I never seem to achieve anything
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I have never been able to achieve anything in life regarding all the things that are highly seeked after. I wasn't born with a silver spoon, wasn't made into a leader, wasn't rewarded for any hardwork, hadn't achieve anything.
All the hardwork i put in for everything that I want didn't turn out right.
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You lived this long to post on sgforum.
I think you achieved enough.
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i think i know you. think only la.
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At least, uh, you know what you don't know, you know what you can't do.
There's no point comparing oneself to others anyway.
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Originally posted by WarHero:
I have never been able to achieve anything in life regarding all the things that are highly seeked after. I wasn't born with a silver spoon, wasn't made into a leader, wasn't rewarded for any hardwork, hadn't achieve anything.
All the hardwork i put in for everything that I want didn't turn out right.
Am i just a pure failure in life?Only babies are born and nobody is born a failure, it is only the things that happen in our life, the choices that we make that leads us to think that we are a failure.
Who you are trying to satisfy or please truely depend on who much you put in significance of your work. Many times we are trying to gain acceptence from the people closest to us, the sign of approval and trust..
We tend to put our significance on the things we have done, the things we own, the approval from the people, and how people think of us. But little did we realize that all we need to do to put ourselves out of this "failure" mindset is to approve of ourselves and acccepting who you are.
You are not the handsome hunk at the Mr. World contest
You are not Bill gates the multimillionare
You are not the sibling that seem to achieve more then you
You are not the person that your parent hoped
But in fact You are who you are!
maybe it is time to rethink of who to put your significance in.
Regards,
Blinkmorph
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If life was a given, everyone would be the same. Sometimes we just need give a little more and keep doing so before we expect to see results.
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i thought you are a warhero.
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Originally posted by WarHero:
I have never been able to achieve anything in life regarding all the things that are highly seeked after. I wasn't born with a silver spoon, wasn't made into a leader, wasn't rewarded for any hardwork, hadn't achieve anything.
All the hardwork i put in for everything that I want didn't turn out right.
Am i just a pure failure in life?The answer's pretty simple.
Nobody put a silver spoon in your mouth.
Nobody made you leader.
Nobody rewarded you.
When are you going to stop waiting for people to do things for you?
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yeh maybe all it takes is a change of mindset.
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Clone alert. I think he is hardshot
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come on war hero...dont be dissappointed...
the world is never fare with anyone mate...just chill...make your effort and you will be rewarded...and if you dont just wait for the right time and keep up with your hard work...and no one is born with a silver spoon...
just be positive...;-)
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There isnt any guarantee.. you will achieve what u want even u put in your best effort. But at least u try to put effort, many people like me.. didnt put effort but want to achieve something.. what a wishfuli thinking i have
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Originally posted by WarHero:
I have never been able to achieve anything in life regarding all the things that are highly seeked after. I wasn't born with a silver spoon, wasn't made into a leader, wasn't rewarded for any hardwork, hadn't achieve anything.
All the hardwork i put in for everything that I want didn't turn out right.
Am i just a pure failure in life?There is no mountain too high that you cannot climb, there is no ocean too deep that you cannot dive. There is nothing in this world you cant achieve, if effort is put into it. You are the one who determine your success; you are the one who decide the failure. Ask yourself how much effort you have put in compare to others?
Bill gates is rich, because he serve many. And read how much time he spend on IT compare to others?
How much physical training, climbers have put in before the attempt to climb Mount Everest? How much physical training, runner have put in before he can complete his marathon? Tremendous effort people have put in before they succeed. And yet you have only seen the success and not the effort.
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Hi, Hardshot. Still not quitting, ain't you ?
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Try to find where your talent lies and work towards the fields. I am sure you can achieve something in no time.
Your talent may be singing, dancing, drawing, cooking .... even studying is a talent.
Good luck. And may the force be with you.
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How about people who keep saying they are fat when in actual fact they are very skinny?
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Originally posted by Mr Milo:
How about people who keep saying they are fat when in actual fact they are very skinny?
that is a mental sickness already.
you talking about me?
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I think that you might not be inherently smart enough.
Don't flame me.
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No....
i am talking about my classmate
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Originally posted by Lokey:
that is a mental sickness already.
Really? People say they are fat when they are skinny, and that is a "mental sickness"?
You wanna try that answer again, booster?
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Originally posted by Gedanken:
Really? People say they are fat when they are skinny, and that is a "mental sickness"?
You wanna try that answer again, booster?
If you think it is wrong just correct me, why do you even bother to give a indirect post? Weird Guy
I was thinking, people who KEPT thinking that they are fat but in fact they are not and is already skinny. Might be leading to or suffering from Eating disorder, Anorexia Nervosa. By starving themselves, excessive exercise, eating diet pills, they try to control their weight, in fear of gaining weight.
<totally out of thread >
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Originally posted by Lokey:
If you think it is wrong just correct me, why do you even bother to give a indirect post?
It's not an indirect post at all. If you missed the VERY direct point that you need to rethink that bullshit conclusion, you need to check what's stopping your lift from going to the top floor, junior.
Originally posted by Lokey:I was thinking, people who KEPT thinking that they are fat but in fact they are not and is already skinny. Might be leading to or suffering from Eating disorder, Anorexia Nervosa. By starving themselves, excessive exercise, eating diet pills, they try to control their weight, in fear of gaining weight.Did Milo mention starving?
Did Milo mention excessive exercise?
Did Milo mention diet pills?
Did Milo mention weight control?
Did Milo mention fear of gaining weight?
Where the did all that come from, Mr I-expect-you-to-believe-my-far-fetched-tall-tale-of-being-a-PhD-student? Are you pulling your thesis together out of this air like you've just done above? Die liao lah.
Your first sentence is already a bald lie. You weren't thinking at all - as you've done many a time before, you were just spewing the first bit of crap that occurred to you and hoping that nobody would notice what crap it really was.
Originally posted by Lokey:<totally out of thread >Well, ain't that just the blessed truth, Einstein.
TS, this character above is a perfect negative demonstration if you're thinking of achieving things. He's so busy fantasising what he would be if he had the capability that he's failed to appreciate what a complete waste of skin he really is.
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Nah you aren't a loser. Just know that everyone, whether rich or poor had their own set of problems. I think it's normal to feel disappointed as long as you don't let it affect your future work.
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Originally posted by ƒlame:
Hi, Hardshot. Still not quitting, ain't you ?
Hardshot was on STOMP and revealed that he was a 28 year old. That was before he created yet another clone pretending to be a smart foreign student who..well released himself on his landlady's daughter's undergarments. -
Originally posted by Anthiadon:
Hardshot was on STOMP and revealed that he was a 28 year old. That was before he created yet another clone pretending to be a smart foreign student who..well released himself on his landlady's daughter's undergarments.The clone's words can never be trusted regardless what he says. There is 0 truths in his words and its highly unlikely there ever will be.
Lets not forget the clone beg me on msn to delete away all our past chat logs which obviously are not anything that shows him in any good light.