You need do "spring cleaning" on friendship. Throw away those rubbish friends. Maintain friendship with good ones.
Originally posted by mashpotato:im feeling insecurity, my friends are always bitching, and im guilty too. sometimes we purposely leave out someone we dun like. ;( i feel bad now. the thing is, i realise, they could be the same to me too. I don't feel like they're my true friends after all, that they are full of lies.
One of my gd fren grew closer to me, gave me a cold look recently when shes hanging with my bestfriend, when i called her, she started with "what?" asked her who she was with (thinking i could join in) she went "Alex?" in a why are u asking? way.
Second.
My bestfriend , her attitude ever since her self esteem increased, she became slimmer after diet, pettier, she became a model too, she became more judgemental of what im doing, she influence people extremely easy, she's kind of like the head of the clique, she is always able to turn a group of people against a person. but shes like my older sister too, i depend on her alot and we thru alot of breaking school rules and crazy things.
I cant trust them now, im containing everything, i can imagine them betraying me by leaving me out, talking behind my back. and i know very well, if my bestfriend and i fought, my clique would be on her side. because it has happened times.
;( i wanna leave this bunch of friends, but it really isn't easy to be alone.
As the saying goes, "Birds of the same feathers flock together", and I guess it applies to you in this case.
If you truly want to leave this group of friend, the first thing which you must do is to change yourself for the better. It won't help for you to remain the same girl who goes about talking about others behind their backs. Even if you find new friends, they will either :
a) Not go to close to you, as they do not want you to talk bad about them behind their back.
Or
b) Be the same or at least similar to your current group of friends
true fren doesnt come easy..
strangely, all my besties are once my enemies. we used to hate/ badmouthed/ quarrelled with each other damn badly.
hahahahah...
but of cos, when u say forgive n forget, u reli have to forgive n forget wadever they had ever done or said abt you.
i rather be a loner than hanging out with friends that i don't even like.
it might take some time for your other friends to accept you, but hey, at least your life doesnt depend on those few people in your clique. :)
it's not too late to change :)
Well, what happen to you happen to me before. At first, it is rather hard to be a loner. But soon you get new friends be it online or from school. So you won't be lonely :).
Friends are everywhere but true friend are one in a million. It is for you to decide to be with whom. ;)
Who is your friend do not depend on you.
It depend on what sort of person the other is.
No matter how perfect your are, if the other person is not loyal, that person can never be your friend.
Many people can be loyal to another person, but unfortunately those that cannot be loyal is much much more. Like 1:1,000,000
Chose your friends carefully. See how the other person is.
That person is also checking you out carefully.
TS
u indeed deserve better frens
u have the wrong friends, search and filter, you will find the right ones eventually
Be friendly lar, be loving, that is enough, seeking is an infernal chase!