Originally posted by Fantagf:
It is always heartache to watch children being use for sex.If TS truly like he claimed still loves his wife i doubt he will go for the PRC gal.
When a man truly loves a woman, the man will only dedicate himself solely to the woman he loves and not share himself with another female.
i dont know what the hell the PRC girl sees in him, as he already got so much baggage(family etc). most likely should be money.
honestly. i dont freaking intend to get hitched or anything. at least for the next 100 years.
Originally posted by OHSheet:i dont know what the hell the PRC girl sees in him, as he already got so much baggage(family etc). most likely should be money.
honestly. i dont freaking intend to get hitched or anything. at least for the next 100 years.
It is well known that PRC gals go for money. I wonder if TS is just an ordinary employee not earning much, will the PRC gal be interested at all.
Hey, marriage is a gamble. me scare get married especially these days with so many divorces on the rise
especially with increasing number of men like TS, it is wise to conside carefully about marriage
Originally posted by Fantagf:It is well known that PRC gals go for money. I wonder if TS is just an ordinary employee not earning much, will the PRC gal be interested at all.
Hey, marriage is a gamble. me scare get married especially these days with so many divorces on the rise
especially with increasing number of men like TS, it is wise to conside carefully about marriage
im a guy la.. dont intend to. aiyoh. like what you said. people nowadays divorce like cheap shit.
i know now PRC pros very popular.
i think in the near future, if gahmen let in more PRC people, the women in sg will also start to eat out. Cause by then will also have PRC men pros.
Originally posted by OHSheet:im a guy la.. dont intend to. aiyoh. like what you said. people nowadays divorce like cheap shit.
i know now PRC pros very popular.
i think in the near future, if gahmen let in more PRC people, the women in sg will also start to eat out. Cause by then will also have PRC men pros.
OH goodness, what will become of Singapore then? A land of whores. oh dear!
Billie, I guess.. in your mind, u think tht u will be able to handle everything well. u think that your wife wont find out anything. u think that your children wont know a thing. u think that you will be playing safe and you will take all necessary precautions. u think that maybe after this one year, after the course ended, ur relationship with the girl will also end. or maybe like u said u saw some guys were courting tht girl, so if she got attached with a bf, u would end this affair too... it's like driving a car,u will never know when the accident gonna happen. u are confident enough. u never thought tht ur perfect plan would fail... BUT Billie, seriously sometimes we do lost control. Dont you agree? u read on the paper everyday, who wants to die? who wants the accident to happen? nobody want it.. and now u r taking the risk and i bet u r trying to see how big is actually the impact might be, worst come to worst... my best wishes for your wife and children! I super hate to see women's heart break because of this selfish man. I hope that your plan would never fail, and the girl would leave after the one year course with you and your wife will never find out and your children will never know anything bout this a.f.f.a.i.r and case close?
Originally posted by Billie Jean:Thank u all for all your inputs in the previous threat.
Just to update, we went out today n she be starting work at my place part time from tomorrow onwards.
I accept that there is likely to be no future together with her. But is there a humane n less painful way for me to cut her off?
I don’t want n cannot possibly ask her to leave, just after joining. Even if she leave my co, we will still have to see each other like 2-3 times a week, as she is likely to be my student for the next 1 year. I teach finance part time.
Shall I just tell her my feeling once n for all n highlight that we got no future together n see what she say?
I also know that there r some other guys chasing her as I saw them passing gifts to her, in class.
A humane and less painful way ? Oh.. you are too funny Billie.
Trust me, while you want to accord so much kindness to that girl, she has no intention of giving it back to you.
Does she cares that you have 2 young children who will grow up hating their father ?
Does she cares that your wife , after devoting so many years of her life to you, will be heart broken and left without a husband when the affair comes to light ?
Does she cares that your family, including the extended ones will curse you as the family tee koh pek who can't keep his penis in his pants ?
Does she cares that you may lose your teaching job or your reputation will be ruined when your school finds out ? You will have to take the fall, she will play the young naive victim. You can say bye bye to the teaching circuit.
Does she cares ?
Nope. Because to her, you are just a stepping stone. Your failure in life is not her problem.
And look what she has gained from you already. A job, special treatment in class, free meals, free entertainments. What's there to say No about ?
So what if there be no future with you ? She has a lot to gain NOW.
Ask yourself, what have you done for your wife lately ? Why arn't you bringing your wife to the movies ?
Why arn't you wining and dining your wife of many years?
Instead, you are wining and dining that girl who has done nothing for you, except giving you hard ons.
Your wife is also a woman, she needs loving from you too. She may be married to you, but I bet her married life must be lonely as hell.
Go save your wife from the depth of loneliness you have cast her into, for you are the only man who can help her, because you are her husband.
You need to fix your marriage. If not, it's either this 21 yer old, or another 25 year old or some other girl you want to save (for the sake of your self-esteem).
Ya don't know how to keep your professional life separate from your personal ??Go see a psychologist. They can help you.
Tell your wife.
this is the time where real love is tested. if your wife love you and you love your wife.
tell her.
if nononononoooooo
then u gg
can prepare to lose 1/2 ur fortune
What a revelation it would be - sadly, i surmise that love is not there or altogether, simply buried under sth else. If it was, he would not be here posting and seeking opinions.
I do emphatize with his predicament lar. However, like i mentioned before in my previous posting - self-honesty is essential. How long can one repress what one really feels or how long can one pretend?
Whether he stays in the marriage or leaves for this gal or even another - no difference, it is merely changing, the person within carries the same ....add on. The change is superficial and cosmetic. One is still susceptible to accidents!
However, with self-understanding, self-acceptance, and self-love - a transformation occurs and one is less susceptible to 'accidents' of this sort.
Sadly, Mr. Billie Jean is chasing after rainbows.
While rainbows do not age, reappears time and time again, always as beautiful and glorious as the first ...
If only Mr Billie would stop and see his own reflection, in puddles of water after the rain.
He will see that his is turning gray...his house is in shambles.. and the good life passing him by.....
Strategy is simple....
First you make the determination in your mind.
If you dont make the determination and the decision in your mind, you won't be able to succeed with whatever "strategy" actions you take.
After your mind is settled, everything else will be easily releaved to you.
wan to cut off, then do it without emotions attached. Trying to cut off in a humane way? haha then who humane to the wife and kids.
Originally posted by Rock^Star:.
wan to cut off, then do it without emotions attached. Trying to cut off in a humane way? haha then who humane to the wife and kids.
Good point.
Stupid is as stupid does- Forest Gump.
Without stupid men like these, smart ladies won't have anyone to kotok and take advantage of.
Heck, that girl oughta get an award for her accomplishment.
She's a role model for all wannabe mistresses.
please continue in existing thread.