Should i continue to pursue her
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Has been going out with her for about 3 month....recently sent her a valentine day present and she accept it.....but when i ask her to be my stead.....ask never answer....but instead tell me not to joke with her.....what should i do......??? continue to pursue her or to give up.......
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yo dude i facing the same problem wif u... oso dunno wanna do wat next....
she din give exact answer...let me hanging in the air... haiz.... -
ya lor.........everytime when i was about to ask her again.....she will give excuses not to answer......making me really dun know what to do.......
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go ahead
u love her go for it -
i been thru such shit
but my reply was slightly better than yours
can tell me your situation in more detail so that i might be able to help -
has been going out quite often with her during this three months......the first time i ask her to be my stead was before new year....she did not reject me....nor did she reply me....i thought i has fail...so i stop calling her......But after a few day....she call me and we chat for about a few hrs....when i ask her for the reply of my request....she answered by saying she forget what question i refering to....recently i sent her a valentine day present which is a heart shaped pendant....she accept it....so i thought my chances has come....but when i rise that question again......she pretend not to understand what i saying.......very confused now......should continue or to stop????
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the thing is after u show hand b4 new yr, she at least look 4 u....means at least u mean something to herOriginally posted by poor_guy:has been going out quite often with her during this three months......the first time i ask her to be my stead was before new year....she did not reject me....nor did she reply me....i thought i has fail...so i stop calling her......But after a few day....she call me and we chat for about a few hrs....when i ask her for the reply of my request....she answered by saying she forget what question i refering to....recently i sent her a valentine day present which is a heart shaped pendant....she accept it....so i thought my chances has come....but when i rise that question again......she pretend not to understand what i saying.......very confused now......should continue or to stop????
girls will most prob accept gifts from guys so u cannot think too much on that
i think she is either dunno whether like u or not, or treat u as a plain good friend(as girls say no chemistry or feeling ar) or simply playing with your feelings to make her ego feel good.
maybe she dun wanna have a bf now.
u got to ask her. ask her out to face to face talk show hand but your attitude must be rite. at least after the talk sort things out with her, u won't feel so lost and play these stupid mind games.
or if u think she is the ONE, u better do things to touch her heart(dun ask me how, i not expert in this area)
or u can simply bo chap her, see her reaction and play mind games with yourself. (this will lead to regret in later in your life because i chose this option) -
i think i know what to do...thanks for ur advice.....
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yo brudderOriginally posted by poor_guy:i think i know what to do...thanks for ur advice.....
good luck
can tell me what u r going to do??
just curious -
One thing for sure - you ain't her potential in her mind, because if you are, she would have accepted you long ago. Instead she chose to avoid, but accept your gifts gracefully.Originally posted by poor_guy:has been going out quite often with her during this three months......the first time i ask her to be my stead was before new year....she did not reject me....nor did she reply me....i thought i has fail...so i stop calling her......But after a few day....she call me and we chat for about a few hrs....when i ask her for the reply of my request....she answered by saying she forget what question i refering to....recently i sent her a valentine day present which is a heart shaped pendant....she accept it....so i thought my chances has come....but when i rise that question again......she pretend not to understand what i saying.......very confused now......should continue or to stop????
My advice would be: to force it out of her. Pretending all that thingy would only dragged it further. She is obviously playing mind games with you. Seriously speaking and sorry for my bluntness: she may not even fancy you - as what I had said before (if she did, she would have already accepted you), furthermore you jio her not only once, but three times! and all she did was to pretend and avoid.
One word of caution: Are you *sure* this is the sort of girl you are looking for?
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i agree with yunhaier a bit
as in i noe girls that dun want bf 1.....and they damn determined abt it
it all depends on your own judgement
but yunhaier points abt y she dun answer is there lar
maybe she just like the feeling some1 is chasing her -
me think she wanna rejected u but afraid it will hurt ur feeling n affect ur relationship ( gd sign cos this show u still got quite importance to her) anyway i suggest u give up .......or at least for the present n try it after she show some +ve sign den ask again ( which is not advisable 
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This is the most suffering point of time in building a relaationship.Have to wait lor..cannot force ppl mah.I wait my girl for more than a month to reply..it's torturing and can't eat and sleep well.If her answer is positive u can feel like fly up to the sky.I think ur sincerity can move her heavy hearts..good luck to ya..Originally posted by poor_guy:Has been going out with her for about 3 month....recently sent her a valentine day present and she accept it.....but when i ask her to be my stead.....ask never answer....but instead tell me not to joke with her.....what should i do......??? continue to pursue her or to give up.......
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what i can say is ...................move on with life..... maybe it's not she dont like u, just ur timimgis wrong. simply put. no fate. meant to be frenz only. not too bad too....it's alway frenzship that last long!
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continue.Originally posted by poor_guy:has been going out quite often with her during this three months......the first time i ask her to be my stead was before new year....she did not reject me....nor did she reply me....i thought i has fail...so i stop calling her......But after a few day....she call me and we chat for about a few hrs....when i ask her for the reply of my request....she answered by saying she forget what question i refering to....recently i sent her a valentine day present which is a heart shaped pendant....she accept it....so i thought my chances has come....but when i rise that question again......she pretend not to understand what i saying.......very confused now......should continue or to stop???? -
go on....sometime u dont need to haf the ans right from her words....can see from action one...
when crossing road, offewr to held her hand....than after crossing, dont let go, if she neber shake it off than it means yes....if she shake it off, than keep repeating till she accept or she scold u.. -
some girls try to appear "hard to get" or dun wish to "drop the wrong signals"
if they treat u as a close fren, there is a chance that they dun consider u as a potential bf.....
but of course... going steady is something that happens in btw frens, and it's quite probable, that she has some feelings for u...
maybe u can do some "test water" tactics, but it depends entirely on u... -
I have a question to ask.....
Do you call and talk to her JUST because want her to be your gf? -
well, it is e tricky part betwe this gd frenz r/s and potentially bgr that is vexing at times... some gals is jus hard to 'test water'... like my case... 2 yrs liao.. sigh... but i still dun wanna give up... hoping for miracles to happen one day...Originally posted by AngelDark:some girls try to appear "hard to get" or dun wish to "drop the wrong signals"
if they treat u as a close fren, there is a chance that they dun consider u as a potential bf.....
but of course... going steady is something that happens in btw frens, and it's quite probable, that she has some feelings for u...
maybe u can do some "test water" tactics, but it depends entirely on u...
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2 yrs is a long time palOriginally posted by ScorpioX:well, it is e tricky part betwe this gd frenz r/s and potentially bgr that is vexing at times... some gals is jus hard to 'test water'... like my case... 2 yrs liao.. sigh... but i still dun wanna give up... hoping for miracles to happen one day...
i better look 4 some other gals out there
there r many other gals out there that r good too -
maybe u never test correctly?Originally posted by ScorpioX:well, it is e tricky part betwe this gd frenz r/s and potentially bgr that is vexing at times... some gals is jus hard to 'test water'... like my case... 2 yrs liao.. sigh... but i still dun wanna give up... hoping for miracles to happen one day... -
Settle this quickly, ask her whether she loves you and wants to be with you (of course be sensible and with tactfulness).
End your pain now
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yup.. sometimes its better to be straightforward and ask weather its Yes or No.. yup.. its pain thinking of this matter yea but anyway good luck with your gal
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Originally posted by De|usi0n:
[b]go on....sometime u dont need to haf the ans right from her words....can see from action one...
when crossing road, offewr to held her hand....than after crossing, dont let go, if she neber shake it off than it means yes....if she shake it off, than keep repeating till she accept or she scold u..[/b] e ying ying lai tactic sial...
if she sassy gal type..u die ah!! -
hey man..having a gf like like the sassy girl type not too bad mah.......more exciting not boring and u no need to do things for her, she'll be the 1 looking for u.....so relac!!!Originally posted by fish&chipz: e ying ying lai tactic sial...
if she sassy gal type..u die ah!!