Are super emo girls more harder to understand?
I had all my sensors on full power yet still cannot understand....
any girl oso hard to understand.
had given up trying to understand them....
easier to spot the sign and work from there onward.....
they could blame u for a totally innocent thing as a result of another totally isolated incident that is hardly related.... which u most likely wont see or even know exist until they blow over....
so the trick, give in till they clam down to see the reason/cause behind... then base ur decision upon it, not before.
Observe how she treat other people will also help...i think so
The clouds in the sky are nebulous - and they pass and it is the same with emotions - whether it is anger, love, jealousy .... they all pass. It is impermanence.
When someone says that he/she understands one is merely reacting to an emotion that one had experienced before in a situation or what-have-u. In other words, one has been accumulating it in one's psyche (mind) - now it is a hangover! Semblance of permance is there but only in one's mind. Existentially it is not real''
However one who is being mature is cognizant of the fact that the clouds (emotions) pass, then one is more inclined to be responsive as opposed to reacting. One knows it will pass.
Response is the ability to respond to what is - eg,in a situation, an encounter, a cirumtanstance, an emotion - one is being calm and collected. No one is pushing buttons! One is integrated/reconciled or one has the capacity within oneself to intergrate/reconcile and be or do ... .
Reaction is merely impusively acting out eg , in a situation, an encounter, a cirumtanstance, an emotion - one is being erratic and impulsive - someone else is pushing one's buttons. One's lack of understanding splits one on the inside (within)
Originally posted by FireIce:any girl oso hard to understand.
:D
If we're easy to understand, we won't be called 'women'.
Then again, why are men so predictable eh?
Originally posted by Ryuna::D
If we're easy to understand, we won't be called 'women'.
Then again, why are men so predictable eh?
Back to the two head-theory, one up and one down...