Cannot cope with everything !! URGH !!
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Someone help ?! EVER SINCE I STARTED SEC FOUR, I FEEL SO STRESS AND I FEEL LIKE KILLING MYSELF. URGH.
I come home at 5pm everyday because of remedial,once a week i have tuition until 7. When i go home i'm too tired to do anything ! During weekends i can't even get enough revision because my art project takes up alot of time. i feel like im doing all these for NOTHING !! why am i here studying like hell for ?!
i feel like i can't do ANYTHING right !!! im like totally lifeless, like my life is meaningless, i might as well pick up some skills and work, since nowadays if you want high pay must study until univerisity and i know i can't reach there. But my parents obviously will never let me quit school or they'll kill me or something.
super duper duper duper STRESS. my hair is seriously falling off more than usual. or my diet plan, whatever, i dun care. my social life, IS ZERO. i got no time to hangout with my friends AT ALL !!
URGH. i think im just complaining here. ANYHOW. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME HELPFUL COMMENTS?!?!?!? *screams*
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don stress!! stress for wad... tell me honestly how u feel lor. u are their son or daughter not some future ATM or machine tat must listen to them always.
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i am sure when i was at your age i went thru crisis. just calm down and go relax somewhere, clear your mind and start again.
never say never. you should try your best to study hard.
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Masterbate more to help you relieve stress
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You sound like you are putting a lot of expectations on yourself....
Just wondering for your projects - do you enjoy working with the people you are working with?
Perhaps you can set aside some time - even if it is 30 mins a day or 2 hours on a weekend - and plan some 'relaxing' activities during those time with your friends?
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This is a serious case of failed time planning.
If people at the top U's can survive their even more stress studies with even more complication such as living alone at other countries, AND still can manage, why can't you?
Social life is zero? Surely you must have some friends taking the same subject combi and is from the same school as you, if they can hang out and still manage their studies, surely they are doing something right and you're not.
You got to plan, organize your time and work, draw a timetable out for yourself that is evenly spreaded out with work and play.
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If people at the top U's can survive their even more stress studies with even more
He still young, only 16.
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Originally posted by mashpotato:
Someone help ?! EVER SINCE I STARTED SEC FOUR, I FEEL SO STRESS AND I FEEL LIKE KILLING MYSELF. URGH.
I come home at 5pm everyday because of remedial,once a week i have tuition until 7. When i go home i'm too tired to do anything ! During weekends i can't even get enough revision because my art project takes up alot of time. i feel like im doing all these for NOTHING !! why am i here studying like hell for ?!
i feel like i can't do ANYTHING right !!! im like totally lifeless, like my life is meaningless, i might as well pick up some skills and work, since nowadays if you want high pay must study until univerisity and i know i can't reach there. But my parents obviously will never let me quit school or they'll kill me or something.
super duper duper duper STRESS. my hair is seriously falling off more than usual. or my diet plan, whatever, i dun care. my social life, IS ZERO. i got no time to hangout with my friends AT ALL !!
URGH. i think im just complaining here. ANYHOW. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME HELPFUL COMMENTS?!?!?!? *screams*
If you want the results, you must work hard for it. There is no other way out.
I can assure you quite a number of students who did very well studied until as late as 1am in the morning, and still have to wake up at 5am the next day to head to school.
The most important thing is time management - how you manage your time.
If you are playing computer/video games for more than an hour a day or watching television for the same amount of time, then I strongly suggest you cut down on all these.
Many youngsters think it is "correct" to spend this amount of time on gaming and enjoyment, just because everyone else is also doing so, but it is actually supposed to be nothing more than a form of relaxation and enjoyment in your spare time.
There is also the fact that if you play/watch too much of these stuffs which excite your brain, you will have a harder time in putting your mind and body to rest afterwards.
Putting these aside, are you having difficulties with your homework and studies? If you are, you could always seek your teachers for help and/or form a study group with your classmates. This way, you will learn easier, rather than to crack your brain for an hour for a single question.
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Hi. I am 16 too. The art project is really time- consuming, as i heard from my friends. O lvl righT? But its not THAT time-consuming i believe
but the thing is, you really must plan your time, I go back home at 6+ man . lol~
just play ba. ._.
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I got some days in a week during O levels. hit 9pm or even 11pm then return home. hahahas
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I got some days in a week during O levels. hit 9pm or even 11pm then return home. hahahas
School life in Singapore is more stressful.
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yay one less person to whine in this world :D
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Originally posted by eeden.:
yay one less person to whine in this world
That is so mean of you.
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
That is so mean of you.
To some, whining is a sin, a crime. wahahahah! -
Originally posted by Fantagf:
To some, whining is a sin, a crime. wahahahah!You too?
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
That is so mean of you.
we dont need another whiner who's life is so "oh miserable". -
hang on, endure, once your o levels are over you will be complaining that you have too much time
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Originally posted by mashpotato:
Someone help ?! EVER SINCE I STARTED SEC FOUR, I FEEL SO STRESS AND I FEEL LIKE KILLING MYSELF. URGH.
I come home at 5pm everyday because of remedial,once a week i have tuition until 7. When i go home i'm too tired to do anything ! During weekends i can't even get enough revision because my art project takes up alot of time. i feel like im doing all these for NOTHING !! why am i here studying like hell for ?!
i feel like i can't do ANYTHING right !!! im like totally lifeless, like my life is meaningless, i might as well pick up some skills and work, since nowadays if you want high pay must study until univerisity and i know i can't reach there. But my parents obviously will never let me quit school or they'll kill me or something.
super duper duper duper STRESS. my hair is seriously falling off more than usual. or my diet plan, whatever, i dun care. my social life, IS ZERO. i got no time to hangout with my friends AT ALL !!
URGH. i think im just complaining here. ANYHOW. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME HELPFUL COMMENTS?!?!?!? *screams*
Your life is meaningless ? How can ? Your life have not even started leh !!
Now you work hard.. so that in the next 50 yars you don't have to collect aluminum cans. Is that rational enough ?
You don't work hard now.. not only you have to collect alluminum cans for the next 10 years.. you still have to pay for your part time night school , go home at 11pm, no savings no social life. You prefer live like this ah ?
Don't just study hard.. must also study smart lah.
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i was in extreme stress during my o levels...but a few mths before i started my revision...
i planned my time well, make sure i stick to my timetable..takes alot of self discipline..
i count all the chapters that i need to cover, in all subjects and compare against the no of days i have left for o levels...make sure i have covered everything and stick to the timetable..
yes its a period of no life..but once after the exams, got nothing to do already mah u can catch up w all the friends u want..as they will be as free as u too
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Originally posted by mashpotato:
Someone help ?! EVER SINCE I STARTED SEC FOUR, I FEEL SO STRESS AND I FEEL LIKE KILLING MYSELF. URGH.
I come home at 5pm everyday because of remedial,once a week i have tuition until 7. When i go home i'm too tired to do anything ! During weekends i can't even get enough revision because my art project takes up alot of time. i feel like im doing all these for NOTHING !! why am i here studying like hell for ?!
i feel like i can't do ANYTHING right !!! im like totally lifeless, like my life is meaningless, i might as well pick up some skills and work, since nowadays if you want high pay must study until univerisity and i know i can't reach there. But my parents obviously will never let me quit school or they'll kill me or something.
super duper duper duper STRESS. my hair is seriously falling off more than usual. or my diet plan, whatever, i dun care. my social life, IS ZERO. i got no time to hangout with my friends AT ALL !!
URGH. i think im just complaining here. ANYHOW. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME HELPFUL COMMENTS?!?!?!? *screams*
What the HECK!? Why you are so stress over such a small matter?[feel like being evil today]
I dont understand why you are so stress over such as simple O level certification process. Have you not learnt anything since Sec 3. Or have you been sleeping since Sec 3. If you do your sec 3 well, for the O level you are already 75% completed. That is 75% of the O level cert is from Sec 3 work. It is already an A1 if you get 75 marks. What more do you want?
Sec 4 is only the remaining 25% of the O level syllabus. Plus the revision NOW.
Last time, when I was taking my O level, I only study during studied hours, that is during school hours. Never go for remedial, Cannot be bothered about it . After school hours, is my own time, basketball, computer games, my CCA. And I never studied my O level during Sat and Sun (Already reading/studying for A level year 2 now at your time), now. And in fact during August, Sept, Oct. I already let go and not studying anymore. I have already completed looking through the O level syallbus since sec 2 and only left the memorizing. I aimed at that time is to top the school. Yours is only passing O level so why you are so stress and complaining about this small little things.
Art <-- this is something that really take up a lot of time. This subject was offered to me as an EXTRA EXTRA subject it is lucky that I did not take up.
If you have been lazy and sleeping through your Sec 3 and Sec 4 (sem 1) then it is high time you wake up and see which assessment book you have not finished doing.
PLAN YOUR TIME WELL.
STUDY THOSE YOU HAVE MISSED OUT. DO NOT GO OVER AND OVER ON THINGS YOU ARLEADY KNOW. DONT WASTE TIME.DO WHAT EVER ASSESSMENT BOOK YOU CAN FIND. ONCE YOU GET THE CORRECT ANSWER. YOU ALREADY MASTERED THE CONCEPT.
DO NOT MEMORIZE. UNDERSTAND THROUGHLY GAINED ENLIGHTENMENT ON THE CONCEPTS.
GO BEYOND THE O LEVEL SYALLBUS TO KEEP YOU TO UNDERSTAND. something when things are over simplified it is very hard to understand, because there are missing facts or illogical.
GO THROUGH THE O LEVEL Syallbus and tick the items you know and missed.
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The stress is not what is in front u now - it's the projection into thefuture and its taken residence in your mind!
Also, u accumulate all that u need to study and now its a mountain to climb!
Studying smart is doing what is necessary when it ought to be done - eg, pay attention in class when in reality u are somewhere in your mind. pay attention to all these that u overlook and it will come to you.
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The most demoralising part about studying for o levels is that most of the stuff that you studied is of no practical use whatsoever in real life and probably forgotton after a few years.
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Originally posted by Ah Chia:
The most demoralising part about studying for o levels is that most of the stuff that you studied is of no practical use whatsoever in real life and probably forgotton after a few years.
It will also depends on which line you work in.
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Next time you wanna complain about something, think about people in Haiti have to eat mud cookies to survive.