Help about invitations
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hi guys,
How to go out with friends who invites u without u being desperate. I mean once u say yes, its like you're desperate to go out with them. Well, i dont want my friend to think that im desperate but i really do wanna go out with them. How u say "yes" in a cool way as in no desperation sightings inbetween
ps, ignore my username can? my friend put this up. zzzz
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Originally posted by see~allison~shower~:
hi guys,
How to go out with friends who invites u without u being desperate. I mean once u say yes, its like you're desperate to go out with them. Well, i dont want my friend to think that im desperate but i really do wanna go out with them. How u say "yes" in a cool way as in no desperation sightings inbetween
ps, ignore my username can? my friend put this up. zzzz
Your nick suggests that you are really desperate.
Okay, back to being serious, since they are the ones inviting you, why are you worrying? You could try adding "okay lor" to make it sounds like you are accepting just because they asked you - no other special reasons.
There is seriously no need to answer in a really cool or special way.
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
Your nick suggests that you are really desperate.
Okay, back to being serious, since they are the ones inviting you, why are you worrying? You could try adding "okay lor" to make it sounds like you are accepting just because they asked you - no other special reasons.
There is seriously no need to answer in a really cool or special way.
u sure boh? this is WITHOUT desperation le. -
Originally posted by see~allison~shower~:
hi guys,
How to go out with friends who invites u without u being desperate. I mean once u say yes, its like you're desperate to go out with them. Well, i dont want my friend to think that im desperate but i really do wanna go out with them. How u say "yes" in a cool way as in no desperation sightings inbetween
ps, ignore my username can? my friend put this up. zzzz
Reply:
I'd see about it. I might have something on that day.
Then turn up that day lor.
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Originally posted by genie-chou <3:
u sure boh? this is WITHOUT desperation le.What TS truly wants is to "Not sounds desperate".
It doesn't matters whether he is that desperate or not, and I must say his first sentence gives people the wrong impression if they do not read the entire post properly.
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hmmm........how about just be honest to yourself....and said
oh...i thought you never going to ask. but yes I would be happy to go..............now where shall we meet.....
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Originally posted by Lorry`:
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I'd see about it. I might have something on that day.
Then turn up that day lor.
This is call party crashing , very rude.
sometimes the organizer has to accomodate party crashers , very annoying.
Do this a few more times.. and people will stop telling you about their gatherings.
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Originally posted by see~allison~shower~:
hi guys,
How to go out with friends who invites u without u being desperate. I mean once u say yes, its like you're desperate to go out with them. Well, i dont want my friend to think that im desperate but i really do wanna go out with them. How u say "yes" in a cool way as in no desperation sightings inbetween
ps, ignore my username can? my friend put this up. zzzz
Accepting an invitation is not desperation.. it is graciousness.
When people invite you... they are asking for your companionship.
Putting up an aloof attitude will put people off.
All you have to do is thank the peron who invite you and show up on time.
Have a great time with those attendees.
It's not about what you are doing, it's all about the people you do it with.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
This is call party crashing , very rude.
sometimes the organizer has to accomodate party crashers , very annoying.
Do this a few more times.. and people will stop telling you about their gatherings.
gatecrashing you mean....
Gatecrashing/party crashing = not invited but turn up for the event.
The thing is he got invited, just that i told him to tell the organizer that he might not be turning up and later go turn up (since he dun want to sound desperate
). Not really considered gate crash ba.But then as an organizer, i also would not like to see such thing from happening.
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Originally posted by Lorry`:
gatecrashing you mean....
Gatecrashing/party crashing = not invited but turn up for the event.
The thing is he got invited, just that i told him to tell the organizer that he might not be turning up and later go turn up (since he dun want to sound desperate
).
Not really considered gate crash ba.But then as an organizer, i also would not like to see such thing from happening.
Not that one is not invited. But one that had not RSVP.
And there's always not just one.. but a few buggers like that.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Not that one is not invited. But one that had not RSVP.
And there's always not just one.. but a few buggers like that.
oh okay..
yea. sucks.