girl come tell you she got baby.
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sian. what should you do?
age of 17. and no baby not mine =.=
how to advice her??
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Encourage her to go for counselling..
Such things really depends on her,herself.
The most you can do is really encourage her as she walk this rocky path. -
Originally posted by Tbee:
Encourage her to go for counselling..
Such things really depends on her,herself.
The most you can do is really encourage her as she walk this rocky path.to be honest. i want to have nothing to do with this. not my problem in the first place.
good guys don't get paid....
later kena kp by ppl.
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if u dun know her,
juz do not tell her to abort or anything harmful to her,... -
trust me, she desperately need help now. do what you can, at your limit to help her if possible, it doesnt harm afterall. moreover, you're doing a good deed.
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Originally posted by Shao Wei:
to be honest. i want to have nothing to do with this. not my problem in the first place.
good guys don't get paid....
later kena kp by ppl.
Even you want to get nothing to do with this.
At least give her some concern, let them know they're not alone.
Just don't be over-ly concern if you really want to keep your hands off.
Don't let her have the chance to think "wrong way" and do committing sucide stuffs. -
even if you cant help her financially, be at least by her side. she'll feel better.. at least i guess
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You could try and refer her to this:
Pregnancy Crisis Centre
Unmarried mothers & mothers to-be having trouble coping with their pregnancies
Monday - Saturday
9.00 am - 5.00 pm
6339 9770
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then dun bother la.. why u stil wan to care?
since baby not urs..
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if she need money, no problem. i can provide.
i now headache over my own stuff.
and she come telling me this things...
i always advise them not to do those things, but nv listen.
now then ask me what to do.i already got her to talk to my leader. haiz.
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the girl chio anot?
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I really dont think we are in any position to give her advice. Better ask her to get proffesional help. You just stand by her as a fren loh.
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good guys nv get paid...but is it really about the pay? or the good?
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Why is TS agonising about it?
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Originally posted by gunner77:
the girl chio anot?
gunnie want right
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Just ask her to talk about the matter with the father and see what solution comes up. But mostly is abortion one lah... you think they are so in love that they can start a family meh?
If it was in the past, most probably they would get married but now... most likely not.
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TS, why i agonise over this issue...
unless u like her..
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Originally posted by Shao Wei:
if she need money, no problem. i can provide.
i now headache over my own stuff.
and she come telling me this things...
i always advise them not to do those things, but nv listen.
now then ask me what to do.i already got her to talk to my leader. haiz.
your leader?
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den offer to take care of dem both loh.
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i got that similar incident a few months back. We all comfort her and told her that "dont worry" but she didnt took it quite well and to make things worse, her bf left her. So when the day she finally released the baby, we sent her to this single parent crisis thing. It's located near senja road there i think. it really help her.
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Originally posted by Shao Wei:
sian. what should you do?
age of 17. and no baby not mine =.=
how to advice her??
Abort is one solution but the last solution.
I think the best is to get her to look for the single parent thingy like wat Clarice said.
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1) need to know how old? underage or above 16.
2)Is she studying? if so, must consider she is keen to futher her study or want to stop ?
3)If stop study, what job can she do if she want to keep the baby?
4)She ready to take care of baby? or she want to abort it to continue her study?
5)Must understand keeping a baby, expenses is very heavy.. like diaper, milk powder and etc..
6) Her mentality ready and confident to give the best to her baby like her parents give her ?
7) And the guy know? if guy working or study? Willing to take responsibility for the baby?
8) It need two hands to clap. If only one party and her age is too young. Worry she might not have determination.
9) You can call with her to helpline to explain what happen. They will tell what is next step the girl need to do.
10) And you need to give her support. Don't let her think wrong way, depress or etc.. Very dangerous..
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
Why is TS agonising about it?
maybe TS is her gd fren? -
You can tell her to go get fark but it is already too late
The baby is already yours!
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Originally posted by Clarice_mei<3:
i got that similar incident a few months back. We all comfort her and told her that "dont worry" but she didnt took it quite well and to make things worse, her bf left her. So when the day she finally released the baby, we sent her to this single parent crisis thing. It's located near senja road there i think. it really help her.
this type of guy ah.........