For those who seen my sad story last nite...
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Gone. All gone... As if things isnt worse enough. My bf wanna break up wif mi... Tats e worse thing tat can happen 2 mi. I cant accept it. I cant believe tat he initiated it... I reali cant believe it...
He once said nv 2 leave mi. N now he's sayin he wanna breakup so easily... Im heartbroken. Truly heartbroken... Suddenly i feel tat my world has turned upside down. Eveythin is turnin its back on mi. Everythin is goin against my way...
Since he dunwan mi liao, there's no more reason y i shd continue livin on wif my life... D*E*A*T*H is e onli way 2 end my sadness n agony... Reali no more other solutions liao. Without him, my life is juz like a piece of crap... It doesnt matter any longer liao anyway... Itz already e end of my world liao.
Dis may b e last time i'll b here in dis forum... I reali love my bf v much... Since im e cause of all his unhappiness, i shall leave...
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hello...dun like tat lah...
this is not the end of every thing...
think of your parents, how sad they will be if u were to do crazy things.
if u need to talk to someone, mi will be here for u
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i am a gentleman
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I cant be like shancai so strong... I cant live on like she can... Im juz a ger who's weak in terms of relation...
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In my eyes, there's onli my bf... He's my eveything... Once i lose him, i lose everything. There's no 1 else who can gif mi happiness like he does... Not even my parents. 2 mi he's e onli person who cares 4 mi e most.
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dun think like dat..Originally posted by shan_cai:I cant be like shancai so strong... I cant live on like she can... Im juz a ger who's weak in terms of relation...
it is not the end yet...(still got mi wat)
mi suggest u ask other friends of yours to go out...why not go sentosa todae... some of the people are playing volleyball there...just take a walk there... go out, and not coop up in your house.
Cheer up ger, mi so worried 4 u.
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i cant... im not in e mood 4 anythin now... I juz wan him bk 2 mi... No matter wat he do 2 mi or how hurtin his words r 2 mi, i stil love him... When u reali reali love tat person u'll noe... I've nv loved a guy dis much...
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Shan_cai, if u think cause of ur bf like that, u wanna kill urself. Then go ahead, u think the pple on the forum really care? What's ur purpose in posting and announcing to everyone to see that u wanna die, u think we really care? We are juz entertaining u and ourselves. Pull up urselves, get ur act together and move on, that's life lady! We all go thru shit, is it the first sign of shit that we have to take our lives? Come on lady!
Alwaz remember: 'The strong shall live, the weak shall die' .
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Originally posted by MetalGear:Shan_cai, if u think cause of ur bf like that, u wanna kill urself. Then go ahead, u think the pple on the forum really care? What's ur purpose in posting and announcing to everyone to see that u wanna die, u think we really care? We are juz entertaining u and ourselves. Pull up urselves, get ur act together and move on, that's life lady! We all go thru shit, is it the first sign of shit that we have to take our lives? Come on lady!
Alwaz remember: 'The strong shall live, the weak shall die' .
The qn is: Which one are u?
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I juz wanna share my problem... Haf no 1 2 tok 2... But i cant bottle up my feelings too... Im breakin down sn...
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Heelo Shan cai. Sheesh. Everytime I read this kind of sad and I-wanna-end-my-life-because-my-bf-left-me thread, I kinda feel a bit sian. How can people really go kill themselves over something like this? Life can be more meaningful if you choose it to be. You just have to pick it up and be strong. Learn to be stronger. Learn to brave the world. Try to do things that you like.
You yourself choose and determine how to lead your life.
There's always a lot of boys out there better than your current one. There always is, you just have to find them, that's all.
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Think about this... if you bf wants to break with you, do you think he wants this relationship anymore? No, he doesn't, and which means even if he still remain in it, this relationship wouldn't grow and in the, both party will still go on separate ways.Originally posted by shan_cai:Gone. All gone... As if things isnt worse enough. My bf wanna break up wif mi... Tats e worse thing tat can happen 2 mi. I cant accept it. I cant believe tat he initiated it... I reali cant believe it...
He once said nv 2 leave mi. N now he's sayin he wanna breakup so easily... Im heartbroken. Truly heartbroken... Suddenly i feel tat my world has turned upside down. Eveythin is turnin its back on mi. Everythin is goin against my way...
Since he dunwan mi liao, there's no more reason y i shd continue livin on wif my life... D*E*A*T*H is e onli way 2 end my sadness n agony... Reali no more other solutions liao. Without him, my life is juz like a piece of crap... It doesnt matter any longer liao anyway... Itz already e end of my world liao.
Dis may b e last time i'll b here in dis forum... I reali love my bf v much... Since im e cause of all his unhappiness, i shall leave... 
Let me ask you a few question:
I) How old are you?
II) What is the reasons for the breakage? & How did he ask for the break? What was his own reasons for it too?
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Originally posted by shan_cai:I juz wanna share my problem... Haf no 1 2 tok 2... But i cant bottle up my feelings too... Im breakin down sn...
I'll go 'beng kui' sooner or later... Have no one to talk to? Haha. Can come here wah. Lots of people. It's true that it's not good to bottle up your feelings. Saying it out will definitely make you feel better. -
No... Ur wrong... I believe he stil wan dis relationship... He wans a long term relation... Now he's askin mi 2 let him cool down... Mi 18 yrs old... He initiated e breakup becoz he feels i dun understand him... He juz went 2 work dis mornin n i msg him... So thru msg he initiated it...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Think about this... if you bf wants to break with you, do you think he wants this relationship anymore? No, he doesn't, and which means even if he still remain in it, this relationship wouldn't grow and in the, both party will still go on separate ways.
Let me ask you a few question:
I) How old are you?
II) What is the reasons for the breakage? & How did he ask for the break? What was his own reasons for it too?
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Sorry if i was harsh juz now, but the real world out there is harsh. If u can't control ur emotions and feelings, u would be in a turmoil of emotions and funny thinkings and thoughts like 'killing urself' will enter ur head! U r now in a state in emotional turmoil whereby ur emotions are running high and ur bodily actions are being controlled by ur emotions. Stop that! Sit down, or better ask someone close out to talk about the problem, look at the matter from a logical point of view and not emotional pt of view. The 2 qualities : Emotions & logic: each has its strong factor, but u must know how to balance them and know when to use each one at its fullest or half half. Logically think the problem thru,Originally posted by shan_cai:I juz wanna share my problem... Haf no 1 2 tok 2... But i cant bottle up my feelings too... Im breakin down sn...
I'll go 'beng kui' sooner or later...
1)why did he break up with u? Lack of communication? Were u able to see this coming? The blow would be greater if u didn't see this coming. Is it his character type to play around with girls? Then u shouldn't be with him in the first place unless thats what u want too.
2) could the problem also lie with u? Did u all really go into a relationship juz cause of boredom or really there was something and both of u decided to put in effort? The 'there was something' part is the usual thing but the 'put in effort' most of the time isn't present. Most pple dun put in effort in making a relationship becoming stronger. They think love is all about the big demonstrations: Vday, sex, flashy presents etc. When real love is about the small things in life which 2 parties decide to put an effort in, to think about each other, to want to be part of each others life. Most pple do not approach love with such a viewpt and thought and think its juz the 'love at first sight' thing, which sad to say, give abit of time, the fuel runs out.
3) Talk about this to your close frens and see what viewpts they can't say. Sometimes they can offer valuable insights which u can't see in ur current state of anger, sadness and frustration.
4) The most important thing now is not to think of 'Why break up with me?' It leads to a state of personal bashing and leads to nothing. Try to draw good conclusions about this bad relationship, learn the lessons so that in your next relationship, watch out for signs and most importantly, go into a relationship for the more appropriate reasons.
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Your giving up for forest for just a twig? jeez.. come on.. surely that guy do not deserve you! You life has to go on! Do not be hampered by just one failed relationship.
He simply just do not know how to cherish you. Its his loss anyway. Do not think that death is any way to any problems.Thinking about it is wrong and if you have a conscience, you conscience would long leave you too.
Confide in your best friends/family and maybe they know how to console you more than us (your virtual friends).He is the only thing in the world, you know.
Come on cheer up. Go read a book or watch a movie with your friends or something or u can just cry. Cry all you want. Thats a good pain reliever, i always do that when i feel sad.Cheer up k girl?
Cheers
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Through msg he initated break means that he don't dare face you obviously. You go go down to his work place during his lunch break or dinner, etc to get the real reasons out of him.Originally posted by shan_cai:No... Ur wrong... I believe he stil wan dis relationship... He wans a long term relation... Now he's askin mi 2 let him cool down... Mi 18 yrs old... He initiated e breakup becoz he feels i dun understand him... He juz went 2 work dis mornin n i msg him... So thru msg he initiated it...
Secondly, he say you don't understand him - This is so vague. What problem is currently exisiting within this relation? Pour everything here, so I can analysis for you. Or if you prefer to Pte msg.
Guys who when with you and throw in excuses like, don't understand well enough, that sort of reasons - are just giving excuses because they want to break through and free themselves from the cage of relationship. I am 92% sure about this until you release more information.
*Think about this: If you don't understand him, firstly you both can work things out to solve this wor... because it isn't serious. But he chose to give it up... strange? There is more than meets the eye and you have to know.
I) How long have this relationship lasted already?
II) And you still haven't answer me, how old are the both of you.
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Reverse Psychology laOriginally posted by Parka: You still give her the go ahead? -
Originally posted by Master -_-:(oops Yun's signature )
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u r wrong!!!ur parents care for u.ur friends care for u....the people from this forum cares about you..... all u need is time. let us know if you need someone to talk to...there will definietly be someone around to talk to u.please don't end ur life like this.Originally posted by shan_cai:In my eyes, there's onli my bf... He's my eveything... Once i lose him, i lose everything. There's no 1 else who can gif mi happiness like he does... Not even my parents. 2 mi he's e onli person who cares 4 mi e most. -
Breakup in a relationship is sometimes unavoidable in a relationship. You have to accept the fact that you and ur bf r not mean for each other. There is always a saying.Originally posted by shan_cai:No... Ur wrong... I believe he stil wan dis relationship... He wans a long term relation... Now he's askin mi 2 let him cool down... Mi 18 yrs old... He initiated e breakup becoz he feels i dun understand him... He juz went 2 work dis mornin n i msg him... So thru msg he initiated it...
"Dun cry when it's over. Smile because it happens."
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U can find sgboy out for a chat. He will be more willing to help U. Really a nice guy.
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which sgboy?sgboy or sgboy2004?Originally posted by xian89:U can find sgboy out for a chat. He will be more willing to help U. Really a nice guy. -
u sure or not.. sgboy2004Originally posted by harryryan:which sgboy?sgboy or sgboy2004? -
at least sgboy 2004 can cheer her up,make her feel wanted n keep her mind of her bf....Originally posted by Master -_-:u sure or not.. sgboy2004
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I believe he's e one meant 4 mi... He's a v gd person... I tink im e one not worthy of his love...