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u will soon get over it
and then get used to it
normal lah, everyone else oso been thru
all part of growing up!
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occupy urself with something
make new friends, take up a new hobby
or log in more often to sgf
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Originally posted by dracas:Ya I know, but the feeling just feels stinging. I just cant forget it, its like a bruise to the ego.
Then you just want to win a prize, but failed. Try another contest.
If you loved the girl, you won't give up.
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the last thing u wanna do is irritate the ger.......
Originally posted by FireIce:but cannot æ»ç¼ 烂打
the last thing u wanna do is irritate the ger.......
You will irritate her...
But like fishing, you pull, release, pull, release.
She might like the attention, it you go about it carefully.
Give up, its game over.
nice tactic
u may end up with the fish
or a plastic bag of trash
Its very common to feel rejected and have your ego hurt. Just open your eyes wide and choose the right girl so your chances of getting rejected will be low and your ego will not get hurt easily. Good luck.=)
Learn from this lesson and move on. Figure out why she didn't accept you in the first place. No chemistry to begin with? You did something wrong? Or you simply do not fit the bill in her eyes? Nevertheless, reflect on all this and be a better man. And next time, find someone who likes you for you are. From this rejection, it is shown that at least she is not leading you on. And you should be thankful for that.
the thing is to know when to draw the line. When you try to get a girl you like, make sure you put in enough effort to show your sincerity but not too much to scare her off or to the extent that you lose your dignity as a man :)
it is normal to be rejected. take your time for your true love to appear :)
I doubt you will get over it that soon, so lesson should be, dont fall in love until the time is right.
Originally posted by dracas:After rejection by your potential girlfriend, how do you feel? Did you ever feel like this rejection is only temporarily and therefore you go and try after some time again? I heard this happens but rarely successfully. Sometimes, after a rejection I felt as though my whole man's ego has been crushed and wished I could hide somewhere, man seriously how do I change this!?
Hi dracas,
You are linking the success of being accepted or rejected by a girl too much to your own ego. It is normal for one to feel sadness and the need to be alone when he or she is rejected, but to go to the extent of thinking that you are not manly enough and you should just hide somewhere just because you are rejected reflects an unhealthy mindset.
The foremost thing which you can do is to change your mentality, and gradually accept that being rejected is a very common thing. You must understand that being accepted does not make you the king of the world, and being rejected does not make you a worm either.
Cheers.