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I have a problem. I'm a married woman in the late twenties. I've fallen for a single guy friend who is younger. Its very painful. I know there is no future. But i really want him to know i like him, and i want to know if he likes me. It's stupid, but i'm wilful. How to know if he likes me?
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Originally posted by Flower eat:
I have a problem. I’m a married woman in the late twenties. I’ve fallen for a single guy friend who is younger. Its very painful. I know there is no future. But i really want him to know i like him, and i want to know if he likes me.
It’s stupid, but i’m wilful. How to know if he likes me?
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tsk @ you... don't bother if you want to save your marriage.
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Flirt with him.
Ask him.
Whats ur relationship with him? Friends? or what? Level of closeness?
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Originally posted by Flower eat:
I have a problem. I’m a married woman in the late twenties. I’ve fallen for a single guy friend who is younger. Its very painful. I know there is no future. But i really want him to know i like him, and i want to know if he likes me.
It’s stupid, but i’m wilful. How to know if he likes me?
Ask your husband to go ask him if he likes you or not lah.
Since you know you stupid.. how you know he is smarter than you ?
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The solution ( not the end of it all) - is to be honest with yourself - to recognise n be aware of the lack within U of - cos no matter what comes into your life- love, money, ... one can add on - its not going to stay - only thing that is permanent in life is change - so the less u rely or depend on .... and be self-fullfilled - u will always feel at peace - cos the well within u is everflowing - are u?
The quality of one's life is the quality of one's ability to RELATE - whether its work, friends, ....... relating is difficult but that is the only way to go - relationship(s) is a thing - the other has been reduced to a thing, how to relate to a dead thing! The crux of it is this - when u enslave another ( in the guise of love - when in reality it is fear of loss, needs .....) u also become a slave. When one is self-fuliflled - one shares, when one is not - one seeks out another - and u know lar - its either a melodrama or psychodrama - seeking security in another - through marriage, thru friendship - the other is a means to ur end - its akin to using another - that is the ultimate insult to one's being.
Needs and fears and insecurity (within) not reconciled is a burden to oneself and the other ( could be anyone - not necessarily a spouse, prospective ....) - it is tantamount to beggary!
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Originally posted by Flower eat:
I have a problem. I’m a married woman in the late twenties. I’ve fallen for a single guy friend who is younger. Its very painful. I know there is no future. But i really want him to know i like him, and i want to know if he likes me.
It’s stupid, but i’m wilful. How to know if he likes me?
hmmm interesting....
i would love to hear more....
btw, even if u know all that you wish to know....
what do you hope to achieve at the end of the day?
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Just let him know, tell him ...
Some guys prefer lady that are older then them .
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WTH , You're married ?!
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The missing parts n pieces in u - u see in him lor, and if u are feeling sad its because in your memories (the room in ur heart) - u have fond ones - n now u are stepping into the room again after a long time - only this time it happens to be in him that u see.
As for being married - a suggestion is that u summon courage to share what u feel with ur spouse, whether he accepts or not is not important, what u feel has to expressed - that might make u feel better, rite/wrong is not important, otherwise its going to be hell every day,
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No wonder so many divorce cases these days, sigh!
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Originally posted by Flower eat:
I have a problem. I’m a married woman in the late twenties. I’ve fallen for a single guy friend who is younger. Its very painful. I know there is no future. But i really want him to know i like him, and i want to know if he likes me.
It’s stupid, but i’m wilful. How to know if he likes me?
If you are married, stick to it. The kid should stick to people closer to his age group.If your husband treats you well, I suggest you don't go with other people.
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Is it just lust or you serious?
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When sentimentality has no place n neither one makes a claim on the life n freedom(not licentiousness!) of another - there is a possibility of love being everfresh