Should ii???
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I'm thinking of confronting my friend, like end the friendship.
First is, we no longer have things in interest.
Second, she stole my things.
Third. she only talks but never listens .
Fourth, she's always brag in a way she hates what people say about her
Fith, We're constantly putting each other down. we obviously hate each other. Frenermies they say.
Six, she's gettin fuckin bossy
isn't all these enough??
the reason why i have doubt is because
Sometimes shes nice. ( i just realise this is the only reason so wtf) and we are in a clique, so kind of difficult to avoid.
i can't help but be nice to her. but when i think of how annoying and how tired of her i am.I feel so dreadful everytime we're tgt. i get nightmares cause i'm being two face.
Advice please! anyway, she calls me her bestfriend, i dont think so
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Originally posted by mashpotato:
I'm thinking of confronting my friend, like end the friendship.
First is, we no longer have things in interest.
Second, she stole my things.
Third. she only talks but never listens .
Fourth, she's always brag in a way she hates what people say about her
Fith, We're constantly putting each other down. we obviously hate each other. Frenermies they say.
Six, she's gettin fuckin bossy
isn't all these enough??
the reason why i have doubt is because
Sometimes shes nice. ( i just realise this is the only reason so wtf) and we are in a clique, so kind of difficult to avoid.
i can't help but be nice to her. but when i think of how annoying and how tired of her i am.I feel so dreadful everytime we're tgt. i get nightmares cause i'm being two face.
Advice please! anyway, she calls me her bestfriend, i dont think so
What is it you wish to accomplish by confronting her ? Drama for everyone to see ? Simply distance yourself from her from now on.
A friend is just a friend, and frienship is forged with goodwill, trust and respect. Without these components, it is not a "friendship" anymore, rather mere "accquaintance"
Obviously she is not a "nice" person. When she is around, just be wary of her.
Her pretending to be "nice", is just her method to "fit in" with the group. Else , she'd be an outcast.
There's really no need for you to "expose" her evil doings to the world, because by doing so reflects badly on yourself. Let others see for themself her true colours, they have their own eyes to see and own brains to think.
When you are out on group gatherings, you just need to be "civil", you don't need to go out of your way to please her.
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Originally posted by mashpotato:
I'm thinking of confronting my friend, like end the friendship.
First is, we no longer have things in interest.
Second, she stole my things.
Third. she only talks but never listens .
Fourth, she's always brag in a way she hates what people say about her
Fith, We're constantly putting each other down. we obviously hate each other. Frenermies they say.
Six, she's gettin fuckin bossy
isn't all these enough??
the reason why i have doubt is because
Sometimes shes nice. ( i just realise this is the only reason so wtf) and we are in a clique, so kind of difficult to avoid.
i can't help but be nice to her. but when i think of how annoying and how tired of her i am.I feel so dreadful everytime we're tgt. i get nightmares cause i'm being two face.
Advice please! anyway, she calls me her bestfriend, i dont think so
Hi mashpotato,
Just to add on to what I have posted here:
http://politics.sgforums.com/forums/3470/topics/383421?page=1
The reason why she thinks of you as her best friend might be because you have been putting up with everything which she does and says, and that you are nice to her despite all the bickering and putting down.
As I have suggested, you really need to have a talk with her and let her understand that there is a line which friends shouldn't cross, and that they shouldn't just simply take material-advantage of each other.
Cheers.
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Originally posted by mashpotato:
I'm thinking of confronting my friend, like end the friendship.
First is, we no longer have things in interest.
Second, she stole my things.
Third. she only talks but never listens .
Fourth, she's always brag in a way she hates what people say about her
Fith, We're constantly putting each other down. we obviously hate each other. Frenermies they say.
Six, she's gettin fuckin bossy
isn't all these enough??
the reason why i have doubt is because
Sometimes shes nice. ( i just realise this is the only reason so wtf) and we are in a clique, so kind of difficult to avoid.
i can't help but be nice to her. but when i think of how annoying and how tired of her i am.I feel so dreadful everytime we're tgt. i get nightmares cause i'm being two face.
Advice please! anyway, she calls me her bestfriend, i dont think so
Define friendship in your own terms. What is it to you? Is it just being nice and being called best friend? These are just words, but actions proved it all. Obviously, in my opinion, she's crossed the invisible line of trust and understanding required in a stable friendship. She rattled your cage, not you. If you're getting nightmare, it's time to pull the plug being a two-faced. Ultimately, it's up to you to make the right decision.
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Originally posted by TrueHeart: Hi mashpotato,
Just to add on to what I have posted here:
http://politics.sgforums.com/forums/3470/topics/383421?page=1
The reason why she thinks of you as her best friend might be because you have been putting up with everything which she does and says, and that you are nice to her despite all the bickering and putting down.
As I have suggested, you really need to have a talk with her and let her understand that there is a line which friends shouldn't cross, and that they shouldn't just simply take material-advantage of each other.
Cheers.
Nice avatar.
Looks like anime to me. -
Sleep with her than dump her
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Only friends what. What's there to break up.
Just remain as friends. And please don't ever get into a bf/gf relationship with her, unless you like a life of misery.
She don't steal your things, lah she just takes them and forget. I also have women friends who says I am their good friend, takes or borrow my books, cds, fans, ladder, and what not, and never bother to return them. Today they are still my friends, and friends only.
Girls like this are an anomaly, they are said to be mean but kind. And its true. No reason why you cannot remain as friends. Also no reason why they cannot be good friends.