How can I help others from suffering!!!
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I kinda felt very bad emotionally, I felt so useless I cant even help others that need help. There was this girl I met, in game, then slowly we became friends. Then when i was chatting with her on the phone, I slowly got to know more about her. She told me she met a online guy in reallife. Typical game called Audition, boys meeting girls, girls meeting boys. Then she told me that the boy had sucked her boobs! I was like yeah wtf ! I kinda gave her more advices, teach her what to do and so on. She's my junior, meaning that she is younger than me lah! Wtf seeing others getting hurt by another person. I really got that upset feeling that can cause me to sad for hours. I dont like watching other people suffering so badly. Now that fucker got another girl or what I dont know lah! Just heard from her that the boy told the another girl that she is nothing to him. I know what he can do on others, can do on her. I told her to break up with the boy and just stop all contact with him. Then she is like so confused and seemed to need help. But at least she has some conscience with her pride and refuse to continue letting the boy touch her bottom or have sex with her. I really felt like becoming stronger, protecting everyone that I know, that I care and love for. Even though just online friends, but I want the best for all. Am I a fucking sick guy or what? What should I do now? I believe she is in danger and her mother doesnt know much about the sexual thing.
The fucked up boy is same age as me, 16. The girl is 14.
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Originally posted by aYexa:
I kinda felt very bad emotionally, I felt so useless I cant even help others that need help. There was this girl I met, in game, then slowly we became friends. Then when i was chatting with her on the phone, I slowly got to know more about her. She told me she met a online guy in reallife. Typical game called Audition, boys meeting girls, girls meeting boys. Then she told me that the boy had sucked her boobs! I was like yeah wtf ! I kinda gave her more advices, teach her what to do and so on. She's my junior, meaning that she is younger than me lah! Wtf seeing others getting hurt by another person. I really got that upset feeling that can cause me to sad for hours. I dont like watching other people suffering so badly. Now that fucker got another girl or what I dont know lah! Just heard from her that the boy told the another girl that she is nothing to him. I know what he can do on others, can do on her. I told her to break up with the boy and just stop all contact with him. Then she is like so confused and seemed to need help. But at least she has some conscience with her pride and refuse to continue letting the boy touch her bottom or have sex with her. I really felt like becoming stronger, protecting everyone that I know, that I care and love for. Even though just online friends, but I want the best for all. Am I a fucking sick guy or what? What should I do now? I believe she is in danger and her mother doesnt know much about the sexual thing.
The fucked up boy is same age as me, 16. The girl is 14.
Be prepare to lose this friend - that is if you are a real friend to her.
The best thing you can do now is to tell the whole matter to her family, and let them decide how they want to handle it, but I can assure you that she will almost definitely turn against you.
Do not try to act "hero" and attempt to confront the guy on your own, you might get into a lot more unneeded troubles and problems.
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
Be prepare to lose this friend - that is if you are a real friend to her.
The best thing you can do now is to tell the whole matter to her family, and let them decide how they want to handle it, but I can assure you that she will almost definitely turn against you.
Do not try to act "hero" and attempt to confront the guy on your own, you might get into a lot more unneeded troubles and problems.
Why would she turn against me? I believe she also kinda hate the fucked up boy right now. You know what? Even a kid can win me in fighting. I really feel that fucked up weak unable to settle for her.Oh yes, I am not that kind of gangsterism person. I go on with my principles of life.
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Originally posted by aYexa:
I kinda felt very bad emotionally, I felt so useless I cant even help others that need help. There was this girl I met, in game, then slowly we became friends. Then when i was chatting with her on the phone, I slowly got to know more about her. She told me she met a online guy in reallife. Typical game called Audition, boys meeting girls, girls meeting boys. Then she told me that the boy had sucked her boobs! I was like yeah wtf ! I kinda gave her more advices, teach her what to do and so on. She's my junior, meaning that she is younger than me lah! Wtf seeing others getting hurt by another person. I really got that upset feeling that can cause me to sad for hours. I dont like watching other people suffering so badly. Now that fucker got another girl or what I dont know lah! Just heard from her that the boy told the another girl that she is nothing to him. I know what he can do on others, can do on her. I told her to break up with the boy and just stop all contact with him. Then she is like so confused and seemed to need help. But at least she has some conscience with her pride and refuse to continue letting the boy touch her bottom or have sex with her. I really felt like becoming stronger, protecting everyone that I know, that I care and love for. Even though just online friends, but I want the best for all. Am I a fucking sick guy or what? What should I do now? I believe she is in danger and her mother doesnt know much about the sexual thing.
The fucked up boy is same age as me, 16. The girl is 14.
Intentions are good but you should be focusing on your studies now 1st. 1 of the most important thing in helping people is to make sure you will not cause any harm to yourself be it physical, academic or emotional etc.
You can try to advice her etc and theres nothing sick about it. Such actions personally i would recommend the girl's mother be told and maybe even a police report lodge since underage sex is against the law and should not be done in the 1st place.
Working with juvenille offenders for the past few yrs including boys who engage in underage sex, i would say sometimes being charge helps them 'wakeup' their idea though some of them i won't deny will not bother to change and will return to their old ways after they are discharged.
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16 and 14? omg -.-
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Originally posted by limpper:
16 and 14? omg -.-
16 for a guy isn't young already, i've seen younger boys over the past 2 yrs with 1 even a father already.
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wow aYexa..i think u shld persuade the girl to tell her parents abt it and let her parents to settle this matter themselves..that's the most u can do i guess? dont even bother to find out who's that guy becoz that will cause more unnecessary trouble.
hmm..16..i have a fren who was pregnant at 16 and her husband is oso the same age as her..and now after 2 years?..everything's still going smoothly with their 1 year old plus kid...sometimes being pregnant at a young age is not something negative..the way u look at it is more important...im 18 now btw..and im really glad that they are doing well.
rmb to think before u act ar...good luck.
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like dat better report police, the girl is under 16 so it is a penal code offence
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You can teach others how to live, but can't live their lives for them. That being said, I hope you already know what to do and when to stop.
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Originally posted by MyNameisNas:
Pls la they already checked that boy is not the parent of that small girl. The mother got fked by another guy to give birth to that small girl. Which means that he is the youngest guy to wear a green hat : )
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Originally posted by CM840_2009:
like dat better report police, the girl is under 16 so it is a penal code offence
It is better for the girl's family to decide whether to involve the police or not.
As an outsider, if TS asks the police to directly step in, not only might the family of the girl be very upset, he could also get into trouble if his friend turns against him and lie to the police.
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16 for a guy isn't young already, i've seen younger boys over the past 2 yrs with 1 even a father already.
One of my cousins married at 16. Shotgun.
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Originally posted by Ah Chia:
One of my cousins married at 16. Shotgun.
end their suffering??put them to sleep..
