How to win back a guy's heart?

• kuehtutu

  29 May 09, 12:21

  Originally posted by xxxxxlamer:

  he said he wants to be single... happy-go-lucky... guess he doesnt even like me anymore.. i think maybe its my 1st.. i feel so so so so low for the first time... even worse then my depression.

  i think its best that u respect his decision and still be good friends.

• AEW5001

  29 May 09, 14:53

  Originally posted by xxxxxlamer:

  he said he wants to be single... happy-go-lucky... guess he doesnt even like me anymore.. i think maybe its my 1st.. i feel so so so so low for the first time... even worse then my depression.

  
  it's time u moved on w yr life.

• Fugazzi

  29 May 09, 15:40

   

  Unburden yourself of the psychological hangover, emotional hangover - that is your responsibility first lar otherwise  - the same melodrama will be here your mainstay, your diet lor.

• xxxxxlamer

  30 May 09, 12:17

  okok ... ill start moving on by joining the singles forum haha~ :3

• Forbiddensinner

  30 May 09, 12:22

  Originally posted by xxxxxlamer:

  okok ... ill start moving on by joining the singles forum haha~ :3

  A lot of Bian Tai Shu Shu there, it will better for you to use those dating services, or just simply look out for good guys around you.

• xxxxxlamer

  30 May 09, 12:27

  Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:

  A lot of Bian Tai Shu Shu there, it will better for you to use those dating services, or just simply look out for good guys around you.

  
  lol ... no la i just want to widen my social circles bah LOL!! Make more friends... im not rush to date guys... probably staying single for a while bah haha!~

   

   

   

   

• Herzog_Zwei

  30 May 09, 12:52

  Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:

  A lot of Bian Tai Shu Shu there, it will better for you to use those dating services, or just simply look out for good guys around you.

  
  You are just one of the many perverts in sgforums right?

• Forbiddensinner

  30 May 09, 13:02

  Originally posted by Herzog_Zwei:

  
  You are just one of the many perverts in sgforums right?

  No la, even if I am one do you think I will admit it?

• Forbiddensinner

  30 May 09, 13:03

  Originally posted by xxxxxlamer:

  
  lol ... no la i just want to widen my social circles bah LOL!! Make more friends... im not rush to date guys... probably staying single for a while bah haha!~

   

   

   

   

  Good. Take some time off and focus on other stuffs such as clothes and fashion, it will keep your mind off guys for a while.

• Herzog_Zwei

  30 May 09, 13:09

  Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:

  No la, even if I am one do you think I will admit it?

  
  Being true to oneself and others. That helps to make life easier.

• Forbiddensinner

  30 May 09, 13:33

  Originally posted by Herzog_Zwei:

  
  Being true to oneself and others. That helps to make life easier.

  No. It will only make one even more stressed out and depressed.

• si3wmai

  30 May 09, 14:23

  TS... if there is a will there is a way..... slowly juz stay by his side might also be a happiness for u??? juz slowly shower him with your love and care... SLOWLY!! juz follow the feel... do the correct things at the correct time.. eg. be a sucessful man woman behind him when he need you/someone.... juz slowly show him that you still love him and if he sees it, his heart will soften and let him ask u for a patch.. you dun request for it cause it will be very much unsucess.... let time heal the pain and heal the broken relationship... haha just stay happy-go-lucky... hope u will win him back some day...

• Forbiddensinner

  30 May 09, 14:58

  Originally posted by si3wmai:

  TS... if there is a will there is a way..... slowly juz stay by his side might also be a happiness for u??? juz slowly shower him with your love and care... SLOWLY!! juz follow the feel... do the correct things at the correct time.. eg. be a sucessful man woman behind him when he need you/someone.... juz slowly show him that you still love him and if he sees it, his heart will soften and let him ask u for a patch.. you dun request for it cause it will be very much unsucess.... let time heal the pain and heal the broken relationship... haha just stay happy-go-lucky... hope u will win him back some day...

  Unfotunately love breaks every single law of life.

  Hence, "if there is a will there is a way" doesn't apply here.

• Meat Pao

  30 May 09, 17:44

  My condolences....

  Actually nobody died, maybe I shouldnt have said that......

  Actually breaking up is rather common....so I hope you can be strong a bit.....

  Just carry on with your life....concentrate on your work.....keep in touch with some old friends.....stay connected with your family......the usual things.....then this breakup will not play such a big role anymore....after some time you will get over it....and then next time you can start searching for new guys.....

   

• kuehtutu

  31 May 09, 10:44

  Originally posted by xxxxxlamer:

  
  lol ... no la i just want to widen my social circles bah LOL!! Make more friends... im not rush to date guys... probably staying single for a while bah haha!

   

   

  do u have face book? u can always add me

• xxxxxlamer

  31 May 09, 11:30

  Originally posted by si3wmai:

  TS... if there is a will there is a way..... slowly juz stay by his side might also be a happiness for u??? juz slowly shower him with your love and care... SLOWLY!! juz follow the feel... do the correct things at the correct time.. eg. be a sucessful man woman behind him when he need you/someone.... juz slowly show him that you still love him and if he sees it, his heart will soften and let him ask u for a patch.. you dun request for it cause it will be very much unsucess.... let time heal the pain and heal the broken relationship... haha just stay happy-go-lucky... hope u will win him back some day...

  
  good idea

• Forbiddensinner

  31 May 09, 11:34

  Originally posted by xxxxxlamer:

  
  good idea

  If you believe this idea will work, then follow it. I am doubtful of it though.

• xxxxxlamer

  31 May 09, 11:36

  y doubtful? In what way?

• Forbiddensinner

  31 May 09, 11:38

  Originally posted by xxxxxlamer:

  y doubtful? In what way?

  What if he really doesn't care about patching with you at all anymore? You will be wasting your time and youth only wor.

• Forbiddensinner

  31 May 09, 11:39

  Originally posted by xxxxxlamer:

  y doubtful? In what way?

  Double post.

• si3wmai

  4 Jun 09, 15:59

  aiya.... u will never know if you never try... anyways if the situation now have change, mayb that doesn't apply anymore...

• xxxxxlamer

  6 Jun 09, 12:49

  ya.. we have met up ... he still says he dun love me anymore... he dun wan to even try.. i think cos he thinks that our characters too different... thats y he do not wan to try le..

  im not sure what i can do now to win him back ... i REALLY wan to win him back ... any people can give me suggestions?

• Deino

  6 Jun 09, 13:21

  man...i feel for the guy...

  reminded me of myself...

• Fantagf

  6 Jun 09, 13:25

  Originally posted by xxxxxlamer:

  ya.. we have met up ... he still says he dun love me anymore... he dun wan to even try.. i think cos he thinks that our characters too different... thats y he do not wan to try le..

  im not sure what i can do now to win him back ... i REALLY wan to win him back ... any people can give me suggestions?

  It is a better choice to move on and forget about getting back with him since he has made it clear he has no intention to get back together.   If u still harbouring the thought of going back to him, you are hurting yourself.

  His heart is not with you, no point getting back.   Mian qiang si mei you xing fu de!   YOu can't hurry love! 

• xxxxxlamer

  7 Jun 09, 08:53

  i wan to try!! i really wan to get back with him !!!! >< ill change my character!!!!~