Has anyone ever tried winning the heart of a girl who is still recovering from a previous guy? As in, he won her over with his sincerity and patience. And yes, he confessed to the girl knowing that she is still recovering from the previous guy. And she said that she would actually consider this guy...
Originally posted by Lovelorn?:Has anyone ever tried winning the heart of a girl who is still recovering from a previous guy? As in, he won her over with his sincerity and patience. And yes, he confessed to the girl knowing that she is still recovering from the previous guy. And she said that she would actually consider this guy...
The main issue of concern for the guy now is to not hurt the girl any further. Hence, he should avoid doing things that could cause the girl any unhappiness. That includes doing things which the girl dislikes in particular.
It is a good idea to ask the girl's friends on more advice as to what things to avoid doing, they will be likely to help the guy out if they do not find him a dis-likable person. At the same time, ask them if she has any particular interests, and what things do she like ( food, accessories...etc. )
there's something called the rebound
Originally posted by maskedangel:there's something called the rebound
That's wat the guy is afraid of. The prob wif the girl now is that she tells the guy she would take really long to get over the previous one as it was her first. But in fact, they didn't even start! And she is not helping herself by still hanging out with the previous guy so often...
beware if she accepts you
you could be dumped within the week when she realizes she still loves the other guy
Yes I won over the heart of my gf when she was recovering from a broken relationship however it took me 7 months to win over her heart. Patience is needed as she will be scared of being hurt again so you will have to find ways to let her trust you. If she haven’t get over the previous bf , you can help her . Don’t worry if she rebounds or what because if you love her then respect her decision. But if you manage to win her over I think you will have a strong and long relationship with her just like me n my gf.
Originally posted by Lovelorn?:
That's wat the guy is afraid of. The prob wif the girl now is that she tells the guy she would take really long to get over the previous one as it was her first. But in fact, they didn't even start! And she is not helping herself by still hanging out with the previous guy so often...
Hi,
then I believe it is time for the guy to do something about it. As she has said, she will consider this guy, but she did not mention anything about accepting him. If he truly likes her, he will have to start seriously chasing after her, though not to the point where she finds him to be annoying.
Perhaps what is meant recovering EGO!