So hard

• loti

  8 Mar 03, 15:33

  my gf is going thru a bad patch now...overstress at work,unreasonable deadlines...i really want to see how she's doing,give her a hug,sayang her but when i think of her workload and deadlines,i think i shld let her work instead.Wat a predicament.....
• Devil1976

  10 Mar 03, 11:30

  Perhaps you should just be seeing her for a little while to give her a little support...? Like... Just simple lunch or dinner so that you won't be taking up too much of her time...?
• dumbdumb!

  13 Mar 03, 09:18

  dropping a gift would be nice.
• Yunhaier

  13 Mar 03, 13:30

  Originally posted by loti:

  my gf is going thru a bad patch now...overstress at work,unreasonable deadlines...i really want to see how she's doing,give her a hug,sayang her but when i think of her workload and deadlines,i think i shld let her work instead.Wat a predicament.....

  You are so thoughtful, I applause on the behalf of your gf for your kind & caring thoughts.
  
  There is many things you could do without disturbing her workload and yet you could bring your concern love message across. You could write a small letter, folded in it and place it somewhere she will bound to see like wallet, bag, etc, *not* telling her all that mushy stuff etc (I mean you could put also lar), but rather message that convey ideas of encouragement. This is very important, at least she will know that you are bothered over her stress and well-being.
  
  You could also buy small gift or her fav food, put it her at work place, house, letterbox, etc, so when she sees it, all this small little surprise will touched her in small ways. And of course when you do get to see her, treasure the time spend together.
  
  Cheers