how to stop a wandering mind? some nights when i cannot sleep, my mind drifts into past memories. then i start to wonder how she's doing now, so go beow her facebook. see le feel sad. :(
let something new into your life. [:
hehe arigato but that's not what i meant. i usually don't think of her de, but once every few weeks when for whatever reason i cannot fall asleep, i will, and that eventually leads down a slippery slope. how to stop that frm happening? playing games, watching tv, surfing net all don't work leh
let someone new into your life. someone who won't make you feel sad. [:
we broke up 2yrs ago. since then, i've dated other girls. so it's not as though there haven't been new romances. guess i always end up thinking of her coz she was my first true love bah.
now already 4.15. later go to work sure looking like panda de :( everytime this happens, i end up falling asleep at 7+ after emo-ing myself out, only to have to wake up 1hr later to go to work.
if got no suggestions for things to do, what abt methods to promote sleep?
yoga?
write a song about her
get someone new to love and think of. the rest of the methods.. just doesnt really seems to work for imissing someone.
piakichu, it is never easy, almost impossible to forget someone you love/like so much. The memory will stay, but somehow u need to seek an effective way of letting go. If you are stuck in this then it is difficult to move on.
Or are you not ready to let go yet?
I understand it is very painful to let go, I have been there before. Sometimes by remembering what the person is, what he/she had done tears just simply roll down. Sometimes some people just cry themselves to sleep. I am one of them.
Good luck.
i want to cry also cant, nowadays so hot at night and i dont have air con in my room, my tears just evaporates. jokes aside, theres no cure for missing someone. u cant help it when u think of someone out of the blues.
first cut is always the deepest. but if the other party has moved on, you have no reasons to cling on. i suppose you are still young. don't worry about finding the right woman, concentrate on becoming the right man. anyway, love is a luxury, not a necessity. [:
p.s if you can't sleep, don't sleep.
get some sleeping pills lo .
I think all of us get sleepless nights and it`s normal for your mind to wonder around . Just deal with it . :D
Originally posted by Karma88:get some sleeping pills lo .
I think all of us get sleepless nights and it`s normal for your mind to wonder around . Just deal with it . :D
wah seh~ from advice seeker to advice giver! nice... =D
Originally posted by dumbdumb!:wah seh~ from advice seeker to advice giver! nice... =D
LOl super bored in class . so come and try give my 5 cents worth of advice :D
arigato ebeributtie! guess there's no real solution.
Originally posted by piakichu:how to stop a wandering mind? some nights when i cannot sleep, my mind drifts into past memories. then i start to wonder how she's doing now, so go beow her facebook. see le feel sad. :(
Treasure what you have now.
Don't see her profile. Why see? Why make yourself upset unnecessarily? Do you think by seeing her profile in facebook, you will have an accurate picture of what her life now ?
Pick up a new hobby?
Go exercise?
Watch TV?
Listen to music?
Or just stone and emo for 1 day while staring at a wall in your house lah, then move on and continue with life the next day.
been there done that. the most u can do is to try not to be alone, but u cant be 24/7 with ur buddies right?
there will be times when u are alone, e.g sleeping, bathing, brushing ur teeth while looking at the mirror etc, these are the times when u would unknowingly stop and think of stuffs...
forget the past and look forward...never ever turn back because you already make the wrong move.. NEVER EVER if you do..it will hurt FOREVER...
Originally posted by Doom995:forget the past and look forward...never ever turn back because you already make the wrong move.. NEVER EVER if you do..it will hurt FOREVER...
o.O spoken like a true experienced person :/
stop going to her fb!slowly slowly,you'll get over her.date other girls,girls who are similar to her?so you won't compare and feel that she's much better after all.
Originally posted by piakichu:how to stop a wandering mind? some nights when i cannot sleep, my mind drifts into past memories. then i start to wonder how she's doing now, so go beow her facebook. see le feel sad. :(
1) Stop going to her fb
2) Get a new gf
If the above does not work, take flu tablets every night and I will guarantee you will sleep well.
Sometimes it happens... thoughts keep lingering in our minds when we try to sleep...
Lie down, close you eyes, think of something else... like sheeps... something soothing... need to put in effort cuz the imagine of her will keep coming back...
go
keep doing that
go see her fb for like every 5 mins
for 20 years
gogogo
nobody stopping u
and keep looking at her fb until she get married, and have kids
and everyday curse her bf and her husband
keep doing that
maybe she will get touched by ur cursing
and be with u
is that what u want?
if she is happy, shldnt u feel happy for her as well? yes its hard to forget, but its possible to move on