U mentioned kampong - maybe for a while, novelty never lasts
kampong everybody knows each other wah.
How to be lonely?
Your neighbour is your friend.
I also always stay at home but I am happy with life. There are alot of things to do at home too
U are intelligent!
Originally posted by Suffocate:I also always stay at home but I am happy with life. There are alot of things to do at home too
ya quite true...Singapore is good for the lonely and single cos u never walk alone on the streets..
Originally posted by flapdoodle:ya quite true...Singapore is good for the lonely and single cos u never walk alone on the streets..
u r guy or girl?
why never try to find a bf or gf?
go sdu for help if your circle of friends are small
Originally posted by flapdoodle:What do u think of living a lonely life in singapore. How many of u do this. No friends , no clubbing hangouts, just stay at home,
i find that social life in singapore sucks because people always have a motive for mixing with u..everyone is using each other.. i have let go of all my frens and living alone , just with my family members..I find that frens need u they come to u, and when dont needs u , will forget about u. Over the years i realised one thing: that my true "friends" are not people. But things like cinema, shopping centres, parks, entertainment.These are always around for me. I hang out at these places alone...going to cinema alone...
who here is the same as me.. lost faith in freinds...i have started to hate people already.
who are you trying to prove?
why do you need to club just to prove that you have life?
you are breathing are you not?
i has lost faith in friends. but i gain faith in a friend.
i don't need friends to prove i have a life, i don't need friends to prove im not lonely
i don't need to club so i can have life.
why can't you assure yourself?
Originally posted by flapdoodle:What do u think of living a lonely life in singapore. How many of u do this. No friends , no clubbing hangouts, just stay at home,
i find that social life in singapore sucks because people always have a motive for mixing with u..everyone is using each other.. i have let go of all my frens and living alone , just with my family members..I find that frens need u they come to u, and when dont needs u , will forget about u. Over the years i realised one thing: that my true "friends" are not people. But things like cinema, shopping centres, parks, entertainment.These are always around for me. I hang out at these places alone...going to cinema alone...
who here is the same as me.. lost faith in freinds...i have started to hate people already.
Thats not healthy. No man's an island. You need to socialise also....
Family yes, you have them but they cant be sticking with you forever right? They also have their own life and friends.
Also, not all people are like that - using people etc. Perhaps it was your luck that you have mixed with the wrong kind of people.
Kampong worse. Where to go. Always sit outside to eat eat eat. ONLY. Ride motor going around killing time.
Originally posted by Itedino:Kampong worse. Where to go. Always sit outside to eat eat eat. ONLY. Ride motor going around killing time.
play mable, throw 5 stones ![]()
NO leh. that one small kids play. We wait for durian to drop. hahah
TS, just be yourself.
It doesnt matter whether u are lonely or not.
I am living a lonely life too... But I enjoy it very much...
My advice - try to do something that makes ur life more meaningful. :)
Try this: www.theradio.com
it's okay! i am with you. I don't trust people now. When you are in need they will appear by all means, when you are useless they are gone. Keep yourself occupied. If you need someone to talk, i mean by email, can write to me at [email protected] you are not alone. By the way, i had not even been to pub or disco, and never have the urge to go. i am more a arts and personal person. Hope to hear from you. You see, you have 38 replies before me, you are not friend-less, there are there for you too. there are angel send to "talk" to you. don't feel that bad : ) the 38 nice angels and me are here for you. We do care for you : )
Originally posted by flapdoodle:What do u think of living a lonely life in singapore. How many of u do this. No friends , no clubbing hangouts, just stay at home,
i find that social life in singapore sucks because people always have a motive for mixing with u..everyone is using each other.. i have let go of all my frens and living alone , just with my family members..I find that frens need u they come to u, and when dont needs u , will forget about u. Over the years i realised one thing: that my true "friends" are not people. But things like cinema, shopping centres, parks, entertainment.These are always around for me. I hang out at these places alone...going to cinema alone...
who here is the same as me.. lost faith in freinds...i have started to hate people already.
hahahaha...thats what frens are for..making use of each other..when u are lonely..u wanna find some1 to talk to..thats making use of that some1 too..thats humans..
if you think you got no friend..you are wrong..you may not have close friends..but there are always people there to fill that gap if chances are given..humans are hard to trust..whatever that comes out of their mouth is no longer the absoulute truth..but always give the the benefit of doubts..and look for the goof qualities in them instead...that will make things easier..
Originally posted by Ah Chia:I don't like to mix every thread with politics but my view is that Lee Kuan Yew played a role in all this.
You don't like to but you do so anyway.
Originally posted by Day Dreamer:One must hav how many frens = not much frens?
Friends are a countable noun, so you should use "many".
A good friend is enough, as compared to a hundred bad ones.
Originally posted by Queenmedusalove:it's okay! i am with you. I don't trust people now. When you are in need they will appear by all means, when you are useless they are gone. Keep yourself occupied. If you need someone to talk, i mean by email, can write to me at -edited- you are not alone. By the way, i had not even been to pub or disco, and never have the urge to go. i am more a arts and personal person. Hope to hear from you. You see, you have 38 replies before me, you are not friend-less, there are there for you too. there are angel send to "talk" to you. don't feel that bad : ) the 38 nice angels and me are here for you. We do care for you : )
I strongly suggest that you edit your email.
Your email is your username, do keep that in mind.
Originally posted by flapdoodle:ya quite true...Singapore is good for the lonely and single cos u never walk alone on the streets..
I guess it has something to do with the people and the culture here. Likewise when i was walking down the street, i sees allot of young people either in group of nice company or happy couple.. Somehow, i got this feeling of being outcast and it just come by itself which i donno why..? Comparing to when i was living in Japan, it is normal to see people walking alone.. and it is very easy to made friend on the street when once are sincere and friendly itself. So i guess it has to do with the individual upbringing and characters.
The 'lonely' life is actually very fun and exciting if you would only take a fresh perspective of things and not be influenced by the opposite school of thought
Um yup u'll also need some hobbies you're really passionate about
One who does not like, accept what one is, no matter where one goes or does - its still going to come back and haunt him/her.
One has lost oneself in role(s) and personalitie(s) - hence the anxiety, the sense of feeling lonely cos all these that one is identified no longer fulfils him/her after a while.
alone one comes to this world at childbirth. alone one will bear the diseases in a hospital bed. alone one will depart from this world at deathbed.
alone one comes to this world at childbirth.
I thought got mother, nurses and doctor?
alone one will depart from this world at deathbed.
Not Lee Kuan Yew.
Originally posted by Ah Chia:I thought got mother, nurses and doctor?
Not Lee Kuan Yew.
you should dropped your hatred and obssession of him lar.there are far worse dictators 1 million times worst off than him. look no further than the dear leader of North Korea.