Is it normal to have desires?
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Sometimes I feel that Im not contented with whatever that I was given. I always yearn for better things( better house, girlfirend, education). But Am I too much for all these? Ive expericed with wanting for more, but everytime I was given that chance, I tend to lose it.
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It's NORMAL... But LEARN to control it....?
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That's human nature...Originally posted by orange_oceanz:Sometimes I feel that Im not contented with whatever that I was given. I always yearn for better things( better house, girlfirend, education). But Am I too much for all these? Ive expericed with wanting for more, but everytime I was given that chance, I tend to lose it. -
why u lose it in the first place?Originally posted by orange_oceanz:Sometimes I feel that Im not contented with whatever that I was given. I always yearn for better things( better house, girlfirend, education). But Am I too much for all these? Ive expericed with wanting for more, but everytime I was given that chance, I tend to lose it.
everything requires a sacrifice.
and why u need a better girlfriend? is it erm a bit demeaning to feel that a girlfriend is like a commodity... -
Some heed this and call it ambition.
If you work hard for things material, hey! your choice
But girlfriend??? That one, requires some serious self-analysis as to what you think of the relationship...Originally posted by orange_oceanz:Sometimes I feel that Im not contented with whatever that I was given. I always yearn for better things( better house, girlfirend, education). But Am I too much for all these? Ive expericed with wanting for more, but everytime I was given that chance, I tend to lose it. -
Desire is a driving force to do better.
But it's contentment that saves you from destruction. -
Having desires is pretty normal, worse is to have no expectation at all. Control well though, strive for more but always be checking that desires wont be the one to control u. Set targets & learn to appreciate your achievements.
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Better Girlfriend? I dun even have 1. I lose whatever things that I have cuz I tend to lose interest easily
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Remember: a person is not an object.. neither is a relationship.. don't "lose interest"... it's very demeaning to the other person
Originally posted by orange_oceanz:Better Girlfriend? I dun even have 1. I lose whatever things that I have cuz I tend to lose interest easily -
see one day free i bring u to charity homes
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huh? charity homes ah?
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yah..i agree with u..everyone sure has greed..jus the matter of control..Originally posted by Devil1976:It's NORMAL... But LEARN to control it....?
Givache 
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ya...and dun regret it man...coz once gone, only memories will be left behind...Originally posted by Givache:yah..i agree with u..everyone sure has greed..jus the matter of control.. Givache 
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he dun have gf lah...Originally posted by hopy:ya...and dun regret it man...coz once gone, only memories will be left behind...
well to secure a gf... work on ur assets... which will increase self esteem and hence will attract girls!
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desires ?
what kind ?
any kind ?
it will NOT be normal if one DO NOT have any desires...
don't worry, if you have desires, you are sane and normal...
just don't let the desires drive you insane and become abnormal !! -
learn to appreciate what you have?? and thank god for everything?? some pple are lucky and some are not.. so.. be glad.. u have food.. etc.. hehe.. but.. desires will have.. why not strive harder for ur desires?? learn to achieve by urself??Originally posted by orange_oceanz:Sometimes I feel that Im not contented with whatever that I was given. I always yearn for better things( better house, girlfirend, education). But Am I too much for all these? Ive expericed with wanting for more, but everytime I was given that chance, I tend to lose it. -
It is desire that brings humans forward, of course it is normal. Even monks and priests have desire, to be closer to enlightenment or to their God.
But it is important not to let desire become obsession. However, then you'd start hurting people trying to get it. -
Sounds pretty normal
as long as you think abt trying out human flesh or something
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It's normal to have desires, but there's a limit.
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if there is a desire, there is a condy
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Originally posted by ntu slacker:well to secure a gf... work on ur assets... which will increase self esteem and hence will attract girls!
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How come when I see sgboy2004, I suddenly have no desires?Originally posted by sgboy2004:if there is a desire, there is a condy
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Honeybunz!!!...........
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why call me?Originally posted by dark_slayer79:Honeybunz!!!........... -
Originally posted by Honeybunz:why call me?
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