I thought i open up this threads to discuss male perspective as not to Hijack Nini06
Here are some of my thoughts......I would prefer to keep this threads as a discussion threads rather courting thread I am sure you can PM each other..... : )
1) I think it is a common mistake for woman to just “Let loose” and lost the sex appeal. Yes inner beauty sealed the married relationship. But attractions hold the relationship it boost the alpha male ego and confidents……after all behind every successful man there is a “Woman” nobody can deny the important role of Queen Bees.
2) There is nothing wrong for a healthy Male Hetero sexual individual to display his testosterone towards female gender and Sexual desire. There are ways not to offend people, but it face up to Christian overtone Taliban who does not look at porn but think about SEX.
3) Would a woman prefer to get dumb by A man for another woman OR would a woman prefer to get dumb by A man for another Man. If your Man look at other girls, at least you know your man is Straight and your sexual interest remain status quo.
4) It is perfectly normal to have sexual fetish signal between couple. It put relationship into perspective of competiting, and courting. It is not just about Men pursuing Women, but it goes both ways. Men like to be pursued as well. So woman need to be proactive and leads into the relationship.
5) Love and Sex goes hand in hand, they are carrots and peas. Sexo is a human experience it helps to connect with partner. Relationship is the Joy that you shared and not the line, or space that you drawn. You want to have interesting relationship with your Honey. Be creative.
6) If your man can bring to your attention to you about the physical attribute of another woman. There is nothing to be jealous infact you should be glad that he treat you as a Friend, he is so comfortable with you that he is able to confide in you and feel safe not to disrupt the relationship. He treats you like a buddy. Now wouldn’t that be a Great Partner when he is your Friend when in Needs, He is a lover that you shared and a partner in life.