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mum-in-law and daughter-in-law???? i really dun understand why mum in law likes to draw line and expect daughter-in-law to do her things on own, (dun ask mum in law to help out) if living under the same roof..
anyway, she practise traditional way of doing and expect next generation to do the same.... no sense... we live in the modern standard of living, not old time....
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bare with it.. there's no chance you can change her thinking..
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Originally posted by kohanson:
hmm..ok...
[b]bare with it.. there's no chance you can change her thinking.. [/b]
or u mean bear with it.. -
shy shy mah
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some things cant b changed overnite...it takes time...for the ice to melt...
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i pity the son. dunno side mum or wife
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yes lor. but i feel that he should listen to wife more, than his mother as he once commited to her for the rest of life since they made a vow. but we have to respect elder. things at home are getting out of hand especially mum-in-law's thinking is outdated, i sometimes cannot tolerant..Originally posted by dumbdumb!:i pity the son. dunno side mum or wife
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which is closer?Originally posted by millienium_bear:yes lor. but i feel that he should listen to wife more, than his mother as he once commited to her for the rest of life since they made a vow. but we have to respect elder. things at home are getting out of hand especially mum-in-law's thinking is outdated, i sometimes cannot tolerant..
mom or wife??
i shld think is mom, because for the first whole part of life, is spent wif mom, so respect shld be given highest priority to mom...
as for wife, duty of husband is to take care, and try to eliminate any conflicts of wife and mother... if conflicts are already very bad, high chance is husband not doing a gd job.....
sometimes, give and take is needed, being head-strong, and stubborn, will not improve r/s...
like i said in the other thread....., if u want ppl to respect, u have to respect... if ur in law dun like u, u can try to make her accept u, over time....
communication is the key... keeping things to urself, and then breaking up in an arguement, or starting to lose ur temper... will not solve anything......