Just ended off a 4 years to be relationship... Just hope to find someway to feel better or so call "liao san" Everything was so disheartening and turn out so bad.. Thanks in advance first guys...
listen to love songs make u feel worse oni
You've got to get up every morning with a smile in your face, and show the world all the love in your heart, then people gonna treat you better, you gonna find, yes you will that you're beautiful as you feel.
Depending on your faith and belief:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_FElj9UP5tU&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iT88jBAoVIM
No, I'm just kidding ![]()
Try this..
Go to ur local club , hit the booze.. dance to the rythm and the beats.. follow another guy home. LOL!
kidding kidding..
xD
Unless u wanna listen to those feminist man hating songs la.
Cry Me a River by Michael Buble
Originally posted by rue:Just ended off a 4 years to be relationship... Just hope to find someway to feel better or so call "liao san" Everything was so disheartening and turn out so bad.. Thanks in advance first guys...
Move or relocate to another country to recover ... it marks the beginning of a new journey to recovery
Travelling works very well for emotional recovery
But these are long-term recovery, if you need short-term and quick recovery ... they don't usually last for very long before you sink into depression again.
Originally posted by rue:Just ended off a 4 years to be relationship... Just hope to find someway to feel better or so call "liao san" Everything was so disheartening and turn out so bad.. Thanks in advance first guys...
Hi rue,
As the saying goes, every ending is a new beginning. Thus, you can look forward to life ahead of you, and who knows? The one destined to be your other half may just pop out of the next corner you take on the streets.
For the time being, try to enjoy yourself by doing your favourite activities, be it fishing, playing games or watching movies. Please do not force yourself to "enjoy" though, if you feel that they are not helping out.
Alternatively, you can also go out with your friends, and have them cheer you up as well. Having company usually do help to make one feel better in such situations, do not try to keep everything to yourself.
Cheers.
Originally posted by TrueHeart:Hi rue,
As the saying goes, every ending is a new beginning. Thus, you can look forward to life ahead of you, and who knows? The one destined to be your other half may just pop out of the next corner you take on the streets.
For the time being, try to enjoy yourself by doing your favourite activities, be it fishing, playing games or watching movies. Please do not force yourself to "enjoy" though, if you feel that they are not helping out.
Alternatively, you can also go out with your friends, and have them cheer you up as well. Having company usually do help to make one feel better in such situations, do not try to keep everything to yourself.
Cheers.
Thanks everyone who tried to help =) appreciate it .
True heart, thanks for the advice too, probably will try to sink myself in sch or work and hobby then. I see no way how things could return to the past too no matter wat i try too.
daughtry - over you
is the best song.......
Thanks to all who replied.. Really appreciate it.. seems like i will survive is the most popular and powerful song so far.. no regret is also a nice song
I can empathise with your pain, for who amongst us have not suffered from crushing disappointments before? None. It's part and parcel of life, for we all have hopes and expectations, sometimes unrealistically so, thus the fall when our plans go apart...
There is no way to remove the pain, no words, no music. No one else can remove it, for it will lies in our mind forever. But it is within our will power alone to put it aside, and concentrate on more worthwhile pursuits such as career or making new friends.
The first step is to accept the fall, come to terms with it, and know that you have no immortal power to change events that you cannot control. But within your control is your will to continue on, if not for your sake and your future, at least for those who love and care about you, such as your family, relatives and friends.
You have already faced disappointments, and know the pain, so spare them of such for they do have hopes for you, simple ones only, which is your well being.
It's not the end of the world, at least not yet, for a bright journey lies ahead, if only you will open up your eyes. The majestic sun still rises, birds still sing, laughing children still play, lives still go on and had not stop. So too must you not stop, or dwell on the past...
Good Luck.![]()
time is the antidote to the heart you suffered. let time and tide heal the wounds.
listen to hate everything about u by ugly kid joe.
heal the world.
Wake Up by Suicide Silence
No Time To Bleed by Suicide Silence
;) enjoy!!