He said that since I like his touching, it showed and proved that I love him unknowing. He said if not I wont have "this body reaction". Is that true ? How do you know that you are in love? A silly question ? Sorry...
wad that guy told u is bullshit.
people wont have one night stands or go geylang if wad he said is true right?
think about it.
and u shudnt let just any guy touch u lo.
love isn't defined by touching or reaction to his touching..
love is a feeling that is developed over a period of time after knowing and understanding the other person well..
any IMMEDIATE feelings/love = INACCURATE feelings/love.
Like his touching MAY be> your body is reacting to his touching when you are verunable> NOT cos you love him...
*But again, you are feeling secure wid him thus you let him touch.
This "body reaction" is normal cos you are a person with normal needs..NOT because you love him.
Sometimes> Ppl get together just for the sake of having each other.
Sometimes> Ppl never leave/seperate just cos of ä¹ æƒ¯, they may think they cannot find someone as good as this.
Love i also do not know how to explain cos ...nvm....
You may feel happy, uneasy when he is not around, keep want to see him, thinking in your mind that "he is your's only"> other's cannot take away from you, jealousy etc..
I can only say> Not all person are good, they may use sweet words to cheat you, pls open you eye to use & use brain to think.
Gd Luck.
what ur experiencing is natural body response from external stimulation...doesnt mean anything...if thats love, then theres plenty of non-living objects to love around liao
love is selfish n.....dats it.
ps: u got low iQ bf, sad...
Love, Sex, Marriage are different concepts. They should not be viewed together.
Love - emotional need
Sex - Physical need
Marriage - A congregation of people to work together in securing a better life.
Love for another, going by the common "no-standard explantion" is not selfish. People are selfish because of their self-love.
Love at first sight usually = attraction not love.
The so-called true love is when all you want is the best for that person, for him/her to be happy. You do not need to possess him/her. You respect his/her decisions including not having you in his/her life etc.Something that is very rare. Most people are in "love" for self-interests or mutual dependence.
Originally posted by ahbeo:Love, Sex, Marriage are different concepts. They should not be viewed together.
Love - emotional need
Sex - Physical need
Marriage - A congregation of people to work together in securing a better life.
Love for another, going by the common "no-standard explantion" is not selfish. People are selfish because of their self-love.
Love at first sight usually = attraction not love.
The so-called true love is when all you want is the best for that person, for him/her to be happy. You do not need to possess him/her. You respect his/her decisions including not having you in his/her life etc.Something that is very rare. Most people are in "love" for self-interests or mutual dependence.
agreed.