can a guy fall in love with an ugly girl? lets say this girl is pretty nice,kind and gentle..but considered to be below average and doesnt have a good body.
yes.
and good for him!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
general opinion has it that men go for looks (sex), women go for wealth (power). women trade sex for power and vice versa.
although it's easier to fall in love with a beautiful person, whether u stay in love with her in the long run, depends on factors such as common interests, personality and compatibility. looks fade eventually. if u choose ur girlfriends based on looks, it's quite simply choosing short term gain over long term interests.
if u're in love with a girl who's plain looking, don't allow looks to get in the way of pursuing her. think about how she makes u feel, happy or sad... that's wat truly matters.
in the eyes of the beholder see beauty
i know of a case
the girl is bad to the guy but the guy still stick to her as she is pretty
but when the same guy dated an ugly girl, he dumped her for a prettier girl though the ugly girl was very nice to him
when he grows up, he will slowly learn to appreciate 内在美
im sure the ger will find someone worthy of her
Jude Law and Prince Charles managed to do just that.
Based on the title of the thread, my answer would be:-
No. I will never, ever fall in love, or even bring myself to love ugly people. The sight of them, once known, repulses and disgusts me utterly to the core. I may even spit at them in their face, and will not hesitate to warn others about their ugliness.
This revolting feature I am reffering to IS NOT PHYSICAL APPEARANCE.
I have NEVER met ANY ugly physical featured girl before, seriously.
Each has their own beauty - white or black, fat or skinny, big eyed or slanty eye, big nose or small nose, thick or thin lips, large or small mouth, long, short or botak, normal or disabled, girl next door types or whores, etc
The only UGLINESS that i know comes WITHIN A PERSON. It is her/his character attributes which either makes one appealing or appalling. Atrocious, awful, crude, boorish, careless, deficient, cunning, selfish, gross, vulgar, dishonest, vile, etc, are but some of the more ugly character traits.
Physical beauty probably last only a few minutes, but what a person said or do lasts forever, which makes others either more aware of that person or to beware him/her for eternity.
Love, friendship and even mere aquintances are too precious to be shared with people of ugly character. Even though none is perfect in physical looks or inner being, at least the character must be of a level that is acceptable to civilised mankind, capable of being trusted and be trusted.
Ugly characters will only bring one down to their level and be destroyed and hated by civlised people in the end.
TS best be more specific.
Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:i know of a case
the girl is bad to the guy but the guy still stick to her as she is pretty
but when the same guy dated an ugly girl, he dumped her for a prettier girl though the ugly girl was very nice to him
sadly, there r many such cases to prove. some guys do go for pretty girls and r willing to stick to them even though they see no inner beauty in them.
i don't think the girl feels good though, being adored not for who she is, but for wat she looks like.
Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:can a guy fall in love with an ugly girl? lets say this girl is pretty nice,kind and gentle..but considered to be below average and doesnt have a good body.
maybe tiger woods and edison chen can answer ur qn
Originally posted by soleachip:general opinion has it that men go for looks (sex), women go for wealth (power). women trade sex for power and vice versa.
although it's easier to fall in love with a beautiful person, whether u stay in love with her in the long run, depends on factors such as common interests, personality and compatibility. looks fade eventually. if u choose ur girlfriends based on looks, it's quite simply choosing short term gain over long term interests.
if u're in love with a girl who's plain looking, don't allow looks to get in the way of pursuing her. think about how she makes u feel, happy or sad... that's wat truly matters.
interests can be cultivated, personality can be groomed but looks cant be changed. And this is the ugly truth
Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:can a guy fall in love with an ugly girl? lets say this girl is pretty nice,kind and gentle..but considered to be below average and doesnt have a good body.
NO ONE is born ugly. They are just lazy to get them into good shape, or put on make up, or do facial to keep them in good appearance.
IF she really likes or loves you, she will do anything to please you such as going to gym/fitness for losing weight.
Go for it. Maybe she'll do anything for your sake.
Originally posted by ultimatenolifer:
interests can be cultivated, personality can be groomed but looks cant be changed. And this is the ugly truth
quite frankly, imo it's much easier to alter physical appearances than reconstruct the soul - personality, basic nature and moral values.
well.....if a guy likes the "ugly girl" can she still be labelled as ugly?? she will only be ugly to others but to someone she may be the most beautiful person in the world. so YES! it is possible to fall in love with "ugly" people. if they can still be called that? confusing haha
20s will go for pretty lady.
30s will go for mature and inner beauty. Not so concern on pretty.
40s will go for inner beauty.
20s young lady
30s young lady
40s young lady
Originally posted by soleachip:if u're in love with a girl who's plain looking, don't allow looks to get in the way of pursuing her. think about how she makes u feel, happy or sad... that's wat truly matters.
I agree
if really fall in love.. u wont bother much about how she looks like.
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Faithed lah.
Depend on your faith.
Some married sexy wife, some ugly wife, some fat wife, some skinny wife...your FAITH.
One word.... happy can le.
Love i think very strange de lar. So long ou with her you feel happy can le lor.
Appearance helps... $ helps..... car helps..... perfume helps....hygiene helps... personality helps..... interesting or not helps....
But in the end all depends u happy or not with her.... if not happy nothing helps.
Kind Regards
Genie
Originally posted by likeyou:Some married sexy wife, some ugly wife, some fat wife, some skinny wife...your FAITH.
alamak... now go do cosmetic surgery quite common leh...
To me, as long as the person is "xun yan", good character, does not matter if he or she is good looking,