I did not look and next day kena from her. Not only does she has big unhealthy ego, she is also good in sowing discord. She ever stopped me from taking coffee from pantry when that is meant for everyone. shit her, hope she gets her retribution. she claims that she has gotten rid of her bad temper but in reality it is not.She got no right to stop you from taking the coffee since she's only the cleaner mah. You're the staff of the company.
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Originally posted by MissZ:
Ya, I'm sure all of us have encountered such ppl.
One thing that irks me about them is that they are always right,(or so they think) will never admit if they are in the wrong & won't apologise.
I've met 2 person of the similar kind. Its like... whatever they said is right and you're wrong.
eg:
A: I got a strained neck
B: You did not sleep well huh?
A: You're wrong, i got poor sleeping posture.
Poor sleeping posture causing A not to sleep well mah! So, can you say that B is wrong? Its begging the question or you called circular argument.
They never admit you're right even if you mean the correct thing.
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say, "talk to my hands"
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forgive and forget..
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i like ppl with big ego....
so predictable and easy to work ard with....
infact.... aside from the constant need for ego boosting....
u can get them to do or "work" in ur favour...... most of the time....
but if they are someone close...
then hell ya,,,,
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u got to backstab ppl...
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Originally posted by EarlNeo:
i but if they are someone close...
then hell ya,,,,
.....if someone close to you have big ego, then they are not close -
Originally posted by Lokey:
I automatically isolate myself from people with big ego.
but it also depends on what matters. Please differentiate from being unreasonable.
Being a human is hard, especially when working in a team.
When I say too much, people will say, I am egoistic, stubborn, does not listen to others.
But when things goes wrong, they say why I dont point out the problem early when I see problem going to happen like 5 months ago, 1 year ago.
.....a person with big ego is already unreasonable -
my spider sense is telling me someone wif big ego is nearby
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Originally posted by Aang:
my spider sense is telling me someone wif big ego is nearby
.....read everything with an open mind
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Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:
.....read everything with an open mind
then change to angel sense.. -
Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:
.....a person with big ego is already unreasonableUnreasonable? Have you meet people who complain to your supervisor that you forgot to put full-stop, did not use the correct tenses in your e-mail, while she herself forgot to attach file in her email.
After a year I did not cannot get over her. Simply ridiculous.
Do you consider her egoistic?
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Originally posted by Lokey:
Unreasonable? Have you meet people who complain to your supervisor that you forgot to put full-stop, did not use the correct tenses in your e-mail, while she herself forgot to attach file in her email.
After a year I did not cannot get over her. Simply ridiculous.
Do you consider her egoistic?
.....she is both egoistic and unreasonable, this is the last person you would want to meet -
Originally posted by Lokey:
Unreasonable? Have you meet people who complain to your supervisor that you forgot to put full-stop, did not use the correct tenses in your e-mail, while she herself forgot to attach file in her email.
After a year I did not cannot get over her. Simply ridiculous.
Do you consider her egoistic?
More like a back-stabber...
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Originally posted by Hawk Eye:
She got no right to stop you from taking the coffee since she's only the cleaner mah. You're the staff of the company.
Wrong, she is in charge of the pantry.
I all my working experience, I always find that pantry ladies will always quarrel with staff who are inconsiderate.
Those who leave the pantry clean after using, or have respect for other people's stuff, will not have any problem with the pantry lady.
Those who thinks they are staff and therefore entitled, entitled to litter the place, take other peoples' stuff, will get the wrath of the pantry lady. Rightly so.
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Originally posted by mancha:
Wrong, she is in charge of the pantry.
I all my working experience, I always find that pantry ladies will always quarrel with staff who are inconsiderate.
Those who leave the pantry clean after using, or have respect for other people's stuff, will not have any problem with the pantry lady.
Those who thinks they are staff and therefore entitled, entitled to litter the place, take other peoples' stuff, will get the wrath of the pantry lady. Rightly so.
Of course no one is entitled to litter anywhere in the office, not only the pantry. But those staffs who took other staff's stuff, she also will kbkb meh?
In all my working experience, those pantry aunties are nice to every staff. Cos the staffs will shared the cakes with her etc.
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Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:
.....do you know of people with big ego? Got a friend with an ego as big as Mount Fuji. Pissed the hell out of me. People with big ego are hard to get along??
Why not you accept their ego and constantly reply by assuring them that "nobody's perfect"?Just a matter of time your constant reminders get on their nerves and they will absolutely given up on picking your faults.
People are fun when they are one-directional.
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Originally posted by parn:
Why not you accept their ego and constantly reply by assuring them that "nobody's perfect"?Just a matter of time your constant reminders get on their nerves and they will absolutely given up on picking your faults.
People are fun when they are one-directional.
Well-said parn, very agreeable. I did that myself
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Two wolves (beings) reside in each of us, the first is needs, fears, beliefs, jealousy, sympathy,possesivness, insecurity, fear of loss , anger, prejudice, ... the second is love, kindness, emphaty , gratitude.
The one that is fed daily evolves - whom are u feeding?
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an ego is like a balloon. inflated rightly would give it the proper strength to sustain itself. over inflate it, it looks big for a while before it bursts.
i have 2 friends in my life who go on and on about how good they are, what good they have done. oh fuck these people seriously.