Originally posted by dalim1966sg:Get her laid and i assure you she will be feeling better.
hey you never know, this might actually work, sex is actually provides self confidence lol
Under current situation, it is a no no....
your comment will only harm TS
Originally posted by Jianye:
Under current situation, it is a no no....
your comment will only harm TS
Mr Milo = Jianye not into banging
Originally posted by Fantagf:
Mr Milo = Jianye not into banging
All right, if you insist.........that will come later....ok?
it wil come naturally..........get it?
Haizz....this is a continuation....
Latest update:
She (My classmate) has a new job working nite shift as she got retrenched recently.
But she suddenly decided to defer her course cos she felt she cannot cope.....i tried many methods to ask her what is the reason for it and she just won't say it....i feel so useless....my other team mates had counted on me to persuade her as i am more close to her....yet i failed....
Anyway, i believe they also got try persuading her......
This decision of hers was like a stab to my heart and it went really deep....my other team mates also felt sad about it...
Right from the start of the course i have already told my team mates to speak up if they got any problem and from there onwards, i thought everyone got the message...although i had to remind them from time to time....
We had faced and solved many problems together and managed to get everything done on time.....and yet....
I am mystified to her real reasons for deferring the course.....i feel so damn useless, sad, angry & frustrated.....
I am a failure....i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed......
Originally posted by Mr Milo:
Haizz....this is a continuation....
Latest update:
She (My classmate) has a new job working nite shift as she got retrenched recently.
But she suddenly decided to defer her course cos she felt she cannot cope.....i tried many methods to ask her what is the reason for it and she just won't say it....i feel so useless....my other team mates had counted on me to persuade her as i am more close to her....yet i failed....
Anyway, i believe they also got try persuading her......
This decision of hers was like a stab to my heart and it went really deep....my other team mates also felt sad about it...
Right from the start of the course i have already told my team mates to speak up if they got any problem and from there onwards, i thought everyone got the message...although i had to remind them from time to time....
We had faced and solved many problems together and managed to get everything done on time.....and yet....
I am mystified to her real reasons for deferring the course.....i feel so damn useless, sad, angry & frustrated.....
I am a failure....i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed......
Hi Mr Milo,
Please do not blame yourself, for you have tried your utmost best to help her. As much as you will like to help her, a lot also depends on whether she wants to help herself or not.
Cheers.
Originally posted by Mr Milo:
Haizz....this is a continuation....
Latest update:
She (My classmate) has a new job working nite shift as she got retrenched recently.
But she suddenly decided to defer her course cos she felt she cannot cope.....i tried many methods to ask her what is the reason for it and she just won't say it....i feel so useless....my other team mates had counted on me to persuade her as i am more close to her....yet i failed....
Anyway, i believe they also got try persuading her......
This decision of hers was like a stab to my heart and it went really deep....my other team mates also felt sad about it...
Right from the start of the course i have already told my team mates to speak up if they got any problem and from there onwards, i thought everyone got the message...although i had to remind them from time to time....
We had faced and solved many problems together and managed to get everything done on time.....and yet....
I am mystified to her real reasons for deferring the course.....i feel so damn useless, sad, angry & frustrated.....
I am a failure....i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed......
sighh~ when are u going to tell her how u feel *patpat*
what's wrong with you TS? do you like her? that's the question! if you don't then forget trying to help her. Would you treat all your guy friends and lay your emotions on the table for all your friends the same way for this girl?
Stand up and be man! Treat her like how your guy friends... and you will see her change.
Originally posted by Mr Milo:
I am a failure....i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed...i failed......
No way! Its not your problem....Guess as a friend you're totally not a failure/loser...Frankly you have been very supportive and always being there...thats good enough...you are not her keeper....its her decision whether she wants to continue or not....
Maybe as you have mentioned she just got retrenched...maybe she can't make it financially? Even if she is unable to cope emotionally...its not your fault...the point is you have tried....If you truely feel so, your friend had emotionally drained you and I guess you need a break....
One question...why do you feel like a stab in your heart? (if you just treating her like a normal friend?)
Originally posted by MPS_Angels:No way! Its not your problem....Guess as a friend you're totally not a failure/loser...Frankly you have been very supportive and always being there...thats good enough...you are not her keeper....its her decision whether she wants to continue or not....
Maybe as you have mentioned she just got retrenched...maybe she can't make it financially? Even if she is unable to cope emotionally...its not your fault...the point is you have tried....If you truely feel so, your friend had emotionally drained you and I guess you need a break....
One question...why do you feel like a stab in your heart? (if you just treating her like a normal friend?)
LOL!!!
Lol x 1 billion times!
Initially i helped her for the sake of the team and instead i grew to like her...damn it!
right from the start i kept reminding myself cannot have BGR within the team and yet i failed....haizz....(BGR within a team is unhealthy for the functioning of a team)
anyway, the reason of her deferrment is not BGR...so no worries there....
right now, i have to treat people around me better.....get a better job....
i have no intention of staying on after finishing this course of mine...it will be a waste.
By the way, i thank all of you for your advice.....
I will also like to recommend TrueHeart as a moderator...what you all think?
Originally posted by Mr Milo:LOL!!!
Lol x 1 billion times!
Initially i helped her for the sake of the team and instead i grew to like her...damn it!
right from the start i kept reminding myself cannot have BGR within the team and yet i failed....haizz....(BGR within a team is unhealthy for the functioning of a team)
anyway, the reason of her deferrment is not BGR...so no worries there....
right now, i have to treat people around me better.....get a better job....
i have no intention of staying on after finishing this course of mine...it will be a waste.
By the way, i thank all of you for your advice.....
I will also like to recommend TrueHeart as a moderator...what you all think?
sometimes we tell ourselves not to fall in love with someone, but love is not solid so cannot cage up
good luck to u bro in moving on
good idea to recommend trueheart, but who got the balls to send pm to Jason?