Morning Thoughts?
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Its better to lose your pride to someone you love than to lose the one you love because of pride. We often spend too much time looking for the right one to love or finding fault with the ones we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.
We often get too defensive whenever our partner spill nasty words that leave holes in our armour. Many a times, we always failed to look at ourselves on why situations are become such a scene OR we become so blinded by love that we only look and blame ourselves for such ill fate.
So, people moved around the two extreme I suppose? *see nodding forumites reading my naggy post.*
Think about why have you both come together? Think about why is it him/her and not maybe me, Sgboy2004, XLN or anyone else?
/me heard someone yelled fate.
Fate? Some people claims that fate is a major issue regarding love relationships. Some people believed that destiny lies within your own hands - you have to fight for your own destiny. Have you knew of cases where people don't even need to do a thing and love just come to them, while some people fought tooth and claw for this potential one, just to discover her union with another guy/girl when in reality, you have already done far more than him/her?
/me saw corner guy stood up and shout 'suay lar'
Effort and hard work isn't enough my friend - to be effective and frank-to-self is more crucial.
Effective: You could handwritten a hundred copies of notes for 6 hours or photocopy them within 20 minutes. So which is more effective?
Frank-to-self: Always chose a potential partner whose looks factor isn't 1 - 2 points higher/lower than you. Character compatiablity is very important and *never* rush into relation without knowing that person decent enough if you desire a proper relation.
/me preparing to leave, but crowd yells in unison 'Looks factor? Compatiability? but love is blind leh!'
Always remember this point: You are the one that chooses your partner, not the other way around. You chose the one you want to chase, choose the one you want to be with. If you made the choice -be responsible for your own choice - because you made it yourself. Take the easy way out and say goodbye to the relation without truely fighting for your own love is like admitting defeat before your enemy stationed outside your fort.
Cheers -
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
juz curious, how long did it take you to come up with all these?
Its better to lose your pride to someone you love than to lose the one you love because of pride. We often spend too much time looking for the right one to love or finding fault with the ones we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.
We often get too defensive whenever our partner spill nasty words that leave holes in our armour. Many a times, we always failed to look at ourselves on why situations are become such a scene OR we become so blinded by love that we only look and blame ourselves for such ill fate.
So, people moved around the two extreme I suppose? *see nodding forumites reading my naggy post.*
Think about why have you both come together? Think about why is it him/her and not maybe me, Sgboy2004, XLN or anyone else?
/me heard someone yelled fate.
Fate? Some people claims that fate is a major issue regarding love relationships. Some people believed that destiny lies within your own hands - you have to fight for your own destiny. Have you knew of cases where people don't even need to do a thing and love just come to them, while some people fought tooth and claw for this potential one, just to discover her union with another guy/girl when in reality, you have already done far more than him/her?
/me saw corner guy stood up and shout 'suay lar'
Effort and hard work isn't enough my friend - to be [b]effective and frank-to-self is more crucial.
Effective: You could handwritten a hundred copies of notes for 6 hours or photocopy them within 20 minutes. So which is more effective?
Frank-to-self: Always chose a potential partner whose looks factor isn't 1 - 2 points higher/lower than you. Character compatiablity is very important and *never* rush into relation without knowing that person decent enough if you desire a proper relation.
/me preparing to leave, but crowd yells in unison 'Looks factor? Compatiability? but love is blind leh!'
Always remember this point: You are the one that chooses your partner, not the other way around. You chose the one you want to chase, choose the one you want to be with. If you made the choice -be responsible for your own choice - because you made it yourself. Take the easy way out and say goodbye to the relation without truely fighting for your own love is like admitting defeat before your enemy stationed outside your fort.
Cheers
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u are deep...
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*clap clap*
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Maybe half an hour, plus or minus?Originally posted by jeramy:juz curious, how long did it take you to come up with all these? -
U R THAT DAMN GOOD!!!
can i hire u to publish a book on love??
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Wanted to and thought before, in the future if can I will.Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:U R THAT DAMN GOOD!!!
can i hire u to publish a book on love??
Wanted to create website, but know nuts about website creation. Therefore ended up in Aunt Agony lor. -
I think ya told me this before when ya got here...?Originally posted by Yunhaier:Wanted to create website, but know nuts about website creation. Therefore ended up in Aunt Agony lor. -
yeah... till now still don't have!Originally posted by Devil1976:I think ya told me this before when ya got here...? -
WE Waste Time Looking For the Perfect Lover, Instead Of Creating The Perfect Love - Tim Robbins
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WE Waste Time Looking For the Perfect Lover, Instead Of Creating The Perfect Love - Tim Robbins
