Originally posted by yahoo.com:
hello all ... just wondering what will u ppl choose between the two options below:
1. minimise all ur contacts with ur frenz to be with the one u love
2.minimise contact with ur love to maintain frenship with others
Loved one means ur gf/bf
pls dun say tt must balance between the two etc. coz i just wanna know what will u guys/gals choose between the two options given. thanks...also please state ur gender so that its easier to evaluate how gals n guys think
for me:
its option 1: minimise all my contacts with my frenz to be with the one i love. i definitely wont mind it as i feel frenz come and go easily. and i will definitely want to keep my other half as happy as possible which means spending lotsa time with her also. btw i m a guy.
If i were to chose, i cant come out with an answer becoz both frens and gf are important to me.
true frens dun come and go easily, do not always presume frens are like water, comes when u are plentiful and goes when u are in need.
but i dun diagree of ur point as to spend as much time together with her, afterall she will be the one spending the rest of the life with u.. hopefully. but think again, wad if by an unlucky chance, u 2 were to have a break up, wad will be the years u have spend with her? your frens wun be there to console u, becoz u dun even care about them in the first place. i just wanna exphasis that frens and our life time partners plays equally important roles in our life. Seriously i dun believe a normal human being can live on with life without frens.
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