LOves.....
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How do u pple think abt pple with 2 or more loves? I mean loving 2 persons at the same time? It doesn't mean tt he or she is cheatin on his/her partners, he/she realli shows true love to both of them, just tt he/she happens to love 2 persons at the same time. Anything wrong with tt? can love be shared ?
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Erm. I think there's something wrong and something not wrong.
It's not impossible to love two person at on time. The problem I think lies in the person who has two loves.
Can a lover be shared????
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Maybe mankind is too selfish.... wans a love to himself only... wat if a person has really 2 loves and loves both of them with all his/her heart?
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Originally posted by PachelbeL_20:Maybe mankind is too selfish.... wans a love to himself only... wat if a person has really 2 loves and loves both of them with all his/her heart? Then I think the problem the person need to solve is the problem the other two are facing: Can I share this person with another person?
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I cannot tolerate this lor..can only love one wholeheartedly..well, sometimes things are very unpredictable..Love cannot be shared. I ever read one Zhang Xiao Xian's novel..she wrote about loving two persons at the same time too..That made me believe that it is possible to love two persons at the same time..However, it is not fair lah..unless 3 of you are comfortable in this kind of situation...Originally posted by PachelbeL_20:How do u pple think abt pple with 2 or more loves? I mean loving 2 persons at the same time? It doesn't mean tt he or she is cheatin on his/her partners, he/she realli shows true love to both of them, just tt he/she happens to love 2 persons at the same time. Anything wrong with tt? can love be shared ? -
I cannot tolerate this lor..can only love one wholeheartedly..well, sometimes things are very unpredictable..Love cannot be shared. I ever read one Zhang Xiao Xian's novel..she wrote about loving two persons at the same time too..That made me believe that it is possible to love two persons at the same time..However, it is not fair lah..unless 3 of you are comfortable in this kind of situation...Originally posted by PachelbeL_20:How do u pple think abt pple with 2 or more loves? I mean loving 2 persons at the same time? It doesn't mean tt he or she is cheatin on his/her partners, he/she realli shows true love to both of them, just tt he/she happens to love 2 persons at the same time. Anything wrong with tt? can love be shared ? -
i dun think so.. how can one person equally love 2 at the same time.. in a relationship.. one should love another wholeheartedly.. i think.. should think.. which oneu really love.. there must be one.. that wad i think lor.. i mean.. its only fair to love the other who love u whoheartedly.. than loving two at the same time.. coz.. at that moment.. u will be.. sorry to both.. better chose 1 n be sorry to another n be happy.. than having worries.. n be sorry to both rite..
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why this is not possible?? when people saying that you cannot love 2 person at the same time.. what about your parents?? you can only choose 1 to love? and parents can only choose 1 of his children to love?? when your wife gave birth to your child.. then you will lose the love for your wife and start loving your new born baby?
people might say this is different.. but isn't it the same? wanting to protect your love ones.. wanting to be with your love ones.. making your love ones happy.. comforting your love ones when they are sad? so i say it's just the same..
this is my thinking.. you will have many times in your life where you love more than 1 person.. it's just that how much you offer for each individual one.. -
This is being unfaithful, selfish and utterly disgusting. In the Bf/Gf relationship sense. If it were to be siblings love than its perfectly alright.Originally posted by PachelbeL_20:How do u pple think abt pple with 2 or more loves? I mean loving 2 persons at the same time? It doesn't mean tt he or she is cheatin on his/her partners, he/she realli shows true love to both of them, just tt he/she happens to love 2 persons at the same time. Anything wrong with tt? can love be shared ? -
i agree.. but at times you can't help to fall in love with someone.. it's just that how you handle the relationship with you gf/bf when this happens.. i guess unfaithful and selfish is used when the person wants to have more gf/bf when he/she is already in a relationship..Originally posted by Flight Cadet Officer:This is being unfaithful, selfish and utterly disgusting. In the Bf/Gf relationship sense. If it were to be siblings love than its perfectly alright. -
Originally posted by PachelbeL_20:How do u pple think abt pple with 2 or more loves? I mean loving 2 persons at the same time? It doesn't mean tt he or she is cheatin on his/her partners, he/she realli shows true love to both of them, just tt he/she happens to love 2 persons at the same time. Anything wrong with tt? can love be shared ?
Usually this sort of feelings happen in the movies,
but as time grows longer, u may find out who u really love and like!
Anyone agreed? 
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sucks siaOriginally posted by PachelbeL_20:How do u pple think abt pple with 2 or more loves? I mean loving 2 persons at the same time? It doesn't mean tt he or she is cheatin on his/her partners, he/she realli shows true love to both of them, just tt he/she happens to love 2 persons at the same time. Anything wrong with tt? can love be shared ? -
Possible & if U wanna be da "Wei Xiao Bao" in da "Duke of Mount Deer" novel... but polygamy (if it reached to dat lvl...) is not allowed in dis society......Originally posted by PachelbeL_20:How do u pple think abt pple with 2 or more loves? I mean loving 2 persons at the same time? It doesn't mean tt he or she is cheatin on his/her partners, he/she realli shows true love to both of them, just tt he/she happens to love 2 persons at the same time. Anything wrong with tt? can love be shared ?
But as for dis case abt da 3 ppl... in da end all suffers if it carries on...
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Thanks for all of ya valuable comments, for me , i dun think i would ever wan to share a lover with anione else, think tt feeling sucks....
I also hope tt i would never come to a situation where i realli need to chose btw 2 persons tt i both love truly.... have to aviod such a situation... -
promiscuity is perfectly alrite in mammals.just enjoy urself^^
split them into 246,135, suday off day till u can find out who u really love or love more.
just enjoy okie? CHEERS -
What if.
they both are willingly to share
what would the people arnd think