Virginity not overrated
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virginity still a highly valued trait for the guy to be seeking in their future wife
Once u know ur girl not virgin, she say do it 1 time/accident only. Confirm the guy will think how many other guys got in already. i doubt any guy would believe unless its blind love.
Once the infatuation wear off, he will think like since u already do with others anyway. Would be unfair and crappy if he didnt get his share of sex partners in his entire life. Why commit ur love & virginity to this non virgin?
I last time got NS friend, he is "playboy", say nowdays non-virgin girls often claim only do 1 time b4, so its hard to believe their non-virgin story. I know he lies about alot of thing. and really a selfish jerk anyway. He can fake sincerity very well and know alot of love songs to hook zhabor for sex. He very good at buildin short term attraction by offering so and so, his ambitition nonsense. By the time they find out his character already too late.
Girl should notice when a guy knows too many love songs, too much unrealistic promises. Theres probably a catch. Sadly to say i think many girls do often would go for the showy type rather than those down-to-earth type.
Nice guys finish last( which guy want to be like the 10th+?).When their innocent hope of finding a pure love are dashed.
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this is a little off topic but i would like to ask if given a choice, would you want to be the 1st guy for a short relationship or 10th for a longer lasting one? i think its pretty obvious
They transform into selfish jerks and repeat the cycle again
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what goes around, comes around.
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Originally posted by Hideinshadows:
virginity still a highly valued trait for the guy to be seeking in their future wife
Once u know ur girl not virgin, she say do it 1 time/accident only. Confirm the guy will think how many other guys got in already. i doubt any guy would believe unless its blind love.
Once the infatuation wear off, he will think like since u already do with others anyway. Would be unfair and crappy if he didnt get his share of sex partners in his entire life. Why commit ur love & virginity to this non virgin?
I last time got NS friend, he is "playboy", say nowdays non-virgin girls often claim only do 1 time b4, so its hard to believe their non-virgin story. I know he lies about alot of thing. and really a selfish jerk anyway. He can fake sincerity very well and know alot of love songs to hook zhabor for sex. He very good at buildin short term attraction by offering so and so, his ambitition nonsense. By the time they find out his character already too late.
Girl should notice when a guy knows too many love songs, too much unrealistic promises. Theres probably a catch. Sadly to say i think many girls do often would go for the showy type rather than those down-to-earth type.
Nice guys finish last( which guy want to be like the 10th+?).When their innocent hope of finding a pure love are dashed. They transform into selfish jerks and repeat the cycle again
There is no such thing as 'I have sex by accident', keep that in mind.
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
There is no such thing as 'I have sex by accident', keep that in mind.
can u dun take genie zhuo sentence. make yr own sentence la -
sh!t and i know so many love songs
like this means i playboy? nonsense lor, i nvr even had a gf b4
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Don't bullshit la , I know so many love songs but I'm not a playboy , your logic stinks
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Originally posted by genie-chou <3:
can u dun take genie zhuo sentence. make yr own sentence laShe haven't copyrighted it yet. And who is she anyway?
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Originally posted by redname:
sh!t and i know so many love songs
like this means i playboy? nonsense lor, i nvr even had a gf b4
TS probably means bad guy = love songs + unrealistic promises.
What he should have add to prevent confusion is love song =/= bad guy
So it is a one-sided limit thing.
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
She haven't copyrighted it yet. And who is she anyway?
u kidding me? she is the goddess of all females. all of the girls bow down bfore her -
some people want to play around but too bad they yet to have the ability to.lol
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Originally posted by genie-chou <3:
u kidding me? she is the goddess of all females. all of the girls bow down bfore her
She is the goddess of all females,In Your Opinion only not all of us got that kind of idea eh.
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virgin anot not important what is important is she is rich.
than you canuse her money to feed a chio bu to be your mistress
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
TS probably means bad guy = love songs + unrealistic promises.
What he should have add to prevent confusion is love song =/= bad guy
So it is a one-sided limit thing.
thank God. like this i can still continue with singing my love songs :P -
Originally posted by redname:
thank God. like this i can still continue with singing my love songs :PYes, i do really meant too many love songs + unrealistic promises
but i just realised love songs can sometime contain unrealistic promises lol.
A realistic love song is probably not as romantic. Such irony
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good guys always finish last :(
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so if the woman you love turns out to be a whore or slut den how?but she willing to change and repent..virgin is important..yes..to both males and females..pre marital sex is wrong but fashionable..thats why many fall to it.if you can love a person..and no matter how the person was before..you will forgive and forget and build a better future together..even if the partner has aids..
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Frankly, its a rant that befuddles me lar.
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Originally posted by Hideinshadows:
Yes, i do really meant too many love songs + unrealistic promises
but i just realised love songs can sometime contain unrealistic promises lol.
A realistic love song is probably not as romantic. Such irony
blame the song writer lor.they write song to sell mah of cus must make it sellable.
maybe the ladies also need to blame, they love to hear this kind of lies or unrealstic things bah.
the person u refering to is smart, use their weak point
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Virginity is indeed over-rated, to the core.
When you truly love, nothing really matters anymore, for you would have love a person as a packaged whole, flaws and all, as none is perfect.
To seek for perfection is to live in denial, obstination and procastination.
Those who rate virginity as high value are nothing more than selfish and self centred persons, for they view love as an object to possess - virgin would only mean an untouched item to them, they way they would view and purchase only new items. They know not nor comprehend the concept of true love.
True love is to find out the character of a person, to be fully aware of that person, flaws and all, to accept and to give love, in returned to be loved, or in the lest, to serve a higher noble calling of helping someone else in life, should the love not be returned, for true love frees a person, never enslaves one.
There is so much we need to know still of love, even after 6000 years of recorded history. It is an alien concept, and bewildering, for we are animals and beast at heart. Civilisation is an imposition upon our ancient forefathers, so that humanity may grow and survive. So too, was love....
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wow -___-
The way TS put it, sooo agitated and can feel anger... somemore place in AA tends to makes ppl think that TS eats too much sour grapes...
Btw, i dun think knowing too much love songs or unrealistic promises = playboy... Too much of a sweeping statement... It's like dyed hair = ah beng, smoking = gangster... Gotta bring up facts and not myth to back ur sentence...
I'll spare u the idea of asking u to define "Pure Love" though...
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Anyway i would say virginity is highly valued to males in general unlike those in fantasy ideal worlds. Its gonna be hard to find a guy not using you for another cheap thrill
Faithful guy or playboy. They all want it but only one type would wait for it. If lost, most will intepret u as a cheap slut regardless whether u 1 time, accident or 1000 times
Would be wise to hold your virginity to the death or marriage
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Virginity has nothing to do with one's body (biology) it has more to do with the profundity/divinity of love - if u will, a 'non-sexual' state . One labels another as virgin cos one (the other) has not made 'love' yet lar.
When one has transcended love - one has plunged the very depth(s) of one's Being and in turn the depth is in itself transcendental.
My meaning or implication is that of virgin as purity, uncontaminated, spontaneity, simply innocence (of the heart/soul or whatever one is inclined to call it).
All these dichotomy/polarized view(s) has come about cos sex is not the prolem but sexuality. Sexuality is repression having found an abode in the mind. ie, one is sexual in the mind, thoughts are all about sex!
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Oh man... TS, you are just a typical pathetic person who is still whinning becos you cannot get yourself laid while others can... Why whine? I dun understand why? Different people have different mentality... The world do not revolves around you, so... get a life and move on!
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read up on Schopenhauer and these matters would become trivial