Playing Santa....
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A week ago, I met this girl in the forum and she started confiding to me about her problems.
She's like almost everyone of us, loving someone that will not return. We talk for a couple of hours, long but true.
Ever thought about this? When you decide to give someone a present but did not managed to send it to him/ her, can't take out too much courage to send it out?
This happens to me. I bought a lot of present for him. I send out but all without a sender name. So definitely the person who receive it will not know who I am.
The girl ask me," WHY do this? Let him know who you are. "
But think about it back, a present given might not need to be from a person you have to know. All I need is only to let him know there is this 'santa' that knows every special days in his life, and give him presents providing him comfort and happiness.
Knowing whether it's from me.. It's not important because all this will ended with this phrase.
" I did it all out of love.."
Enjoy your day everyone.
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love is blind..even if u had wrote ur name on it, he might overlook tat point.Originally posted by plain:A week ago, I met this girl in the forum and she started confiding to me about her problems.
She's like almost everyone of us, loving someone that will not return. We talk for a couple of hours, long but true.
Ever thought about this? When you decide to give someone a present but did not managed to send it to him/ her, can't take out too much courage to send it out?
This happens to me. I bought a lot of present for him. I send out but all without a sender name. So definitely the person who receive it will not know who I am.
The girl ask me," WHY do this? Let him know who you are. "
But think about it back, a present given might not need to be from a person you have to know. All I need is only to let him know there is this 'santa' that knows every special days in his life, and give him presents providing him comfort and happiness.
Knowing whether it's from me.. It's not important because all this will ended with this phrase.
" I did it all out of love.."
Enjoy your day everyone. [/code] -
Everything must have a purpose... or some intended purpose. To achieve it, is not easy, like just to achieve a quota your boss sets for you, to achieve gold for your NAFA, etc.Originally posted by plain:A week ago, I met this girl in the forum and she started confiding to me about her problems.
She's like almost everyone of us, loving someone that will not return. We talk for a couple of hours, long but true.
Ever thought about this? When you decide to give someone a present but did not managed to send it to him/ her, can't take out too much courage to send it out?
This happens to me. I bought a lot of present for him. I send out but all without a sender name. So definitely the person who receive it will not know who I am.
The girl ask me," WHY do this? Let him know who you are. "
But think about it back, a present given might not need to be from a person you have to know. All I need is only to let him know there is this 'santa' that knows every special days in his life, and give him presents providing him comfort and happiness.
Knowing whether it's from me.. It's not important because all this will ended with this phrase.
" I did it all out of love.."
Enjoy your day everyone. [/code]
Doing something like that will only make yourself feel worst - because you just can't move on, walking round and round in circles where only you were left behind.
In love - it is either all or nothing. To fully trust, or don't trust him/her totally. To fully love him/her, or don't love him/her at all... to fully chase him/her, or to move on with life.
Are you one of the category there or a neither here-nor-there?
Cheers -
I'm a neither here nor there like what you mention.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Everything must have a purpose... or some intended purpose. To achieve it, is not easy, like just to achieve a quota your boss sets for you, to achieve gold for your NAFA, etc.
Doing something like that will only make yourself feel worst - because you just can't move on, walking round and round in circles where only you were left behind.
In love - it is either all or nothing. To fully trust, or don't trust him/her totally. To fully love him/her, or don't love him/her at all... to fully chase him/her, or to move on with life.
Are you one of the category there or a neither here-nor-there?
Cheers
It's not necessary for me to have him by my side, I'm willing to support him secretly without his notice. I hope to be an angel of his, although may not have magic power, but I'm willing to use my support towards him.
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I think you should talk to people like her more... Sometimes it'll just change your perspective in life a bit...?Originally posted by plain:A week ago, I met this girl in the forum and she started confiding to me about her problems.
She's like almost everyone of us, loving someone that will not return. We talk for a couple of hours, long but true.
Ever thought about this? When you decide to give someone a present but did not managed to send it to him/ her, can't take out too much courage to send it out?
This happens to me. I bought a lot of present for him. I send out but all without a sender name. So definitely the person who receive it will not know who I am.
The girl ask me," WHY do this? Let him know who you are. "
But think about it back, a present given might not need to be from a person you have to know. All I need is only to let him know there is this 'santa' that knows every special days in his life, and give him presents providing him comfort and happiness.
Knowing whether it's from me.. It's not important because all this will ended with this phrase.
" I did it all out of love.."
Enjoy your day everyone. [/code] -
What you mean?Originally posted by Devil1976:I think you should talk to people like her more... Sometimes it'll just change your perspective in life a bit...? -
See different people with different love problems, then you'll realise that you're not all alone... And definitely not the WORST of them all...?Originally posted by plain:What you mean? Try seeing things from different angles..? It'll help you in your situation better...?