Help me with my problem please
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Will someone please help me with my problem and please don't just laugh, here goes.
Last summer in my music class we got a student teacher and he was really nice and it turns out that he knew my mum because he was a student teacher where she worked. In September he got a job at my school and we would smile at each other in the hall, then today we had our music preperation day were we got to do music all day and he was helping out, then i asked him if he still talked to my mum he said that they had ended on a bad foot and i asked him why and eventually he told me that some kidz in his class had got him some presents and he had sent them text messages to thank them and he got into trouble with my mum for it. So i rang my mum and she told me that it was private info and he should'nt be telling me that and it turns out that the text messages he was sending were dirrty. But i really fancie him and i know he fancies me too, i want him to be my boyfriend but my mum would dissaprove, what should i do, i'm 16 -
huh?
guy and guy?
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i think that...................................................................................................................................
it won't turn out well ...
thats just a personal opinion...
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You are 16 only, it's better if you listen to your mom..
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Girl,
He's a TEACHER, you're a student. There is this matter of professionalism on his side... he is NOT to fancy any of his students.. no matter what. If he does, he should go take a cold shower. He should know better.
which brings up the next point...
What the heck is a teacher donig sending lewd messages to his students?!? Think about this point and from what you said, your viewpoint, your state of mind... you still came out with this, shows that he is incapable of controlling himself, he is incapable of conducting himself. If this little bit of self-control, he cannot achieve, what is he doing in the teaching profession?
He's lucky not to have his employment terminated with extreme prejudice.
This is my viewpoint. Do have a think about this...Originally posted by bimbybecca:Will someone please help me with my problem and please don't just laugh, here goes.
Last summer in my music class we got a student teacher and he was really nice and it turns out that he knew my mum because he was a student teacher where she worked. In September he got a job at my school and we would smile at each other in the hall, then today we had our music preperation day were we got to do music all day and he was helping out, then i asked him if he still talked to my mum he said that they had ended on a bad foot and i asked him why and eventually he told me that some kidz in his class had got him some presents and he had sent them text messages to thank them and he got into trouble with my mum for it. So i rang my mum and she told me that it was private info and he should'nt be telling me that and it turns out that the text messages he was sending were dirrty. But i really fancie him and i know he fancies me too, i want him to be my boyfriend but my mum would dissaprove, what should i do, i'm 16 -
Think u are still too immature to think abt such things , havin crushes here and there is part and parcel of life, let it pass, its just a passin phrase. I mean if the student teacher is a person with gd character, it shld be fine and can maybe work out. But if he is one tt sends dirty msgs to his students, may he receive his dues. He shld be passing on knowlegde to his students, not those nonsense.... ANiway,he may fancy all his students as well, just beware !
Teacher - Student love.... U watched the Vcd of "devil girl's request?" (direct translation fr the chinese title) the one with the first love song. -
totally agree, n in the future when u look back at this matter, u will find urself very stupid n foolish y u will like him..Originally posted by PachelbeL_20:Think u are still too immature to think abt such things , havin crushes here and there is part and parcel of life, let it pass, its just a passin phrase. I mean if the student teacher is a person with gd character, it shld be fine and can maybe work out. But if he is one tt sends dirty msgs to his students, may he receive his dues. He shld be passing on knowlegde to his students, not those nonsense.... ANiway,he may fancy all his students as well, just beware !
Teacher - Student love.... U watched the Vcd of "devil girl's request?" (direct translation fr the chinese title) the one with the first love song.
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U got watch da "Song dao Cai Cai Zi & Long Ze Xiu Ming" J Drama, "Muo Nu de Tiao Jian"? If U noe da story... U shld understand such r/s can end up in 2 waes... good or bad...Originally posted by bimbybecca:Will someone please help me with my problem and please don't just laugh, here goes.
Last summer in my music class we got a student teacher and he was really nice and it turns out that he knew my mum because he was a student teacher where she worked. In September he got a job at my school and we would smile at each other in the hall, then today we had our music preperation day were we got to do music all day and he was helping out, then i asked him if he still talked to my mum he said that they had ended on a bad foot and i asked him why and eventually he told me that some kidz in his class had got him some presents and he had sent them text messages to thank them and he got into trouble with my mum for it. So i rang my mum and she told me that it was private info and he should'nt be telling me that and it turns out that the text messages he was sending were dirrty. But i really fancie him and i know he fancies me too, i want him to be my boyfriend but my mum would dissaprove, what should i do, i'm 16
But in yr case, bad... very bad... Y? Coz Spore society condemn it...
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It isn't that society condemns it.
In a position such as this, where a student may not be mature enough, and a teacher is in a position of trust and has the confidence of the student, any moves towards "fancying" and things like that is a betrayal of the trust and confidence all students can and should place on teachers.
And this teacher has betrayed the trust on him and worse, used lewd language to send messages to his charges.
again, I'm very surprised that he's not been terminated with extreme prejudice! his actions are like some pervert predator on the internet or the silly chat lines trying to pick up young victimsOriginally posted by loneryu00:U got watch da "Song dao Cai Cai Zi & Long Ze Xiu Ming" J Drama, "Muo Nu de Tiao Jian"? If U noe da story... U shld understand such r/s can end up in 2 waes... good or bad...
But in yr case, bad... very bad... Y? Coz Spore society condemn it...
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U r rite abt "not society condemns it"... but U forgot... Dis is "Singapore"...... n U noe how Sporean society functions...Originally posted by the Bear:It isn't that society condemns it.
In a position such as this, where a student may not be mature enough, and a teacher is in a position of trust and has the confidence of the student, any moves towards "fancying" and things like that is a betrayal of the trust and confidence all students can and should place on teachers.
And this teacher has betrayed the trust on him and worse, used lewd language to send messages to his charges.
again, I'm very surprised that he's not been terminated with extreme prejudice! his actions are like some pervert predator on the internet or the silly chat lines trying to pick up young victims
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wah kao ......... please wake up your bloody idea man
he's only interested in your body, not you. Once he's done with you, he's gonna move on to the next victim ...
I think the reason why you like him is because of the maturing stage. all teens go through that its normal... -
Originally posted by bimbybecca:Will someone please help me with my problem and please don't just laugh, here goes.
Last summer in my music class we got a student teacher and he was really nice and it turns out that he knew my mum because he was a student teacher where she worked. In September he got a job at my school and we would smile at each other in the hall, then today we had our music preperation day were we got to do music all day and he was helping out, then i asked him if he still talked to my mum he said that they had ended on a bad foot and i asked him why and eventually he told me that some kidz in his class had got him some presents and he had sent them text messages to thank them and he got into trouble with my mum for it. So i rang my mum and she told me that it was private info and he should'nt be telling me that and it turns out that the text messages he was sending were dirrty. But i really fancie him and i know he fancies me too, i want him to be my boyfriend but my mum would dissaprove, what should i do, i'm 16
You are only 16...study hard, girl..What is love and what is crush? You should know lor..Is it just admiration or fantasy? Up to you to decide..I think that you mum will have some good advices for you..Not all men can be trusted...All the best to you![color=violet][/color] -
True... not ALL men can be trusted... sometimes I can't even trust myself! O_o'''Originally posted by browniebaobao: You are only 16...study hard, girl..What is love and what is crush? You should know lor..Is it just admiration or fantasy? Up to you to decide..I think that you mum will have some good advices for you..Not all men can be trusted...All the best to you![color=violet][/color]
Best U ask those older than U, or those had r/s experience & analyse on it... then decide...