Love in Singapore seems IMPOSSIBLE.
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Why is it so impossible to find good guys here in singapore?
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If u have it within u - this question would never arise!
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Please tell me, what do Singapore guys look for in a girl? Are my expectations too much? Why does my current guy treat me like that? I feel so ugly and fat when I'm with him, I can never feel confident, beautiful or sexy with him.
Like that I think you better dump him.
I wana be sexy in my own way, I can never dress the way i want to when i'm with him. I don't wana dress like modern girls, who show so much. I wana be sexy in a sophisticated way, I hate dressing in short shorts just to please him!
Not bad. I like.
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Originally posted by Ah Chia:
Like that I think you better dump him.
Not bad. I like.
Go woo her -
break up lor....
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Is there another alternative
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Originally posted by nini_06:
Why is it so impossible to find good guys here in singapore?
Here are my terms for finding love, guys, please tell me, am i expecting too much?
I want a guy who will only look at me, has eyes for me, and once we're in love, he has to think that i'm beautiful and sexy no matter how my figure changes. I don't care if you have to look at girls on the internet, but when you save them on your computer, it's too much for me. He has to be faithful, loving, and be willing to spend ALOT of time with me.I don't care about porn, cos i know all guys watch porn, I don't care if u save porn on your computer, but i just cant accept pictures of girls on your computer.
Guys, please tell me is it too much to ask for?
I'm so unhappy with my current guy, all he ever does is think, look for, and look at girls.
I have to dress so skimpy so that he won't look at girls, but it doesn't work. Why is everything a desperate bid by me just so that he will pay more attention to me and not look for, look at and think of girls? Do all guys do that?
I wana be sexy in my own way, I can never dress the way i want to when i'm with him. I don't wana dress like modern girls, who show so much. I wana be sexy in a sophisticated way, I hate dressing in short shorts just to please him!
By the way, do all guys save pictures of girls on the computer? Cos if it is, then I'm not sure I wana find a guy anymore.Maybe stay single or be a lesbian.
Please tell me, what do Singapore guys look for in a girl? Are my expectations too much? Why does my current guy treat me like that? I feel so ugly and fat when I'm with him, I can never feel confident, beautiful or sexy with him.
What is love about? I thought love was such a beautiful thing, until my serene, gorgeous, passionate picture of love got so destroyed by him.
Of course not all guys save pictures of beautiful girls on their desktops/labtops and look at porn.
But the chances of you bumping into such a guy is lower than the chance of striking lottery ( Consolation Prize ).
Your bf is one of those guys whom we known as "flower-hearted" ( Though to a lesser degree ), no matter what you do will not change him from looking at other girls and thinking of them.
The question now is, do you still want to continue this relationship or not?
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Originally posted by nini_06:
Is there another alternative other than breaking up and talking it out with him?
Yes. By changing what you want of him.
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Originally posted by nini_06:
Why is it so impossible to find good guys here in singapore?
Here are my terms for finding love, guys, please tell me, am i expecting too much?
I want a guy who will only look at me, has eyes for me, and once we're in love, he has to think that i'm beautiful and sexy no matter how my figure changes. I don't care if you have to look at girls on the internet, but when you save them on your computer, it's too much for me. He has to be faithful, loving, and be willing to spend ALOT of time with me.I don't care about porn, cos i know all guys watch porn, I don't care if u save porn on your computer, but i just cant accept pictures of girls on your computer.
Guys, please tell me is it too much to ask for?
I'm so unhappy with my current guy, all he ever does is think, look for, and look at girls.
I have to dress so skimpy so that he won't look at girls, but it doesn't work. Why is everything a desperate bid by me just so that he will pay more attention to me and not look for, look at and think of girls? Do all guys do that?
I wana be sexy in my own way, I can never dress the way i want to when i'm with him. I don't wana dress like modern girls, who show so much. I wana be sexy in a sophisticated way, I hate dressing in short shorts just to please him!
By the way, do all guys save pictures of girls on the computer? Cos if it is, then I'm not sure I wana find a guy anymore.Maybe stay single or be a lesbian.
Please tell me, what do Singapore guys look for in a girl? Are my expectations too much? Why does my current guy treat me like that? I feel so ugly and fat when I'm with him, I can never feel confident, beautiful or sexy with him.
What is love about? I thought love was such a beautiful thing, until my serene, gorgeous, passionate picture of love got so destroyed by him.
i love girls that dress up like ma xiao ling
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Like i've said, i dont really care about porn, but saving pictures of girls is just too much for me, it makes me feel like I'm so ugly that he has to look for girls on the internet.
I don't want to change him. I want to love him for him, but if i cant accept this flaw, is it still possible to continue?
Are all Singaporean guys like that? Cos i've met a few foreigners, and none of them are like that, they do watch porn, but they only have eyes for their own girl. Maybe that's why girls here don't bother looking for singapore guys...They're all the same, always lusting after girls..
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Originally posted by nini_06:
Like i've said, i dont really care about porn, but saving pictures of girls is just too much for me, it makes me feel like I'm so ugly that he has to look for girls on the internet.
I don't want to change him. I want to love him for him, but if i cant accept this flaw, is it still possible to continue?
Are all Singaporean guys like that? Cos i've met a few foreigners, and none of them are like that, they do watch porn, but they only have eyes for their own girl. Maybe that's why girls here don't bother looking for singapore guys...They're all the same, always lusting after girls..
nope
i only save guys pictures
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Originally posted by nini_06:
Why is it so impossible to find good guys here in singapore?
Here are my terms for finding love, guys, please tell me, am i expecting too much?
I want a guy who will only look at me, has eyes for me, and once we're in love, he has to think that i'm beautiful and sexy no matter how my figure changes. I don't care if you have to look at girls on the internet, but when you save them on your computer, it's too much for me. He has to be faithful, loving, and be willing to spend ALOT of time with me.I don't care about porn, cos i know all guys watch porn, I don't care if u save porn on your computer, but i just cant accept pictures of girls on your computer.
Guys, please tell me is it too much to ask for?
I'm so unhappy with my current guy, all he ever does is think, look for, and look at girls.
I have to dress so skimpy so that he won't look at girls, but it doesn't work. Why is everything a desperate bid by me just so that he will pay more attention to me and not look for, look at and think of girls? Do all guys do that?
I wana be sexy in my own way, I can never dress the way i want to when i'm with him. I don't wana dress like modern girls, who show so much. I wana be sexy in a sophisticated way, I hate dressing in short shorts just to please him!
By the way, do all guys save pictures of girls on the computer? Cos if it is, then I'm not sure I wana find a guy anymore.Maybe stay single or be a lesbian.
Please tell me, what do Singapore guys look for in a girl? Are my expectations too much? Why does my current guy treat me like that? I feel so ugly and fat when I'm with him, I can never feel confident, beautiful or sexy with him.
What is love about? I thought love was such a beautiful thing, until my serene, gorgeous, passionate picture of love got so destroyed by him.
Better than he go out and makan other char bor,right? He just look nia.. -
Maybe that's why girls here don't bother looking for singapore guys.
Is that true?
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he doesn't look, he stares and treats me like i'm not with him at all.
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Originally posted by Ah Chia:
Is that true?
no wonder im loved cause im taiwanese if thats true LOL
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no wonder im loved cause im taiwanese if thats true LOL
No wonder you like hokkien songs.
he doesn't look, he stares and treats me like i'm not with him at all.
You feel insecure.
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he doesn't look, he stares and treats me like i'm not with him at all.
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Originally posted by nini_06:
Like i've said, i dont really care about porn, but saving pictures of girls is just too much for me, it makes me feel like I'm so ugly that he has to look for girls on the internet.
I don't want to change him. I want to love him for him, but if i cant accept this flaw, is it still possible to continue?
Are all Singaporean guys like that? Cos i've met a few foreigners, and none of them are like that, they do watch porn, but they only have eyes for their own girl. Maybe that's why girls here don't bother looking for singapore guys...They're all the same, always lusting after girls..
If you can't accept the flaws of your partner, your life with him will be miserable. You can either change yourself, or ask him to change.If you are to do neither, the relationship will fall apart sooner or later.
On a side note, you can't stereotype SG guys because of your bf. Not all SG guys are like this.
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Accept yourself, accept all - warts n all - then u won't see what is missing in another. The other thing - comparing and wishing is an exercise in futility.
I think he is entitled to be what he is. To change him is telling him that he is lacking.
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which is exactly why i refuse to change him. I don't want him to feel like that. But he makes me feel like crap!
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try adapting....
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HE DOES NOT - he is prompting u to be centred witthin yourself (and probably unconsciously he is at it) porous ego is the way to go.
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Originally posted by nini_06:
which is exactly why i refuse to change him. I don't want him to feel like that. But he makes me feel like crap!
If you do not talk to him about it, how will he know your worries and the root of your unhappiness?
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Originally posted by nini_06:
I have to dress so skimpy so that he won't look at girls, but it doesn't work.Won't work. It only fuels more desire on his part, which in turn has a counter-productive effect......
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Originally posted by nini_06:
I don't wana dress like modern girls, who show so much. I wana be sexy in a sophisticated way,......Ya, like the char bor version of No.3, not bad right? XD
Ok seriously, you can also try sexy in simple ways, yet not revealing. Go figure... =\