Break Up...
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Sigh... finally broke up with my gf of 1 and 1/2 years....
This was not the first time we broke up... but this will be the last....
Each time b4 this... we could not bear to live without each other... and reconcile after each break up... this happened about 5 - 6 times...
But everytime we'll go back to quarelling again... and the cycle begin...
But this time, I refuse to call her over the phone, for fear that hearing her voice will soften my heart...
I msged her my decision.... i could sense that she is very sad... and I almost wanted to call her to reverse my decision... but I knew it would only prolong our suffering...
Sweet memories keep flooding my mind... telling me not to let her go... but... i think its time to let go....
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take care pal..!
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Both and patched many times? Imagine a vase with many cracks - that's how your relationship looks like.Originally posted by Axl:Sigh... finally broke up with my gf of 1 and 1/2 years....
This was not the first time we broke up... but this will be the last....
Each time b4 this... we could not bear to live without each other... and reconcile after each break up... this happened about 5 - 6 times...
But everytime we'll go back to quarelling again... and the cycle begin...
But this time, I refuse to call her over the phone, for fear that hearing her voice will soften my heart...
I msged her my decision.... i could sense that she is very sad... and I almost wanted to call her to reverse my decision... but I knew it would only prolong our suffering...
Sweet memories keep flooding my mind... telling me not to let her go... but... i think its time to let go....
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I guess you had chose to make an alternative choice for you action - which is something you have to learn in the future too. *NEVER* simply ask for a break just because you can't stand it, etc. Learn to solve things and work together before resorting to anything like breaking, because once you break - everything is different even after you patch.
Stick onto your choice is my suggestion, because you firmly know that it is better in the long run. If not - you go back to this vicious cycle that only serve to suffer in the short + long run.
Cheers -
MUst really take gd care...
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Don't get too upset.
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thanks all...
break up is always painful... especially when we had so much sweet memories...
when we were together, i don't really care about her... but at this moment, all i can think about is her and seeing her...
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Because you are just not yet used to without her being with you together in spirit and emotions.Originally posted by Axl:thanks all...
break up is always painful... especially when we had so much sweet memories...
when we were together, i don't really care about her... but at this moment, all i can think about is her and seeing her...
why so ironic?
It is like after you eat something really delicious - you always long to eat it again if you have the chance to. But if you kept lingering in that store - you will certainly miss other better stores around.
Cheers -
This is not ironic, this is LIFE.... Take care...?Originally posted by Axl:thanks all...
break up is always painful... especially when we had so much sweet memories...
when we were together, i don't really care about her... but at this moment, all i can think about is her and seeing her...
why so ironic? -
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Originally posted by Axl:Sigh... finally broke up with my gf of 1 and 1/2 years....
This was not the first time we broke up... but this will be the last....
Each time b4 this... we could not bear to live without each other... and reconcile after each break up... this happened about 5 - 6 times...
But everytime we'll go back to quarelling again... and the cycle begin...
But this time, I refuse to call her over the phone, for fear that hearing her voice will soften my heart...
I msged her my decision.... i could sense that she is very sad... and I almost wanted to call her to reverse my decision... but I knew it would only prolong our suffering...
Sweet memories keep flooding my mind... telling me not to let her go... but... i think its time to let go....
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Girls come and girls go... -
Originally posted by Axl:Sigh... finally broke up with my gf of 1 and 1/2 years....
This was not the first time we broke up... but this will be the last....
Each time b4 this... we could not bear to live without each other... and reconcile after each break up... this happened about 5 - 6 times...
But everytime we'll go back to quarelling again... and the cycle begin...
But this time, I refuse to call her over the phone, for fear that hearing her voice will soften my heart...
I msged her my decision.... i could sense that she is very sad... and I almost wanted to call her to reverse my decision... but I knew it would only prolong our suffering...
Sweet memories keep flooding my mind... telling me not to let her go... but... i think its time to let go....
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tk care pal....
me gone thru the same thing as u b4....
me n my bf.... last for abt 2yr+...
we did break lot of times..
den.. last yr... me n him really break.. and this is the last break...
sad... but... life still need to goes on.,... -
A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill.
In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?"
Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this." He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up.
He then asked, "Who still wants it?"
Still the hands were up in the air. "Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty.
"Now who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air.
"My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20.
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless.
But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. You are special - Don't ever forget it! -
i'm really inspired by this statement......
Originally posted by J-reeee:
A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill.
In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?"
Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this." He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up.
He then asked, "Who still wants it?"
Still the hands were up in the air. "Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty.
"Now who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air.
"My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20.
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless.
But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. You are special - Don't ever forget it! -
i can really understand ur feeling now.i am still trying to recover at the moment.family,friends and time are our best friend now...... Originally posted by Axl:thanks all...
break up is always painful... especially when we had so much sweet memories...
when we were together, i don't really care about her... but at this moment, all i can think about is her and seeing her...
why so ironic? -
me also haha...takes time i guess...like wat im doing now also...Originally posted by birdbird:i can really understand ur feeling now.i am still trying to recover at the moment.family,friends and time are our best friend now...... 
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breakup is like trying to extract a wisdom tooth... while the pain is excruciating.. it is absolutely necessary...
I am more worried about her.... cos she can't take it as well as me... I told her to be strong... and also emailed the $20 story to her... -
is it relevant to give us a little details on why u broke up with her? or why she broke up with u, whichever ever the case may be.
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frequent quarrelling means she's not for u.
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Healing fast I hope...?Originally posted by hopy:me also haha...takes time i guess...like wat im doing now also...
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You know her friends...? Ask them to take care of her...?Originally posted by Axl:breakup is like trying to extract a wisdom tooth... while the pain is excruciating.. it is absolutely necessary...
I am more worried about her.... cos she can't take it as well as me... I told her to be strong... and also emailed the $20 story to her... -
not really....slow process...but hey, slow and steady wins the race!Originally posted by Devil1976:Healing fast I hope...? 
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Totally agree. I never say break up for fun. And when I say it, will be once and the last. Never like the idea of patching back.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Both and patched many times? Imagine a vase with many cracks - that's how your relationship looks like.
I guess you had chose to make an alternative choice for you action - which is something you have to learn in the future too. *NEVER* simply ask for a break just because you can't stand it, etc. Learn to solve things and work together before resorting to anything like breaking, because once you break - everything is different even after you patch.
Stick onto your choice is my suggestion, because you firmly know that it is better in the long run. If not - you go back to this vicious cycle that only serve to suffer in the short + long run.
Cheers -
everyting is fated.....look at it positively....fate is tellin u tat u will met a better one...take care..
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Originally posted by hopy:not really....slow process...but hey, slow and steady wins the race!
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I have FOUR wisdom tooth/teeth, but I dun bother to take out...Originally posted by Axl:breakup is like trying to extract a wisdom tooth... while the pain is excruciating.. it is absolutely necessary...
I am more worried about her.... cos she can't take it as well as me... I told her to be strong... and also emailed the $20 story to her...
U oredi knew wat to do and U still care abt her... Showed U r caring, passionate, gentle, etc, etc... Hey gals out there! Heres 1 nice guy for ya!!!
Or U can intro her to me n I try to comfort her? muah ha ha ha ha...
(joking...)
U can show her concern, but dun do it too much... may lead to another patch back... can imagine a vase wif MANY cracks... Give U 2 time... and things WILL work out. -
well, jus go listen e song, "If I let u go" by westlife