i'm feeling super insecure with life. there are times when i got hard to make a decision. i feel that everything i do is a waste of time and i'm wasting lots of time. what should i do? should i continue to work hard for my cca or just random attend some sessions and fuck care about being best boy or anything?
man, i'm pissed with my finess, i'm weak and get pwned within few pumpings. shit it what should i do?
you lack self confidence.
warhero?? Why is a hero whining here? lol.
no matter what u do, aim to be the best but dont be disheartened if u get beaten to the top. at least u know u tried your best at being the best. if u feel weak, keep training. wanna get stronger, train harder. success doesnt come easy.
Clone Clone Clone, u are never sick of coming here to lie to people right?
Half a year and your lies don't change at all.
What happened to the 28 yr old pervert u admit to being on Stomp Online? Come back to SGF and lie that you are a 14 yr old kid again ah?
i really have no more energy to quarrel on.i'm tired and worn out. i don't know what's my next move.
Originally posted by WarHero:i really have no more energy to quarrel on.i'm tired and worn out. i don't know what's my next move.
If u tired, why still so much energy to come here and spam when u already got all the help u need 6 months ago but u DO NOT want to listen...
it's different la, right now it's all about competitive.
every time i feel like quitting something or maybe a competition due to harsh training, but i every time i can't. people will laugh at me, i will feel inferior when they manage to win while i quitted long time ago. girls won't like me, i dont know what should i do anymore.
Originally posted by WarHero:it's different la, right now it's all about competitive.
every time i feel like quitting something or maybe a competition due to harsh training, but i every time i can't. people will laugh at me, i will feel inferior when they manage to win while i quitted long time ago. girls won't like me, i dont know what should i do anymore.
If u are a quitter, obviously noone will like u. Don't say girls, even the boys also will not like u if u keep being a quitter.
If u continue to quit, u will never succeed and thus unlikely to ever feel anything else but inferior.
go seek wee su min for advice ![]()
then but it's time wasting. i know i'm inferior but i dont want to feel like this. i want to feel as if i'm like the best, but others doesnt need to go for competitions and yet he is better than me. i really dont understand why.
Originally posted by WarHero:then but it's time wasting. i know i'm inferior but i dont want to feel like this. i want to feel as if i'm like the best, but others doesnt need to go for competitions and yet he is better than me. i really dont understand why.
Somehow i also feel i'm wasting my time here....
Its just in ur mindset. If you do nothing to improve and do things that will make u feel less inferior, u will always feel this way.
Everyone have different personality etc so some are easier to be contended than others and will feel happy easier than others.
i dont get what you mean really. it's like i want to work hard for something but i'm always thinking that others didnt work hard and got better than me. sometimes i even think hardwork =/= success. at times i also think all the training for the competition is useless and always wanted to quit.
Originally posted by WarHero:i dont get what you mean really. it's like i want to work hard for something but i'm always thinking that others didnt work hard and got better than me. sometimes i even think hardwork =/= success. at times i also think all the training for the competition is useless and always wanted to quit.
Some people have talent so less hardwork is required but with talent and no hardwork, there is a limit to how far a person can go. Someone who constantly works hard have a higher chance of going further if he preservere.
If u always think of quitting just because people are better, you will never win them. Only the people who use such people to motivate them to work even harder will have a chance to succeed just like the old rabbit n turtle race story.
but then i keep thinking it's a waste of time for the cca in the end hardwork = 2cca points only.
but slack = 1point still..
Originally posted by WarHero:but then i keep thinking it's a waste of time for the cca in the end hardwork = 2cca points only.
but slack = 1point still..
If thats ur mindset and you only look at such short term and minor stuff then i have nothing else to say.
I knew i was wasting my time...
Originally posted by WarHero:but then i keep thinking it's a waste of time for the cca in the end hardwork = 2cca points only.
but slack = 1point still..
Looks like it is due to fucked up education system at work again.![]()
i'm really pissed with my own life, i got no achievements and i really dont want to waste time going for cca. what should i do?
TS!
Get a calendar and pieces of paper
write down what you want
write down what you need to do
spread them over the weeks
Fitness - if you cannot perform push-ups, then carry weights.
Ftiness is result of consistent effort and not immediate.
As for CCA, no one here can advise you what to do as you yourself know what is your interest.
Just take the effort to check out the rest of the CCA and decide what CCA you want to do.
As for success, you have to decide what is your measurement for success.
The common yardstick for success is one dimensional and you have to filter out meaningless comparison that served no purpose in your life.
As for comparison with other, it is never ending when you compare with other people as there will always be people that are better than you in some area.
Just learn from them how they achieve that success.
If you dun take responsibility of your life and your decision, then you will not get what you want.
Originally posted by angel3070:Looks like it is due to fucked up education system at work again.
You are just another fucked up person.
I have been at forum for a while and this same guy just keep posting the same thing, over and over again. why dont you just look back into the history and PRACTICE the advise given to you.
i dont know should i continue going for cca's competition or just slack and be a regular member...
deep inside ts mind... "oh feed me...ah ah yes, feed me i love it...oh feed me ah *moan* im yr king troll feed me..."
Bro, go to other forums man. This is not the right forum for you.
SERIOUSLY JUST FUCK OFF FROM THIS FORUM WARHERO. YOU ARE SO FUCKING IRRITATING.