What u think of him?
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what will u think of a guy who always keeps himself away from crowds, lonely and single, having framed by "gd friends" and got himself few records, with no true friends and doesnt trust ppl easily
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Originally posted by ahzhao:
i modify a bit... guy to gal cos i am a guy
what will u think of a guy who always keeps himself away from crowds, lonely and single, having framed by "gd friends" and got himself few records, with no true friends and doesnt trust ppl easily
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[b]Nu ReN yI kU eR nAo SaN sHaN dIaO~~~[/b]
does she has friends at all? depends lah... if she sotong all the time... i think its rather a turnoff to any friends... cos impossible to click with mah...
lonely and single is not neccessarily a bad thing. and define true friends?
cos your profile abt the silent, quiet type suits me... -
why u talking abt mi...wahhahaa
hi ahzhao... u are in COB liao
in this world, we hav different kind of pple around...introvert, extroverts...tat makes our society so fun and complex.
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wah if gal u like laOriginally posted by ntu slacker:i modify a bit... guy to gal cos i am a guy
does she has friends at all? depends lah... if she sotong all the time... i think its rather a turnoff to any friends... cos impossible to click with mah...
lonely and single is not neccessarily a bad thing. and define true friends?
cos your profile abt the silent, quiet type suits me...
thenguy u hate izzit
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....Originally posted by sgboy2004:why u talking abt mi...wahhahaa
hi ahzhao... u are in COB liao
in this world, we hav different kind of pple around...introvert, extroverts...tat makes our society so fun and complex.
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i am a gentleman
xie xie ni
since we haf different kind of ppl, there r bounts to haf "outcast"
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Originally posted by ahzhao:
Minus abit. Tadah thats me
what will u think of a guy who always keeps himself away from crowds, lonely and single, with no true friends and doesnt trust ppl easily
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[b]Nu ReN yI kU eR nAo SaN sHaN dIaO~~~[/b]
some people are like this one, when i around alot of people i don't know can make me feel abit like vomitting or very giddy sometimes. Well some people have social phobia.
And its a real mental illness, can be cured with CBT (corrective behaviour therapy) maybe your fren has this problem go see a dr today. -
his trying 2 protect himself~~~
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nope its trueOriginally posted by ^mm^:his trying 2 protect himself~~~
btw where's your meow~~
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so wat? its his character
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Originally posted by ahzhao:
this is call social norm... acceptance level... anything tat is outside this norm will be considered "outcast"... u are rite... the society (and at times, the legal systems) decides wat is acceptable and wat is not...
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xie xie ni
since we haf different kind of ppl, there r bounts to haf "outcast"
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[b]Nu ReN yI kU eR nAo SaN sHaN dIaO~~~[/b]
For instance, buaya-ism and crapping were once taboo here in sgforums...but now, after much persistence and much exposure, pple here are more tolerant towards buaya-ism and crapping...
time changes pple, pple changes over time...
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Originally posted by ahzhao:
retired
nope its true
btw where's your meow~~
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maybe u're rightOriginally posted by sgboy2004:this is call social norm... acceptance level... anything tat is outside this norm will be considered "outcast"... u are rite... the society (and at times, the legal systems) decides wat is acceptable and wat is not...
For instance, buaya-ism and crapping were once taboo here in sgforums...but now, after much persistence and much exposure, pple here are more tolerant towards buaya-ism and crapping...
time changes pple, pple changes over time...
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Baby sgboy2004
but to take the whole society to accept it will take ages since majority will bound to deemed them as outcast
normally outcast themselves should noe better than others by shifting/covering/hiding themselves up rather than causing unhappiness/quarrelling among ppl who accept and ppl who dun
i seen it be4 and its true!
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Originally posted by ahzhao:
thats sad.. i oso got a lousy self image
what will u think of a guy who always keeps himself away from crowds, lonely and single, having framed by "gd friends" and got himself few records, with no true friends and doesnt trust ppl easily
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no leyOriginally posted by ntu slacker:i modify a bit... guy to gal cos i am a guy
does she has friends at all? depends lah... if she sotong all the time... i think its rather a turnoff to any friends... cos impossible to click with mah...
lonely and single is not neccessarily a bad thing. and define true friends?
cos your profile abt the silent, quiet type suits me...
tot u talking abt ur love life... -
Agoraphobia, fear of crowds and staying among them. Don't know, but I find human scary. Never really like to social with a lot of people?
I always believe that having too many friends is a threat. -
been there, done that
only way for cure.. i think
is to have frens to be there to open up the person...
up till now, i haven't been able to really open myself to ppl
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Boo!Originally posted by Wind:Agoraphobia, fear of crowds and staying among them. Don't know, but I find human scary. Never really like to social with a lot of people?
I always believe that having too many friends is a threat.
haha
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Originally posted by ahzhao:
what will u think of a guy who always keeps himself away from crowds, lonely and single, having framed by "gd friends" and got himself few records, with no true friends and doesnt trust ppl easily
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[b]Nu ReN yI kU eR nAo SaN sHaN dIaO~~~[/b]
The strong is always lonely...... -
Originally posted by ahzhao:
If you asking me whether he is normal or is it right - I would answer yes.
what will u think of a guy who always keeps himself away from crowds, lonely and single, having framed by "gd friends" and got himself few records, with no true friends and doesnt trust ppl easily
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[b]Nu ReN yI kU eR nAo SaN sHaN dIaO~~~[/b]
However... regardless of what sort of character a guy/girl is - he or she would rather be with a small group of trustable, dependable friend than to be alone. Such is a nature of human and it is rather psychologically and socially affecting to be always alone.
I am not saying you must go to a party and befriend every single one in it; true friends come in many ways and it is like wine - it grows better with age. You said you don't trust people - naturally you would have few friends - as simple as that. People would instead see you as a weirdo, a grouch, etc and the tendancy to avoid or not using the chance to fully know you inside out is pretty high isn't it?
Alot of times people who claims that they love to be alone or when among the few friends they have, these people don't seemed to be true friends, etc - I think its always good to self reflect upon oneself and ponder why others ain't like that and why am I like this. Seriously speaking - if everyone have a chance, they would rather be with a good friend, or someone decent. Are you giving this chance to people and yourself? You said you were framed by good friends - all I have to say is, if you found a worm inside the chocolate bar you are consuming, are you going to stop eating chocolate all your life?
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Originally posted by ahzhao:
Moving through a phase of his Life....? He can CHOOSE to MOVE ON if he really wants to... If he feels that the problem lies with his 'gd friends', then he can always go for a new group of friends... That's the PROBLEM with many humans ya see? They encounter some bad experience with people and they HYPOTHESIZE that ALL people are like that...
what will u think of a guy who always keeps himself away from crowds, lonely and single, having framed by "gd friends" and got himself few records, with no true friends and doesnt trust ppl easily
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[b]Nu ReN yI kU eR nAo SaN sHaN dIaO~~~[/b]
TIME to WAKE UP....? -
Don't ya wanna get over it...?Originally posted by AngelDark:been there, done that
only way for cure.. i think
is to have frens to be there to open up the person...
up till now, i haven't been able to really open myself to ppl
but i'm still trying....
Hmm... Come to think of it, you're INDEED a little 'different' in a sense...? -
i dun even noe myselfOriginally posted by Devil1976:Don't ya wanna get over it...? Hmm... Come to think of it, you're INDEED a little 'different' in a sense...?
that's the difficult part -
You can try thinking of how you were before whatever the 'big thing' which hit you happened...? Or have you not even know yourself well before that...? Hmm... That would make things much more difficult...?Originally posted by AngelDark:i dun even noe myself
that's the difficult part
Nonetheless, the 'difference' in you might not be such a bad thing after all...? Guess you should know this quite well by now..? When something big happens to someone, he /she might experienced a 'CHANGE'.... The 'change' would very much depends on how he /she views it...? Positive or negative thing..? Something like that...? I believe that whatever have caused you to be whom you are today may have actually brought out some qualities in you which is NOT usually seen in your 'type'...? So instead of worrying too much about 'what' you've become, why not make the best out of things? Everybody in this world usually possess DIFFERENT qualities and such, it's just up to themselves to explore (just like playing RPG game huh..? ) and HOW they wanna put their qualities to use...? Meaning in Life...? -
me? i'm juz a crazy person.Originally posted by Devil1976:You can try thinking of how you were before whatever the 'big thing' which hit you happened...? Or have you not even know yourself well before that...? Hmm... That would make things much more difficult...?
Nonetheless, the 'difference' in you might not be such a bad thing after all...? Guess you should know this quite well by now..? When something big happens to someone, he /she might experienced a 'CHANGE'.... The 'change' would very much depends on how he /she views it...? Positive or negative thing..? Something like that...? I believe that whatever have caused you to be whom you are today may have actually brought out some qualities in you which is NOT usually seen in your 'type'...? So instead of worrying too much about 'what' you've become, why not make the best out of things? Everybody in this world usually possess DIFFERENT qualities and such, it's just up to themselves to explore (just like playing RPG game huh..? ) and HOW they wanna put their qualities to use...? Meaning in Life...?
"qualities", too flattering, i'm no where near there....
i'm no where near good, but i'm trying to be there...=)