Relationship Betrayal
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I am a victim of BGR betrayal. This is what happened:
I liked a girl since I was in Secondary 2 (Now going Secondary 4). She is someone who will fall in love easily as long as her admirer treated her well. {However, no matter how well I treated her, she doesn't like me! =( } This happened just recently and she became someone who I hated the most. I had another best friend, name her as Girl B, who had secretly admiring a boy, who was my best friend, in my class for about a year. This girl, let me name her as Girl A, tried to help Girl B to make them from acquaintance to become couple. But then instead Girl A fell in love with my best friend. At first I was not angry as I thought that it was a joke or something to disturb Girl B. But it was true. Plus Girl A is the best friend of Girl B. I talked to Girl A about it, using some kind of coarse language [I know my mistake...><] and her reply was to discuss with my best friend. Girl B wanted to just let the matter rest but I couldn't see her suffer just like that as I am her best friend too. I was exasperated and told Girl A that I hated her. How can this kind of thing be done? It is very, what I normally call as, 'Bas*ard'. Hmmm...should I forget about the matter and forgive them??? Can someone tell me an answer? I blocked them in MSN too.
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Originally posted by Drakonaut:
I am a victim of BGR betrayal. This is what happened:
I liked a girl since I was in Secondary 2 (Now going Secondary 4). She is someone who will fall in love easily as long as her admirer treated her well. {However, no matter how well I treated her, she doesn't like me! =( } This happened just recently and she became someone who I hated the most. I had another best friend, name her as Girl B, who had secretly admiring a boy, who was my best friend, in my class for about a year. This girl, let me name her as Girl A, tried to help Girl B to make them from acquaintance to become couple. But then instead Girl A fell in love with my best friend. At first I was not angry as I thought that it was a joke or something to disturb Girl B. But it was true. Plus Girl A is the best friend of Girl B. I talked to Girl A about it, using some kind of coarse language [I know my mistake...><] and her reply was to discuss with my best friend. Girl B wanted to just let the matter rest but I couldn't see her suffer just like that as I am her best friend too. I was exasperated and told Girl A that I hated her. How can this kind of thing be done? It is very, what I normally call as, 'Bas*ard'. Hmmm...should I forget about the matter and forgive them??? Can someone tell me an answer? I blocked them in MSN too.
You hate A ish because she choose someone else over you.
You should feel berri lucky A is not with you. This kind of flaky gal , is trouble.
Girl B also unlucky lah.. she trusted the wrong friend. But since B wants to move on, give her the support lor. I'm sure there's better guys out there worth her love.
No need to show your hostility on FB or MSN lah.. when you do that.. it just makes you a petty person ...simply wish them LASTING happiness, they truly deserve each other.
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Okay, thank you JoJo =) I think I know what to do liao!
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Originally posted by Drakonaut:
She is someone who will fall in love easily as long as her admirer treated her well. {However, no matter how well I treated her, she doesn't like me! =( }
??? So which statement is correct?
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Originally posted by Chyeo1979:
??? So which statement is correct?
U see TS sentence all full of holes >.>None of the first post has anything to do with TS being betrayed... TS is simply outside the triangle (Girl A, Girl B, TS's Best Friend)...
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It sucks ain't it? now u know how it feels
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Betrayed ? Or just tulan no reciprocity
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Actually, my best friend, or almost the whole school, knew I liked the girl long ago...and he was the one who spread it to a lot of people...
By the way, what I mean was that any boys who treated her well, she will fall in love with them. BUT only except me...she doesn't feel anything for me...
LOL! Acid...just want someone to give me advice...so anyone can criticise...somemore I already regretted waiting for her for 2 years...
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Originally posted by Drakonaut:
Actually, my best friend, or almost the whole school, knew I liked the girl long ago...and he was the one who spread it to a lot of people...
By the way, what I mean was that any boys who treated her well, she will fall in love with them. BUT only except me...she doesn't feel anything for me...
LOL! Acid...just want someone to give me advice...so anyone can criticise...somemore I already regretted waiting for her for 2 years...
But she's only ur friend... ur best friend also ur friend... it doesnt mean that ppl know u like the ger means they cannot tackle her...A relationship needs 2 way traffic, Ur best friend like the ger, the ger like ur best friend... U like the ger but she no like u...
Edited: I forgot to list a solution, Solution is to forget abt it and move on. Ultimately, U'll have to understand it's only urself making urself feel worse...
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Well, acid, I'm moving on...and now it seems to me that two of them became acquaintance to me...
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Betrayals during war are childlike compared with our betrayals during peace. New lovers are nervous and tender, but smash everything. For the heart is an organ of fire. For the heart is an organ of fire— I love that. I believe that. -- The English Patient
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Hey deepak.c, the quote seems funny but it is quite true btw...=DDD
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Go get a copy of "The English Patient" and you will understand.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuP0ZeatjE8
The piano music (at the start and Hana playing before the Sikh shoot his pistol) in the background is very nice, think it's Bach's Goldberg Variations.
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Originally posted by Drakonaut:
I am a victim of BGR betrayal. This is what happened:
I liked a girl since I was in Secondary 2 (Now going Secondary 4). She is someone who will fall in love easily as long as her admirer treated her well. {However, no matter how well I treated her, she doesn't like me! =( } This happened just recently and she became someone who I hated the most. I had another best friend, name her as Girl B, who had secretly admiring a boy, who was my best friend, in my class for about a year. This girl, let me name her as Girl A, tried to help Girl B to make them from acquaintance to become couple. But then instead Girl A fell in love with my best friend. At first I was not angry as I thought that it was a joke or something to disturb Girl B. But it was true. Plus Girl A is the best friend of Girl B. I talked to Girl A about it, using some kind of coarse language [I know my mistake...><] and her reply was to discuss with my best friend. Girl B wanted to just let the matter rest but I couldn't see her suffer just like that as I am her best friend too. I was exasperated and told Girl A that I hated her. How can this kind of thing be done? It is very, what I normally call as, 'Bas*ard'. Hmmm...should I forget about the matter and forgive them??? Can someone tell me an answer? I blocked them in MSN too.
Hi Drakonaut,
Please do pardon me for saying so, but you don't seem like a very nice person. To use coarse language along with hurtful words speak a lot of your character. Even though you are unhappy about Girl A's actions and the fact that she is not interested in you no matter what you do, you shouldn't have gone to such an extent.
Even if you can forgive Girl A, it is unlikely that either of the girls can forgive you. Your words and actions towards Girl A, despite the pleadings of Girl B to just leave things be, will probably have resulted in some frictions between the two of them. This will in turn only cause the two of them to dislike you.
It is no surprise that the two of them are treating you only as an acquaintance now. As Acid has suggested, the only thing left for you to do is to move on.
Cheers.
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Hmmm...TrueHeart, guessed that at that point of time I'm really very infuriated which had resulted in the language I used. Well, now it is really fine between all the boys and girls who are in the picture. But if want to say that we are good friends or not it is very hard to tell now...
By the way, why do I still feel to awkward talking to Girl A? Ever since I liked her, and even till now I still feel very uneasy...
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Originally posted by Drakonaut:
Hmmm...TrueHeart, guessed that at that point of time I'm really very infuriated which had resulted in the language I used. Well, now it is really fine between all the boys and girls who are in the picture. But if want to say that we are good friends or not it is very hard to tell now...
By the way, why do I still feel to awkward talking to Girl A? Ever since I liked her, and even till now I still feel very uneasy...
Hi Drakonaut,
In the past, you feel awkward talking to her because you harbour feelings for her, and is shy about it. Your uneasiness stems from the worry that she may distance herself from you if you were to say something wrong.
In the present, you feel awkward talking to her because of your own actions, and you feel guilty about it. Your uneasiness has its roots in your worry that she may turn against you any time and label you as an "enemy".
Cheers.
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Better study hard and pass your exam than having gf.
After all you still need to serve ns.
Dont get into relationship now.
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Haha...likeyou...that's right! Thank you people for the advice! =DDD
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Originally posted by TrueHeart:
Hi Drakonaut,
In the past, you feel awkward talking to her because you harbour feelings for her, and is shy about it. Your uneasiness stems from the worry that she may distance herself from you if you were to say something wrong.
In the present, you feel awkward talking to her because of your own actions, and you feel guilty about it. Your uneasiness has its roots in your worry that she may turn against you any time and label you as an "enemy".
Cheers.
i like almost every post u made... and yes this post is no exception, what u said is so true...
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Originally posted by TrueHeart:
Hi Drakonaut,
In the past, you feel awkward talking to her because you harbour feelings for her, and is shy about it. Your uneasiness stems from the worry that she may distance herself from you if you were to say something wrong.
In the present, you feel awkward talking to her because of your own actions, and you feel guilty about it. Your uneasiness has its roots in your worry that she may turn against you any time and label you as an "enemy".
Cheers.
i like almost every post u made... and yes this post is no exception, what u said is so true...
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i read over and over again. yet i cant understand.