who do i really love actually?
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There is two person..2 which i have dated before(let's take A n B)..A was 3 months and B was 2 years..but broke with them long ago liao la....i keep wondering who do i really love..
it's like..
when i saw A..i keep having the intimate thoughs with A..no sex* like holding hands etc..but wasn't really happy when we were together..don't really miss A but when i saw A..i will think of them and wish A was with me by my side..
I think n miss B..but when i saw B..there isn't much feeling although we are happy..but i dont have that kind of blissful feeling..but rather like normal friendship..but B appear in my mind more often then A..
actually i am just confuse whether is it just a like or love..maybe i do not love them at all?maybe i do?i really dunno
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Seriously, I think AA mod needs to put a sticky up that people indicate their ages when they post relationship problems.
Very hard to give advice if the age is not revealed because puppy love and marriage love are 2 different things altogether.
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Originally posted by charlize:
Seriously, I think AA mod needs to put a sticky up that people indicate their ages when they post relationship problems.
Very hard to give advice if the age is not revealed because puppy love and marriage love are 2 different things altogether.
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puppy love...-.- no la..girls' age is a secret... shh..but i am 23..lolx
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char, you very sure there are just two categories: puppy love and marriage love?
What about casual love, lesbian love, gay love?
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86 is a hint of the year liao ma...
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Originally posted by themoment86:
puppy love...-.- no la..girls' age is a secret... shh..but i am 23..lolx
It's a girl thing.
Let me presume that you were attracted to A (3 months) because he had that "bad boy" thing going for him.
For B (2 years), he was a nice guy but somehow you felt that there were no sparks even though you were with him for 2 years.
Yes?
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Originally posted by wonderamazement:
86 is a hint of the year liao ma...
if I put my nick as charlize90, you will believe that I am 19 years old today?
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fantagf..do u like checking up the background of every TS before posting a reply?hehe no offence thou..anyway i am just confuse and is really confuse..
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
char, you very sure there are just two categories: puppy love and marriage love?
What about casual love, lesbian love, gay love?
Omg, you are right, I assumed TS was a girl without verifying!
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The thread sounds lan qing.
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what is lan qing?anyway can someone just ans to my thread?i don't mind if u wanna analyze in categories of lesbian,gay or casual love or even puppy love!!!it's gd to know more actually =D
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I think you are a very confused person. Perhaps you need to get to know more people, to go into relationship to find out what you really want in love
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Originally posted by themoment86:
what is lan qing?anyway can someone just ans to my thread?i don't mind if u wanna analyze in categories of lesbian,gay or casual love or even puppy love!!!it's gd to know more actually =D
What's your question actually?
If you are asking whether it is like or love, then only you can answer it.
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Ok TS, I saw your response in another thread where you stated that you liked "underground" or "hidden" romance because it is more exciting.
If that's the case, I can surmise that for your relationship with A, you like the feeling of adventure. Likely this is a short term thing, a rush of endorphins. More like embarking on an adventure.
For B, likely it could be something more than just a simple friendship. Whether it is love, only you know. But definitely, it should last longer than you relationship with A (which it did).
There, did I answer your question?
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Originally posted by charlize:
Omg, you are right, I assumed TS was a girl without verifying!
That's what I thought too, girls are characterised by indecisiveness.
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boring those R/S is in the past dude
move on
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You don't love either of them. Thats it. End.
Only when you see them, you remember. That's not love, thats nostalgia.
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Originally posted by themoment86:
There is two person..2 which i have dated before(let's take A n B)..A was 3 months and B was 2 years..but broke with them long ago liao la....i keep wondering who do i really love..
it's like..
when i saw A..i keep having the intimate thoughs with A..no sex* like holding hands etc..but wasn't really happy when we were together..don't really miss A but when i saw A..i will think of them and wish A was with me by my side..
I think n miss B..but when i saw B..there isn't much feeling although we are happy..but i dont have that kind of blissful feeling..but rather like normal friendship..but B appear in my mind more often then A..
actually i am just confuse whether is it just a like or love..maybe i do not love them at all?maybe i do?i really dunno
Option C... which means... get a life and move on! -
i think
when u see C u feel like touching her
when u see D u feel like licking her
when u see E u feel like holding her
when u see F u feel like kissing her
when u see G u feel like pocking her
when u see HIJKLMNOP...............
do u have all those feel..................????
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Originally posted by mancha:
You don't love either of them. Thats it. End.
Only when you see them, you remember. That's not love, thats nostalgia.
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Originally posted by Hwaimeng:
i think
when u see C u feel like touching her
when u see D u feel like licking her
when u see E u feel like holding her
when u see F u feel like kissing her
when u see G u feel like pocking her
when u see HIJKLMNOP...............
do u have all those feel..................????
how come sounds so animalistic ? like animal, move from one to another lured by the body. eeeyyyeeee
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to Hwaimeng, i dont see one love one okay?right now it's just two of them..it's very diff for me to fall for 1 person...and it's not really about moving on..because i am just confuse..i nv thought of being with either of them...both are my friends and i don't want to let them think that i still have a thing for them..but i myself dont even know if i have a thing for them anot...
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Just dun care both easy
If it's gonna happen it will happen.
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go by ur feelings, if you think they r mature enough for you, and one you can lean on, then go for it
