Loneliness & Depression.

• DumbFound

  22 Jun 09, 13:19

  Okay guys.
  This is going to be my last thread.
  I really hope you guys would help me out.
  

  Please do listen very sincerely.
  If not I don't find a point that you would help me out.
  Thank you very much if you had sincerely help me :)
  
  I never led a great life before.
  I want to lead a happy life like no other would.
  
  Well. I have very little friends.
  So most of the time I would be alone using the computer.
  I really feel no meaning in my life if I continue doing so.
  Although sometimes I went out with my friends.
  I'll just be slacking around with them because that is what they do.
  Actually sometimes I don't mind slacking with them
  And chatting around with them at the same time.
  But I need to do something. I want my life to be meaningful enough.
  I need some other friends who can play sports with me
  While spending the day with me.
  Or maybe going out to watch a little movie.
  How great would life be if I could ever do so.
  But nobody really likes me and bother to call me out.
  So I believe I have become a game addict staying at home.
  I want to be popular and have much friends with me each day
  Sometimes when people are so much popular than you.
  They have the upper hand whether they want to play with you.
  They can also spread things so much easier and cause you grief.
  
  Talking about the girl that I love.
  I know she has a boyfriend and I'm willing to wait .
  Although I did not tell her that I love her
  I feel that she some what might know.
  But we are still friends and I do message her most of the time :)
  Well I am in a trauma right now.
  You know that there are so many popular kids around.
  They go around ruining me .
  Just like many of my friends do that to me.
  
  I need a dream and a goal.
  But what could it really be.
  My life already had no meaning .
  Neither will it ever have a dream or a goal.
  
  Please help me find the real meaning of my pitiful life :(
• eeden.

  22 Jun 09, 13:21

  come for forum outings nor.

• SBS7484P

  22 Jun 09, 13:26

  just ignore all of them like what i do.

   

  life will be better for you.

  why would you care about what they say? if you know it's crap and it's baseless; meaningless, then ignore. why harp on matters that make you depressed. do stuff that makes you happy.

• DumbFound

  22 Jun 09, 13:35

  Wah forum also got outings de ?!
  
  Well I can ignore.
  But actually the main factor of this
  Is Loneliness and No meaning of life.

• eeden.

  22 Jun 09, 13:39

  Originally posted by DumbFound:

  Wah forum also got outings de ?!
  
  Well I can ignore.
  But actually the main factor of this
  Is Loneliness and No meaning of life.

  
  lonely then make friends with the forummers as well nor.

  if everyone think like you the world die already.

  ya forum got outings one what.LOL.

• SBS7484P

  22 Jun 09, 13:42

  once you ignore life will be better.

  as i said. do stuff that makes you happy

  no point being dissatisfied about your life and then go emo over it. just makes everything feel a lot shittier

• DumbFound

  22 Jun 09, 13:44

  Sometimes doing things without friends seem shitty.
  I nearly spend everyday myself.

• DumbFound

  22 Jun 09, 13:44

  Sometimes doing things without friends seem shitty.
  I spend

• SBS7484P

  22 Jun 09, 13:45

  i do things without friends what.

  i watch movies alone. i go out alone. if people not happy with you going out with them then they're not friends.

• eeden.

  22 Jun 09, 13:46

  Originally posted by DumbFound:

  Sometimes doing things without friends seem shitty.
  I nearly spend everyday myself.

  
  it seems shitty cos you find it that way.if you treasure the time spent together with your friends it will not be shitty anymore.

  i also spend almost everyday myself,and i dont have a problem with it.

• DumbFound

  22 Jun 09, 14:10

  zz!
  You guys spend the day with yourself and you all dont feel anything?
  If I ever spend the day by myself.
  I would just feel like suiciding.
  Or maybe I do spend the day by myself.
  But in grief and sadness.

• cassie

  22 Jun 09, 14:16

  why does this thread reads suspiciously like a previous or rather a few previous ones

• eeden.

  22 Jun 09, 14:16

  Originally posted by DumbFound:

  zz!
  You guys spend the day with yourself and you all dont feel anything?
  If I ever spend the day by myself.
  I would just feel like suiciding.
  Or maybe I do spend the day by myself.
  But in grief and sadness.

  
  told you its all about mindset.kthxbye.

• ThunderFbolt

  22 Jun 09, 14:17

  go out, find a hobby. go learn cooking, martial arts, music, piano, anything to make your life more enriching. 

   

  are you schooling or working? you should approach your teacher or boss to tell them how you feel and request help. 

• dkcx

  22 Jun 09, 14:17

  Originally posted by cassie:

  why does this thread reads suspiciously like a previous or rather a few previous ones

  Becos its the same guy who has never solve the same old problem

• noahnoah

  22 Jun 09, 14:18

   

  can pick up a hobby like

  R/C drifting

  u can get to know a lot of friends

  enought to burn ur weekends

  and weekdays

• Babyball77

  22 Jun 09, 14:39

  pm mi mi be your friend if u want leave your contact mi will get  back to u asap

• Kyutake

  22 Jun 09, 14:42

  come brother!!

  i was once like you.

  I was never one that my friends like, they call me name say im snobbish bla bla bla.

  but hey the world is round you can change ya bad habits!

  if your a gamer, make some friends who like playing games!

  i believe your still pretty young yes?

  once you hit NS you will find friends.

  Brothers who will stand by you cause ya together like for the next years to come!

  cheer up la =)

  need a friend?

  i be your friend!

  need a goal?

  start by wanting to make money!

  be an opportunist!

• Nikar 3

  22 Jun 09, 14:45

  Originally posted by DumbFound:

  Okay guys.
  This is going to be my last thread.
  I really hope you guys would help me out.

  Please do listen very sincerely.
  If not I don't find a point that you would help me out.
  Thank you very much if you had sincerely help me :)
  
  I never led a great life before.
  I want to lead a happy life like no other would.
  
  Well. I have very little friends.
  So most of the time I would be alone using the computer.
  I really feel no meaning in my life if I continue doing so.
  Although sometimes I went out with my friends.
  I'll just be slacking around with them because that is what they do.
  Actually sometimes I don't mind slacking with them
  And chatting around with them at the same time.
  But I need to do something. I want my life to be meaningful enough.
  I need some other friends who can play sports with me
  While spending the day with me.
  Or maybe going out to watch a little movie.
  How great would life be if I could ever do so.
  But nobody really likes me and bother to call me out.
  So I believe I have become a game addict staying at home.
  I want to be popular and have much friends with me each day
  Sometimes when people are so much popular than you.
  They have the upper hand whether they want to play with you.
  They can also spread things so much easier and cause you grief.
  
  Talking about the girl that I love.
  I know she has a boyfriend and I'm willing to wait .
  Although I did not tell her that I love her
  I feel that she some what might know.
  But we are still friends and I do message her most of the time :)
  Well I am in a trauma right now.
  You know that there are so many popular kids around.
  They go around ruining me .
  Just like many of my friends do that to me.
  
  I need a dream and a goal.
  But what could it really be.
  My life already had no meaning .
  Neither will it ever have a dream or a goal.
  
  Please help me find the real meaning of my pitiful life :(

  hello, at least u got friends ok???!!! nikar here got none!!!!

  freaking mudder-farker.

• DumbFound

  22 Jun 09, 14:55

  Wtf.
  How can I ever go out or make friends with people aged 18+ de ?!
  I now only 14 sia !

• dkcx

  22 Jun 09, 15:02

  Originally posted by DumbFound:

  Wtf.
  How can I ever go out or make friends with people aged 18+ de ?!
  I now only 14 sia !

  You complain no friends, ppl wan make friends with you, u complain their age...

  Most kids your age you want find them, you go WOW, DOTA, MapleSEA etc etc not SGForum. There might be kids your age surfing SGF but AA is not a place young boys like to hang out at all.

• cassie

  22 Jun 09, 15:02

  Originally posted by dkcx:

  Becos its the same guy who has never solve the same old problem

  
  think the problem is putting up enough threads and posts as the clone is being banned or shut down

• Bluediver

  22 Jun 09, 15:06

  Still young threadstarter...wait till u step into adulthood then u realise what's the reality of life.

  Stay focus and enjoy your childhood/teenage part...it'll be gone before u realise it.

  Start on something u like, maybe photography...etc things that interest u.

  Life is more than feeling low, if you are feeling low/moody/down....how about those who lost their parents, born with defects....

  Stay positive.

• ThisIsAnfield

  22 Jun 09, 15:10

  Hey dumbfound i totally understand your situation now as i also feel the same way sometimes. Tell me if you want to be my friend.

• dkcx

  22 Jun 09, 15:13

  Originally posted by ThisIsAnfield:

  Hey dumbfound i totally understand your situation now as i also feel the same way sometimes. Tell me if you want to be my friend.

  Looking at your post histories, it makes people wonder whether your intentions are 'safe'... Do note TS is 14 and the law now covers boys as well