I have been dating this girl for some time. Been considering whether to actually go for her. But whats been bothering me is that she's still hangs out with her ex bf, and at certain times hitch a ride from him to work etc. She always highlights that she's already move on when i qn her. So should i just move on or go for it?
hanging out with her ex doesnt mean exactly that they have feelings towards each other.ts you think too much alr...
Originally posted by hubber86:I have been dating this girl for some time. Been considering whether to actually go for her. But whats been bothering me is that she's still hangs out with her ex bf, and at certain times hitch a ride from him to work etc. She always highlights that she's already move on when i qn her. So should i just move on or go for it?
You can choose to start a steady relationship with her, but the most important thing is to ask her to cut contact with her ex.
We have quite a number of cases here, especially one which is just a month or two back, where a lady got dumped by her bf because she has frequent contact with her ex. Fortunately the two of them got back together again in the end.
If you do not want your relationship to turn sour and end up like these cases, you have better ask the girl to sit down with you and talk directly heart-to-heart with her about your concern.
It is not a shameful thing or whatsoever, and there is no need to hide it, the fact is that most guys are unable to tolerate a girl keeping frequent contact with her ex(s).
Thx for advice, will take note of it. Hopefully everything will turn out for the better.
Love does not doubt lar, love appreciates what is - when u tell her what to be - its circumscribing love & freedom. Would u want that for yourself - ie being dictated to as to whom u can ... or where u can .....?