How to get rid of feelings of being unloved?
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Originally posted by dracas:
I always have this feelings....its a sort of loser feeling. How do i get rid of this? Like u see couples....u get tempted. U see parents being very supportive of their children, you envy them. How do I get rid of this feeling? I always envy ppl who are nonchalant about such things.
There're things you can see and thing which you can't see.
Things which you can see and envy, things which you can't see and people might envy you.
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if you get envy over everything,seriously you have to work on yourself.
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envy is one of the 7 deadly sins
Envy (Latin, invidia) may be characterized by an insatiable desire; they differ, however, for two main reasons. First, greed is largely associated with material goods, whereas envy may apply more generally. Second, those who commit the sin of envy resent that another person has something they perceive themselves as lacking, and wish the other person to be deprived of it. Dante defined this as "love of one's own good perverted to a desire to deprive other men of theirs." In Dante's Purgatory, the punishment for the envious is to have their eyes sewn shut with wire because they have gained sinful pleasure from seeing others brought low. Aquinas described envy as "sorrow for another's good".
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get a life loser.
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Start building up your self confidence. Believing in youself.
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Minimize or do away with feeling of self pity
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How much of this unloved feeling is actually based on fact ? Are there really nobody in your life that loves you ?
Being nonchallant about it can be a denial or a mask that people wear in front of others. So being nonchallant doesn't really solve the issue.
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try to ignore the feeling ... or distract youself .
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can't. you are born a loser.
and you always be
LOSER!!!! HAHAHAHAAAAA
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It's normal to feel this way from time to time. I don't think the so called, "nonchalant" people you see around you are that removed from the thoughts you have. We're only human, and it's natural to have insecurities.
Afterall, it can't be too rare a feeling if Beck made a song out of it.
Sometimes you need to learn how to laugh at yourself, laugh at life, take things easy, and look at what you've got instead of feeling shitty over what you don't.
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well answer to how to get lose of the "unloved" feeling
1) STUDY HARD.
2) EARN lots of $$$
3) LOVE WILL COME
so now you should STUDY HARD
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the people who you envy are probably too busy and occupied to notice whether or not they are being loved
the fact is that you are not doing anything fulfilling or meaningful in your, so much so that you will actually notice trivial things like this
my advice to you is to do something meaningful in your, like doing well in your studies, stop thinking about all these useless stuff
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there is a saying that you have to love yourself before others can love you.
pamper yourself, get that watch you have been admiring for the longest period of time, treat yourself in a fine restaurant.
the feeeling you have after getting the above, is hard to explain though you'll feel that you LOVE yourself
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Originally posted by dracas:
I always have this feelings....its a sort of loser feeling. How do i get rid of this? Like u see couples....u get tempted. U see parents being very supportive of their children, you envy them. How do I get rid of this feeling? I always envy ppl who are nonchalant about such things.
Don't compare yourself with others, only know how to put in effort that will build your future, waiting and preparing for your yuan fen to come / other opportunities that will come knocking to your door.
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must have self-esteem lor...dun hu si ran xiang...
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Make more friends...
Even though still got the feeling...
You will know that you will always have a place with your friends,
Even if they are not always there for you..
But you will meet them and have fun again :) -
Jesus love you
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Get a dog.
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You have to keep your feelings inside, and kill them.