Yr reaction when one of yr parents had extra-matrial affairs
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How u react and handle ?
Just want to understand people reactions. -
pple make mistakes
parents are pple too -
so how to rectify ?
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How u manage yr emotions and thought?
How do u relate to yr e other half abt this? -
let mi go and stand by the edge of the window and think abt it...
btw, if i dun get back to u, it means i hav ....
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u are up earlyOriginally posted by sgboy2004:let mi go and stand by the edge of the window and think abt it...
btw, if i dun get back to u, it means i hav ....
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i am a gentleman
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i would make them feel very bad like they wana die
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i would make them feel very bad like they wana die
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it depends on your maturity
if u r young, u better let your parents settle their own problem and u should stay neutral and unbiased to the situation
if u wanna help to reconcile, u yourself is the best person to do it. because both of them make u -
It's best to stay neutral. if they choose to bitch to you then juz hear each of them out. cos if you 'take sides' then ultimately they'll try to buy you to their side and then yr whole house will turn into a war zone.
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Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:it depends on your maturity
if u r young, u better let your parents settle their own problem and u should stay neutral and unbiased to the situation
if u wanna help to reconcile, u yourself is the best person to do it. because both of them make u
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I hope u are not facing this..
It is traumatic.. to say the least... especially if the children are young. Although it is "mature thinking" to understand your parents to be fallible beings and to forgive him/her, somehow the trust wld be broken..
Even when the affair became a thing of the past and all seem to be forgotten and forgiven, somehow it seems to cast a shadow in the way you view relationships and people around you.. -
and i forgot to say how to handle it..
there's very little the children can do actually.
its best not to take sides... even though you may be inclined to take the side with the parent who has been cheated on.
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sit on the fence
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i be more matured, show them that i am old enought to handle such stuff. depending on whether they want to continue the extra-matrial affair. i'll let them make their own decision.
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I don't have much emotions.... ......Originally posted by lchungwe:How u react and handle ?
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find out if he gonna marry the third party... if he is, force him to bring me go visit the other family, to make sure the girl im dating isnt in any way related to that family (and so wont b related to me after they marry).
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Be OBJECTIVE. View the situation like an onlooker does.Originally posted by lchungwe:How u react and handle ?
Just want to understand people reactions.
I did.
Everything happens for a reason, even an extramarital affair. There are many ways to analyze the whole thing. To find the root of the problem, find the scumbag or slut (culprit) or salvage the marriage??? These are OPTIONS but they can be settled only by the Married Couple.
As a child, I put aside my emotions, the pain & hurt, and try to imagine myself in their very shoes. Is the marriage Worth saving or otherwise. I Wldnt & DID NOT meddle in it. It was a Love affair of 2 pple close to me that was all.
Whatever has to be will be
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...... Guess you still has it...?Originally posted by reallieRAW:Be OBJECTIVE. View the situation like an onlooker does.
I did.
Everything happens for a reason, even an extramarital affair. There are many ways to analyze the whole thing. To find the root of the problem, find the scumbag or slut (culprit) or salvage the marriage??? These are OPTIONS but they can be settled only by the Married Couple.
As a child, I put aside my emotions, the pain & hurt, and try to imagine myself in their very shoes. Is the marriage Worth saving or otherwise. I Wldnt & DID NOT meddle in it. It was a Love affair of 2 pple close to me that was all.
Whatever has to be will be -
??? They are old enough to think!!! But... i will 100% not accept the other party.......
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has wat?Originally posted by Devil1976:...... Guess you still has it...?