I dont know what is she thinking about.
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This is my first time posting in Aunt Agony. Pardon me.
What do you guys think when the girl you like couldnt accept you because of a friend.
There is this girl whom i recently met in my new class.
at the start, she knows that her friend like mi. so i think she decided to give in. her friend confess to mi. i rejected. she started to blame mi. why didnt i accept her friend. and she kept like "promoting" her friend. i got so angry. what if someone you likes keep promoting others to you.
plucking up some courage, knowing she also have some feelings for me, i decided to confess to her shortly after. she did the same. we then continued on as per normal. never talk about this topic. one day, i started to ask her if she can accept mi. she did not want to give an answer, and say that she is not worth my time. she ask me not to wait for her, if i can find a better girl. her reason is because of her friend who likes me as well and her past experience. what do you think i should do? <--
EDIT: last paragraph not important anymore.
although she said this. went we are out together to study, she acted as if nothing happen. we usually msn-ed every night. yesterday i went out with her, the nite she didnt come online. i sms-ed her and she didnt replied. i dont know what happened. and feeling so bad now. <-- not important anymore
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Originally posted by Cries:
This is my first time posting in Aunt Agony. Pardon me.
What do you guys think when the girl you like couldnt accept you because of a friend.
There is this girl whom i recently met in my new class.
at the start, she knows that her friend like mi. so i think she decided to give in. her friend confess to mi. i rejected. she started to blame mi. why didnt i accept her friend. and she kept like "promoting" her friend. i got so angry. what if someone you likes keep promoting others to you.
plucking up some courage, knowing she also have some feelings for me, i decided to confess to her shortly after. she did the same. we then continued on as per normal. never talk about this topic. one day, i started to ask her if she can accept mi. she did not want to give an answer, and say that she is not worth my time. she ask me not to wait for her, if i can find a better girl. her reason is because of her friend who likes me as well and her past experience. what do you think i should do? <--
although she said this. went we are out together to study, she acted as if nothing happen. we usually msn-ed every night. yesterday i went out with her, the nite she didnt come online. i sms-ed her and she didnt replied. i dont know what happened. and feeling so bad now.
u in love with how many ppl now? -
Originally posted by Cries:
This is my first time posting in Aunt Agony. Pardon me.
What do you guys think when the girl you like couldnt accept you because of a friend.
There is this girl whom i recently met in my new class.
at the start, she knows that her friend like mi. so i think she decided to give in. her friend confess to mi. i rejected. she started to blame mi. why didnt i accept her friend. and she kept like "promoting" her friend. i got so angry. what if someone you likes keep promoting others to you.
plucking up some courage, knowing she also have some feelings for me, i decided to confess to her shortly after. she did the same. we then continued on as per normal. never talk about this topic. one day, i started to ask her if she can accept mi. she did not want to give an answer, and say that she is not worth my time. she ask me not to wait for her, if i can find a better girl. her reason is because of her friend who likes me as well and her past experience. what do you think i should do? <--
although she said this. went we are out together to study, she acted as if nothing happen. we usually msn-ed every night. yesterday i went out with her, the nite she didnt come online. i sms-ed her and she didnt replied. i dont know what happened. and feeling so bad now.
If I am ya, I'd be running away from her like there's no tomorrow.
That chick is a psycho in the making.
Ya don't pimp yer own fwen.
And obviously she is doing the mind fuck on you.
Ya want some attention from her ? Simply put her on yer ignore list, and she'd be hounding you like a bitch on heat.
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jojobeach, can u explain why she is a psycho in the making?....thank you....i very blur
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Originally posted by AEW5001:
u in love with how many ppl now?
1 lor. i dont like the other girl. and i told her. -
then?
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Originally posted by Cries:
This is my first time posting in Aunt Agony. Pardon me.
What do you guys think when the girl you like couldnt accept you because of a friend.
There is this girl whom i recently met in my new class.
at the start, she knows that her friend like mi. so i think she decided to give in. her friend confess to mi. i rejected. she started to blame mi. why didnt i accept her friend. and she kept like "promoting" her friend. i got so angry. what if someone you likes keep promoting others to you.
plucking up some courage, knowing she also have some feelings for me, i decided to confess to her shortly after. she did the same. we then continued on as per normal. never talk about this topic. one day, i started to ask her if she can accept mi. she did not want to give an answer, and say that she is not worth my time. she ask me not to wait for her, if i can find a better girl. her reason is because of her friend who likes me as well and her past experience. what do you think i should do? <--
although she said this. went we are out together to study, she acted as if nothing happen. we usually msn-ed every night. yesterday i went out with her, the nite she didnt come online. i sms-ed her and she didnt replied. i dont know what happened. and feeling so bad now.
It means she's waiting for you to SWEEP HER OFF HER FEET!!! (Not Down+Heavy Kick :p)You are clear to launch all you romantic stunts on her...........if you have any left in you and provided you are not panicking and busy texting your friends for advices.
Sometimes we can be so cruel to the person who matters the most to us.
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Not worth it to stead with someone who is not willing to do so under such stupid reasons.
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hmm. i guess i just leave it first. till next week.
gotta study for 3 papers. more important.
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This is like a Bollywood script.
A likes TS, TS likes B, B and A are friends, B promotes A.
TS and B confess to each other, but pssss! it fall flat.
I feel TS should look for C, and live an uncomplicated life.
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i fully empathise with TS man. Happened to me recently also. Best is to heck both of them. honest. There wouldnt be a good ending out of this. Its like some unwritten rule that " thou shalt not steal thy friend's crush " or something like that. Some code of honor that would cause a girl's friends to turn onto her if she commits this crime. So quite hard for her also lah
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Originally posted by kristovorus:
i fully empathise with TS man. Happened to me recently also. Best is to heck both of them. honest. There wouldnt be a good ending out of this. Its like some unwritten rule that " thou shalt not steal thy friend's crush " or something like that. Some code of honor that would cause a girl's friends to turn onto her if she commits this crime. So quite hard for her also lah
Originally posted by mancha:This is like a Bollywood script.
A likes TS, TS likes B, B and A are friends, B promotes A.
TS and B confess to each other, but pssss! it fall flat.
I feel TS should look for C, and live an uncomplicated life.
serious? is the best way to give up?
just feeling frustrated to even think about it.
i know her friend for a year plus and we're like hi-bye friend.
but i only know this girl for months and we contact each other everyday.
dont know what her friend is thinking also.
maybe there isnt really any good ending. haiz
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its *possible* for a good ending. just dont embrace too high hopes for it. from what i see this kind of scenario has no good end. can't be lovers be friends also not bad. Maybe when her friend stop liking you then you might have a chance.. but aiya. dont hope too much bah
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TS, u better think of the implications of ur decisions whatever it may be
Decide on one and stick to it.....
Dun let the situation hang there.
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haha problem settled. thanks guys
i will leave it as it is. and continue with life. hahhaa.
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dun give her pressure ba...take it slow...since u have the opportunity to study with her, start from friends.
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your age, not a good idea to bother with them at all, no good outcome
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dotz.